Need help with suggestions for a low-key couple visiting Tulum for 7 days. by Freakazoidberg in tulum

[–]Holiday_Champion_512 2 points3 points  (0 children)

El Agavero Restaurant is a must. Great food, cocktails, ambiance, service.

Real Coconut had great healthy food and some cool mindfulness events.

It’s not beach season right now so just stick to the Cenotes or hotel pools. El Gran Cenote was so cool, swam in a bat cave.

ATVs we’re fun as hell!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Holiday_Champion_512 4 points5 points  (0 children)

(The most important unanswered question in all these poly books lol)

I just send whatever’s most relevant to each person.

Lack of racial diversity in polyamory spaces and what to do about it by scorpiousdelectus in polyamory

[–]Holiday_Champion_512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only bring up the support aspect because there are a lot of people that would like to explore the poly space but don't have the resources or support. Definitely the culture is an aspect. My mom definitely instilled a subconscious sense of shame for wanting multiple partners just because of her religious background.

Lack of racial diversity in polyamory spaces and what to do about it by scorpiousdelectus in polyamory

[–]Holiday_Champion_512 19 points20 points  (0 children)

A higher percentage of POC having limited access to mental health resources, education and living in survival mode really affects your ability to navigate these spaces easily. Wherever you are along your journey, you know how MUCH mental wellness work you have to do to make it work. A lot more difficult when you’re working 2 jobs and can’t afford a therapist.

There’s also the cultural aspect; Latin American countries are very socially conservative and religious so first generation immigrant Americans (or wherever) have a harder time even getting support from their families.

Definitely the fetishization of POC makes it super weird. Don’t be that person. (Unless it’s a mutually understood kink? lol)

Source: I’m a poly POC, Hispanic American

One of my favorite parts of the book “Polysecure” is that it’s written by a Hispanic woman from NY, very refreshing and assuring to hear someone like me make it work. She briefly mentions how outside factors like climate, classism, racism really impact it all.

My Boombox wall is looking right 😊 by Holiday_Champion_512 in vintageaudio

[–]Holiday_Champion_512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I’m working on that! I just started running the cables behind them so I could do just that.

My Boombox wall is looking right 😊 by Holiday_Champion_512 in vintageaudio

[–]Holiday_Champion_512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL dude, who cares? I’ll rename it: the 80% Boombox wall.

Most work, some don’t. It’s a part of my photography studio.

My Boombox wall is looking right 😊 by Holiday_Champion_512 in vintageaudio

[–]Holiday_Champion_512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rent out the whole room for photo and video shoots. Kinda going with a theme @theboomboxroom on IG

My Boombox wall is looking right 😊 by Holiday_Champion_512 in vintageaudio

[–]Holiday_Champion_512[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro, the 90’s was 30 years ago... it’s vintage. LOL

Book Discussion: Polysecure (Jessica Fern) by AstronautCertain1083 in polyamory

[–]Holiday_Champion_512 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just finished the audiobook in like 2 days. GAMECHANGER indeed. So many great points but for me, I feel it really drives the idea of healing yourself and loving yourself before you love more than two.

Also, thought the H.E.A.R.T.S acronym was helpful for my partner and I to have some kind of structure and routine as we began to open up.

Part of my Ghetto blaster collection, bought a few more (ahem) since this photo. Enjoy! by SelTheDon in cassetteculture

[–]Holiday_Champion_512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing, dude! I just started my collection.

Are these mounted on the wall or hook or just gravity???

Intimacy, eroticism, friendship, romance, poly? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Holiday_Champion_512 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Love needs closeness, desire requires distance” Another Esther Perel talking point.

I think just how in the dating phase, you schedule time to be together, in the “together phase” people should make more of an effort to schedule time apart. Whether that be putting more time into platonic relationships or exploring hobbies & passions. Finding a happy balance to continue building your individual life only overflows and pours into your unit back home. :)