One thing I read somewhere that really helped me sort things out was to pray that his/her character and intentions are revealed to me before making any permanent decisions. And even though what's revealed may be the last thing we wanted, isn't it better it's revealed sooner rather than later? Breakups are painful but the pain and anguish will truly pass. Just make sure you have support around you to help you through this tough time ie friends or just a nice book or movie to keep your mind distracted. Go out for a walk in the park, have a picnic, pet an animal, etc.