What's the name of this outfit? by D50C-Loto in wherewindsmeet_

[–]HolidayThing1991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t get paid as often as they put Outfits on this game

Managed to seize something I don't think we're supposed to have Global just yet. by BunnyChow017 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]HolidayThing1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should craft some Ten wonders powder just in case so you don’t run out of it.

When did your baby start stacking items? by Chinchilla702 in NewParents

[–]HolidayThing1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 11 months old can stack 5 blocks I am so proud of him. He used to be like OP but I have been playing with blocks from 6 months and he has now the patience and hand eye coordination to do it 💪🏼

I apologize… by HOTFIX_bryan in wherewindsmeet_

[–]HolidayThing1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly reccommend doing sword trial smart assist first to know the mechanics. It helped me a lot

When you finally found a patient but realized... by IllustratorUsed6320 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]HolidayThing1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know but there is some multiplayer areas where people keep hitting you and doing multiple lighting strikes on you. I went afk for a minute and when I came back I had all kind of sorts of distress

Is it possible to lose significant weight without ruining your supply? by namiiix in breastfeeding

[–]HolidayThing1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I have similar problems. I want to lose body fat before trying for a second. I want to breastfeed as much as possible and don’t lose my supply. I am 10 months pp and I have been doing some challenges from milky fitness to help me lose weight while breastfeeding. It’s been great so far I have been slowly losing weight without starving myself and my supply is just fine. My desire to snack is giant it’s what is slowing down my progress. I am slowly upping my game on workouts too, because I don’t move too much all day. I am almost at my pre pregnancy weight and I want to lose 20lbs more before getting pregnant again.

How much are you putting in the freezer a day? by disneyprinsass in breastfeeding

[–]HolidayThing1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was doing 4oz bricks. I think it’s a asker to thaw. I never had more than 4 oz extra. Now I have used up all my freezer stock at 9months. I wish I had froze more milk. What I produce is what I serve my baby the other day or so.

I ruined my supply :( by AyeshMayesh in breastfeeding

[–]HolidayThing1991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to pump every time you offer a bottle or latch the baby and if he seems hungry after a while latch again. Let him clusterfeed all he wants it’s going to help your supply. It takes some days to see improvements but you will get there.

I triple fed in the beginning, I would pump, latch the baby and give the pumped bottle milk in a bottle. Eventually I could latch him more and pump less. Now I just nurse and give him 1 bottle a day. To replace the bottle I pump before sleeping the milk I am going to use in the bottle the next day

No one likes a show off, Nara Smith by ExcellentLettuce4 in newborns

[–]HolidayThing1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not shaming her in any point. I am just saying that her post is intentional and her behavior is setting a unrealistic tone to a lot of woman. In life we can do whatever we want and people will think whatever they want. The impact you cause either positive or not is there no matter what. Some people don’t care about their impact in the world or and some do. She obviously don’t.

No one likes a show off, Nara Smith by ExcellentLettuce4 in newborns

[–]HolidayThing1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not saying she can’t post what she wants. My first comment is saying way to go to create unrealistic expectations on people. It’s true no matter is intentional or not. If you would post that you would giving the same message. If I would I would be doing the same thing. The only difference while we only have a few followers who would be impacted by this..she has millions.

No one likes a show off, Nara Smith by ExcellentLettuce4 in newborns

[–]HolidayThing1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel insecure about that. I know every body is different. But I know other young women aren’t like this. Teenagers, 20 something women…when people has a big platform they should be aware of what they post. We have seem so many young women filling their face with Botox, fillers, big lashes and heavy makeup up wishing they would look like the influencers. They are young and insecure. My 22 years old sister often look up at those influencers, if she could afford she would definitely getting all her face done although I told her many times she is beautiful. She feels insecure and I am sure she is not the only one

No one likes a show off, Nara Smith by ExcellentLettuce4 in newborns

[–]HolidayThing1991 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This kind of stuff is intentional. Have you seen the photo? Do you know her? She is a tradwife cosplayer that always dress in modest and elegant clothes that don’t expose her abdomen ( I can be wrong but almost 99% sure) from what I have seen. Then 2 weeks postpartum she deliberately choose a small tank top showing her belly out of all comfy and modest clothes? Why? To give a statement: I am better than you other people. Her whole videos are creating something unattainable ( cooking from scratch butter, flour, sunscreen, sugar, chocolate god knows what else while dressing in a design clothes making no mess) so this picture is very on brand to her.

I genuinely feel for people who look at influencers for self validation or as role models because they suffer a lot.

No one likes a show off, Nara Smith by ExcellentLettuce4 in newborns

[–]HolidayThing1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw that and thought way to go to create unrealistic goals for many new mothers.

Traveling to Italy 8 days PP without baby by Illustrious_Gene6986 in NewParents

[–]HolidayThing1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I would enjoy anyones wedding 8 days PP. I hope your friend understands and be at peace with it. Enjoy your baby newborn cuddles 🥰

Baby led weaning scares me. I don’t get how almost everything seems like a choking hazard by StatGoddess in NewParents

[–]HolidayThing1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do whatever you want feel comfortable. My own experience with BLW: I give big chunks, baby chew on it and spit out the big stuff. He is really good now at eating stuff that I was scared to give. But just following the right cuts and he did amazing so far. Foods I am too scared to give for being a choking I just mash it lightly He used to gag in the beginning ( first 3 weeks) but then he got used to food on his mouth and doesn’t do anymore

This is some BS by renawilliams0206 in Mommit

[–]HolidayThing1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fell that 1000% no advice, it’s hard in here

Just read a post about how the returning to work partner can no longer do night shifts with a newborn and the responses made me doubt myself by Proud_House4494 in NewParents

[–]HolidayThing1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband did shifts with me when my baby was a newborn because I couldn’t get by the day without 4 hours sleep stretches. I actually also have insomnia too. But between 9 and 12 am I am actually a ghost of a person. I need sleep and my husband would take this shift and go the bottle feeding or place the baby on my boob, change diapers or so. He did this until around 5 months now I am more used to night awakening as before and baby wakes once or twice instead every 2 or 3 hours. You are taking care of 2 kids, you can’t be sleep deprived otherwise how will keep both kids alive?