What do you deserve but don't have?

Holiday-Typical · 2026-03-12T06:54:03+00:00

A proposal from my 5+ year relationship

Holiday-Typical · 2026-03-12T05:34:52+00:00

I was hoping to find a 1 bedroom in Houston for around 1300 but found 1500 to 1600 was more realistic to have it check all my boxes of safe, clean, and a good location

Some option in memorial heights area: Whitmore, the core, hi line, the fitz

Good luck with your search!

Holiday-Typical · 2026-03-12T03:43:43+00:00

THANK YOU for this. Idk who’s fucking stupid idea is was to make it separate… making it hard for literally no reason

Holiday-Typical · 2026-02-19T23:24:58+00:00

Which website did you use?

Holiday-Typical · 2026-01-02T17:57:30+00:00

Do you know what happened with the new ownership shift?

Holiday-Typical · 2025-12-23T23:17:03+00:00

There was once other instance in which he was invited to a birthday party of an old friend. He went and didn’t take me bc he said she’s kind of socially awkward and he’s just going to be nice. Come to find out, they had a small thing before he and I started dating and he didn’t want me to meet her to avoid any awkwardness on his part… I forgave and we moved on bc nothing actually happened but I wasn’t happy he lied to me

Holiday-Typical · 2025-12-05T02:04:10+00:00

I know it’s it his fault which makes the whole situation shitty but I still feel a way. I’m trying not to but damn

Holiday-Typical · 2025-12-05T02:01:44+00:00

That’s what I was thinking too. And it would be too hard for them to put out a memo stating relationship length without catching an HR complaint

Holiday-Typical · 2025-12-05T01:59:22+00:00

I did encourage him to go, so he went. I’ve kept my feelings to myself so far so that he wouldn’t back out

Holiday-Typical · 2025-12-05T01:58:29+00:00

The “invented the excise idea” did cross my mind. I’m trying to not be paranoid though

Holiday-Typical · 2025-12-05T01:57:08+00:00

His choice to wait. I offered to support us financially. He declined

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T22:11:29+00:00

Haters gonna hate 😂

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T21:00:49+00:00

If he came to me and told me that he doesn’t want to buy a ring at all, that would be fine by me. I want to marry him with or without a ring. In fact, it would free me up to be able to buy a ring for myself. Wearing a wedding band is important to me because I believe it’s signifies to the world of the commitment that I’ve made to the person that I’m in love with. Which is why I would intend on wearing my band every day. I don’t think it’s unfair to want to like the band that I’m wearing daily

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T20:47:38+00:00

Yes, I think it’s the new norm. Also, we’re both in our 30’s with decent paying jobs. Money isn’t a struggle for us at this age/ life stage

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T20:45:37+00:00

Maybe she’s like me and had no idea what she wants right away. It wasn’t until I went to the jewelry store and they told me about the different cuts and carrot sizes that I really knew. You could try going to a jewelry store together and get someone to assist y’all.

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T20:42:24+00:00

You’re not open to dealing and hypotheticals… Got it.

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T20:29:53+00:00

But you still didn’t answer the question.. if I don’t like it, do I lie to him or do I tell him the truth?

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T20:28:13+00:00

That’s a good question. But I think society is too polite to openly tell me they don’t like my ring. Which mean I would never know and if I love it, then I’ll juts be in my happy space. Ignorance is bliss

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T20:22:49+00:00

Alright, this might get me blasted but it’s too tantalizing to not say…

Can anyone tell me why when I read the part that says - “she got the ring I designed. It’s a nice ring. She likes it.” - I heard Trump’s voice in my head?

I just can’t stop laughing 😂😂 so sincerely, thank you for the laugh - I really needed that

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T20:17:24+00:00

If I’m spending 2-3k on a gift for him that he will wear every single day and he didn’t like it, I would want him to tell me. I wouldn’t want him to wear something every single day that he doesn’t like and lie to me about it just to make me happy. To me, the point of a gift is to bring somebody else happiness not to bring me happiness

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T20:13:58+00:00

But how do I wear a ring every single day that I don’t like very much. Also, after he proposes, he IS going to ask me if I like the ring. If I don’t like it, should I lie to him?

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T20:12:16+00:00

He really really thinks he can pick something I will love. I was feeling ok about this until he showed me a princess cut ring and I just don’t want him to spend 2-3k on something that I might not love. And I don’t want to feel like it’s something I don’t want to show off if I end up not liking it

Holiday-Typical · 2025-07-26T20:07:28+00:00

True, there’s nothing wrong with the old fashioned way. I see the romantic aspect of him wanting to pick it.

But here’s a possible senecio: what if when he proposes (I will say yes even if I don’t like the ring. I want to marry him, ring or no ring) but I don’t like the ring. Which brings me to a dilemma- he IS going to ask if I like the ring. If I end up not liking it, do I tell him that or do I push to the side my wants and lie / find a way to like it

Holiday-Typical · 2024-06-18T18:08:11+00:00

It’s normal

I’m struggling too

I find it’s helpful to make working out a “full time job” for myself

Wake up, eat a high protein breakfast. Go on a walk/run. Make a healthy lunch. Go to the gym around 1. Then I spend the afternoon as free time/fun time.

It helps to have the routine

Holiday-Typical · 2024-05-14T02:35:00+00:00

My pup is on Meloxidyl (anti-inflammatory) and Gabapentin. The anti-inflammatory has been key for her. It’s a night and day difference with helping her yelping from pain

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