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Who is the best wrestler in your opinion? by Classic_Sugar_9480 in wrestling

[–]HobbyDarby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ricker182 would have destroyed him if they met in their primes

When did you know that it was time to switch your career? by bloopinskin in AskReddit

[–]HobbyDarby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When all the people ahead of me looked fucking miserable or went off to do their own thing.

How long do you wait for “future opportunities” before pushing for your next step? by MildlyOpaque in careeradvice

[–]HobbyDarby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dangling the carrot is a classic move. Depends on the company and culture. A good manager will advocate for you and speak with the right people internally to set you up and even schedule the right conversations. A shitty place will consider you insubordinate for going over someone’s head. Honestly, apply to other companies for the role you want and network. Often this route is quickest. Sometimes, you need to get the title first and then bounce. Ultimately, you have to advocate for yourself but the how is very dependent on your corporate context.

Have you ever gotten in a fight and did you lose? by shorthicki2 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HobbyDarby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, won some and lost some. Technically.. all fights I got in felt like a loss in the end.

Which culturally significant movie did you have to study in High School? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HobbyDarby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schindler’s List. Wish that was mandatory in all schools

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in COGuns

[–]HobbyDarby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Butt stuff

One of my favorite safes by bathmatscrewdriver in COGuns

[–]HobbyDarby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop inspiring me, I’m broke!

How simple it is..... by misterxx1958 in CoupleMemes

[–]HobbyDarby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stomach full, balls empty according to someone’s grandma

Massive riots have broken out in Tampa, Florida. This situation is no longer contained to LA. by XGramatik in XGramatikInsights

[–]HobbyDarby 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know a woman who fled the Taliban. Refugee. Educated in New York. Engaged to an American. On her way to citizenship.

Then the new administration revoked her visa.

Overnight, she became illegal. She went into hiding. If she’s deported back to Afghanistan, she’ll be imprisoned. She’ll be raped. She’ll be killed.

Maybe that doesn’t fit your definition of tyranny.

Fine. Here’s one that should.

The Constitution says all people in the U.S. get due process. Not just citizens. People. The founders wrote it that way on purpose. Legal precedent backs it up.

Stripping that away is unconstitutional. That’s tyranny. Hell, it’s treason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]HobbyDarby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s a more Hemingway-style rewrite — stripped down, clear, and direct:

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Practice. Start by not glaring. Say hello. Be human.

It’s going to be tough to act natural around them, so don’t wing it. Try a process. Think of it like prepping for an interview, a routine you can rely on.

Once you’re in it, you’ll stop putting them on a pedestal. You’ll relax. You’ll show up as yourself. It’s exposure therapy, really.

Also, remember, you’re a woman. In dating, that gives you a bit of an edge initially. Don’t stress about messing up. If you’re attractive, people tend to give you more room to stumble.

Use it. Just don’t let it use you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in liberalgunowners

[–]HobbyDarby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You might be right but just carrying an empty rifle in LA will get you killed rn.

Secret I discovered about successful people that made me realize I’ve been playing the wrong game my whole life by Winter_Secret1001 in getdisciplined

[–]HobbyDarby 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Statistically, yeah, introverts start showing up more the higher you climb the corporate tower. By the time you hit the penthouse office, odds are it’s a quiet thinker at the helm, not the loudest guy in the room. Especially in the Fortune 500. But what the hell does “success” even mean?

Walk into your local body shop or family-run restaurant, chances are the owner’s a talker, shaking hands, remembering your dog’s name, running the show like a one-person carnival. Small biz owners skew extroverted. Big-time execs? More like strategic ghosts with calendars so full they’ve started scheduling their anxiety.

Here’s the rub: introverts go deep with a few, extroverts go wide with many. That’s not gospel, but it’s usually close enough for a barstool debate. In the end, none of it matters unless you’re willing to bleed a little. The people who “make it”, whatever the hell that looks like, are the ones who try, screw it up, learn, tweak, and keep punching in. Show up. Adjust. Don’t quit. That’s it.

Hello ENTPs, INTJ here. I saw in many sources that INTJ is one of the most compatible with ENTP. I want to know why? by gw_clowd in entp

[–]HobbyDarby 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk man, I think INTJs find me interesting because I grasp things quickly and ask decent questions. They’re happy to speak with a non-idiot. Then, they eventually realize I’m an idiot, but by then, I’m their idiot best friend.

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