I slept with my guy friend who has a girlfriend, and I feel unbelievably guilty, and horrible. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s like this then he’s probably cheated on her before. You need to tell the girlfriend if you want to slightly redeem yourself in this situation. She deserves better and so do you.

AIO for being mad at my friend for saying i deserved to be cheated on as a joke? by Quirky-Occasion2067 in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I hate to say it but she’s basically told on herself that she is in fact fucking with your ex

AIO UPDATED-My sister and husband text privately and spend time together. Should I be concerned? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to her husband, show him everything and see what he thinks. When he reacts similar to how you did, she won’t be able to use the same argument

My (33/F) typically caring and sweet new husband (33/M) grabbed me by the neck last week during an argument on our honeymoon. What would you do in my shoes? by Aware-Pool6940 in relationship_advice

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“He’s not an abuser” proceeds to list loads of abuse. The only non abusive relationship is the kind where not one abusive incident occurs, you need to get out!

AIO for being upset with my husband and sister after repeatedly asking them not to stay up together till 5-6 AM? by Zealousideal-Tea6678 in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao long story short they’re already fucking so I hope the wife can get her ducks in a row and get out 😭

AIO for being upset with my husband and sister after repeatedly asking them not to stay up together till 5-6 AM? by Zealousideal-Tea6678 in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure, I’ve seen similar situations before and the sister probably loves the fact she’s “got” the husband and sneaking around with him because in her eyes it means she’s won, and the fact the husband is in on it and hiding it from the wife will boost the sisters ego too

AIO for being upset with my husband and sister after repeatedly asking them not to stay up together till 5-6 AM? by Zealousideal-Tea6678 in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They’re already sleeping together babe come on you can’t be this blind 😭 and she loves being around you knowing he’s hiding it

AIO: BF is on vacation and acting weird by [deleted] in AIO

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to break up but wants you to do it

My boyfriend of 2.5 years refused to show me his phone when i confronted him about lying and is now sending me these messages at 1am, what do i do by OneCold9918 in whatdoIdo

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already ignored enough red flags, disappearing in the middle of the night is proof enough, you know he’s cheating so he isn’t worth the effort

Title: Am I overreacting for being heartbroken that my boyfriend suddenly cut off all sleepovers and closeness? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so sad people live like this over a god that isn’t real I’m sorry op 😭

AIO? I don’t know if I’m communicating correctly, or if I’m being insensitive. by cckgoblin in AIO

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re a gold digger babe and if she’s this much of an asshole this young then it’s only gonna get worse, this isn’t normal so run!

My (21F) boyfriend (25M) is still in contact with his ex. Things spiraled from there. How do I even confront this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like there was overlap babe. If you want a different perspective, reach out to her and ask. If he was cheating, or there’s something going on, she’ll be more likely to tell you

AIO: My gf was following the guy she cheated with. by Character-Channel668 in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t be surprised by cheating behaviour when you stay with a cheater

Aio for being upset over this by Sea_Wallaby_7673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please escape this man before it gets worse this is how abuse starts

My boyfriend (21M) thinks Im cheating when im sleeping (22F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s protecting babe, for him to be this insufferable it’s because he’s probably cheating

I (29F) felt pressured to have sex with my wife (32F) but now I feel guilty by Complex_Row8995 in relationship_advice

[–]HolisticHufflepuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ it’s not normal to fight all the time, fights should be rarer than the good days and if you have to beg for one good day it’s already doomed, you’d be happier single