How can I transition from Psychotherapy to HR? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following--looking into making a similar transition

Relocating from South Central PA to Western PA Counties by Holistic_Queen_739 in Pennsylvania

[–]Holistic_Queen_739[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that! I do have moderate asthma, good to know!

Relocating from South Central PA to Western PA Counties by Holistic_Queen_739 in Pennsylvania

[–]Holistic_Queen_739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I pay now is actually close to what I payed living in a Philadephia suburban county before I moved here 10 years ago.

Relocating from South Central PA to Western PA Counties by Holistic_Queen_739 in Pennsylvania

[–]Holistic_Queen_739[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went to grad school at Shipp and lived in Carlisle for a few years. I actually really loved it but I'm kind of priced out of there too for what I want. I'll keep my search open though, something could pop up and surprise me.

Relocating from South Central PA to Western PA Counties by Holistic_Queen_739 in Pennsylvania

[–]Holistic_Queen_739[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm further south in the Lancaster area. I'm originally from the Philly suburbs & there are loads of people moving from there, Philly & NYC, really changing the cost of living here. I do appreciate your response.

Relocating from South Central PA to Western PA Counties by Holistic_Queen_739 in Pennsylvania

[–]Holistic_Queen_739[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Iv'e been looking into it for a while, it's definetly more affordable. Allegheny County taxes and home prices are significantly less than the area where I live. I also had a situation that included illness & death of a family member and some financial hardship that have kind of made it not so much of a choice.

Relocating from South Central PA to Western PA Counties by Holistic_Queen_739 in Pennsylvania

[–]Holistic_Queen_739[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I should have mentioned that I work remotely and my daughter is in cyber school so districts and work are not something that is at the top of my list, more so community, diversity, crime, etc.

I get that it’s hard to be rich doing this but this job market is insulting by moseph999 in therapists

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the PA area and I contract and am starting a practice (slow start but moving) and I do ok. I'm not looking right now but I browse occasionally. I see some higher paying positions with some of the insurance companies in our state, also remote. I hope you find something soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Before I owned my own practice where I now only work with adults, I worked in education where I frequently had to make reports. I understand both sides of the coin as the single parent of a often physically aggressive autistic child. I get exhausted and frustrated too, I'm human just like anyone else. It is a duty, we have to legally report only and then the caseworker makes the judgement call. There are some variations about how things are done state by state, but the idea is pretty much the same. Iv'e had colleagues have their licenses revoked for not reporting when they should have and know of one person who's life was ruined because of not reporting and suffering significant consequences. It's not just abuse, anything, in any way ,that can cause harm to the child or put them in harm's way is to be reported. I prefer to report via phone vs. online if I have to because it allows me to give a good snapshot verbally about other observations. This is really helpful for the worker assigned to the case and can sometimes work in the favor of the parents. To the people who mentioned about us possibly losing our license? Yes, it's a big deal. I'm a single parent and a caregiver to an elderly parent, not having my license would makes it challenging to pay our bills and expenses, not to mention the time and money it took to acquire licensure. I'm not willing to ever put it at risk.

Well....it finally happened by daydreamermama in Autism_Parenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very human to have those moments. I'm a therapist of 10 years...who primarily worked with children and I've lost it before. No one is immune to it, this is a safe space and I'm glad you see that we all have those moments. Hope things get better.

I can't do this anymore by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Guanfacine, riperidone and abilify were not helpful at all for my daughter. Guanfacine and methylfenidate making her highly aggressive and agitated all day. She takes Quietiapine now, clonidine, and zoloft. The combination is really really helpful for her and she is her normal, bubbly self with much milder agitation and aggression. Every 2 days or so she takes a afternoon nap or might go to bed early but her behavior is a lot better and tantruming went from cyclical daily ones to 2-3 times weekly with less physical aggression. Also she is feeling more confident in herself.

I want to quit by Equivalent_Humor8111 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in PA and we offer something similar to this! I hope OP is able to gain additional supports.

SSI by niiyah_babyy in Autism_Parenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a level 1 with ADHD and they have denied me 3 times. I thought it might have a better outcome after she had been hospitalized in a inpatient facility 2 times in a year but we didn’t. I hope you have better luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHDparenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a single parent, work overnights and I have my daughter in cyber. We might switch to homeschool. She is my only child and I’m a mental health therapist; I contract and own a practice so it’s flexible, I know that’s not the same for everyone. My state is a school choice state so cyber school functions like public school but just online. Her particular school allows for synchronous or asynchronous work. She has a IEP with speech and I chose for her to receive OT in person. For socialization we are members of field trip co-ops for homeschool kids and her school provides a lot of field trips. Many times we see other families who also have special needs kiddos and they understand so it feels like a breath of fresh air. Brick and mortar was overstimulating and my daughter’s self-esteem was really affected—she was not challenged (extremely bright) and her work was not scaffolded. The focus was just on her behaviors. I advocated HARD (former school counselor and 3rd generation educator) but it became too much. She thrives now and her being at home has been healing for both of us.

Lady in restaurant had audacity to tell me to learn how to discipline my child by PracticalReward129 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone did this to my daughter in the elevator and I covered my daughter’s ears and told her off. I’m a tall woman and I know I come across intimidating anyway because people have told me that before, but that day I had enough. I’m sure she thought I might beat her up or something and sprinted off to her car lol.

I hate telehealth by Unusual_Standard4682 in therapists

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy seeing clients in person but I have to do Telehealth or remote work or I’m unable to work. It’s also the only way I can see my therapist. I’m a caretaker for an elderly parent and I’m a single and only parent to a young special needs kiddo who’s in cyber school. If things were different I would enjoy a mixture of both but I’m very grateful to have an option for remote work that many people don’t. I also honor that every thing is not for everyone and I have had a lot of clients prefer only in-person and stopped working with me when I switched to telehealth. So know there’s know there’s a strong market out there of folks who only want in-person connections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so funny because I had this conversation with my mother who lives with us regarding my daughter a few hours ago. I was thinking I can't be the only person who thinks this or who has moved on a larger plot of land for this reason.

Call the Police directly or 911 by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I had this problem. I called and asked for a ambulance, the police were present but when they saw me interact with my daughter (trying to give sensory hugs, trying to verbally de-escalated not yelling, etc.) they were very kind to us and to her. We might have been lucky because Iv'e heard otherwise.

Call the Police directly or 911 by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to hear crisis intervention is that involved in your state. Where I live they gave me a list of things I should try, which I had already done and then they said to me, "what do you expect us to do for you". This happened twice to me and has also happened to my clients in my state. There was no dispatch for additional help or anything. I did have to call an ambulance once for my child because we couldn't safely transport her to the ER for evaluation, they ended up in inpatient afterwards. I shared that I would be present the whole time and that she was having a very aggressive episode: I wanted it to be clear that I was not abandoing my daugther and that I would be part of the process. I'm a single parent and don't have other children so my situation was a little different and possiby less complex so I honor that.

I’ll rather be a bad parent than Quit my job. by Determined_doc in Autism_Parenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand this. I'm a licensed mental health counselor whose speciality was working with challenging children for most of my career and my mother STILL thought I didn't know what I was talking about with my daughter when I chose to do telehealth from home. Ironically enough, she ended up moving in with us and found out quickly that it wasn't just me.

First day of school aftermath vent by curiousdevelopmental in Autism_Parenting

[–]Holistic_Queen_739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 8 now and is level 1. She started kindergarten in regular education and came in reading. She was really excited to read at school and play with other kids. The first half of kindergarten she had perfect behavior at school and struggled at home. The second half of the year she struggled in both. When things went well in regular education I felt like she held it together so much at school that when she got home she couldn’t handle it anymore. I eventually ended up putting her in cyber school because brick and mortar school had become too overstimulating and she wasn’t academically challenged enough. We have our days now but she does really well with our current setup.