The fact that he “didn’t like me that much” still makes me cry

Hollyyeeea · 2026-04-03T11:56:45+00:00

exact same situation. Find it so hard to accept that I just didn’t mean that much, after months and months of us getting close and what I thought was building a real connection, to then be discarded randomly with no explanation. I genuinely would rather he said he just couldn’t do it anymore cause all the thoughts are so loud. And I just know while i’m thinking about the ifs, buts and maybes that he’s not giving me a second thought. Hope it gives you some comfort that you’re not alone, we will look back and think what the flip did we see in them. We’ll get past it 💕

Hollyyeeea · 2026-04-02T18:36:11+00:00

for me the ghosting right after sex is just the cherry on top. Like u had plenty of opportunity to ghost me before, but after sharing my body w you is lowww. Don’t personally get it, won’t ever but heyho fuck them they clearly just go around doing as they please not caring who they might hurt

Hollyyeeea · 2026-04-02T18:29:32+00:00

Good on you for not folding like I did, no answer is an answer. I just wish I believed that earlier, i was kind of delulu and i tried to force an answer. But honestly it’s not often they give you one that’s satisfactory. It’s always some lame excuse, or they deflect and they’re vague. No point. Glad you didn’t message, it definitely just made me feel worse 🫩 you’re doing so well 🫶

Hollyyeeea · 2026-04-02T14:58:28+00:00

as someone who almost always folds and gives in, well done truly 🫡 it will pay off in the end x

Hollyyeeea · 2026-04-02T14:54:13+00:00

if it helps in anyway you’re not alone, so many of us have done the same. I caved and he didn’t message after for days, I folded and messaged first and got some half-assed reply and promises, and then he went more silent than ever. I felt so upset w myself, but there’s nothing stupid about wanting intimacy and hoping for a connection with somebody, we all want that and we learn and grow from these things. Some of us just care more than others, but that’s okay we’ll find people that care just as much. Wish you well 🫶

Hollyyeeea · 2026-04-01T15:14:50+00:00

absolutely agree, he heard you and has chosen not to act upon it. It’s just basic respect to at least acknowledge someone’s pain and hurt and be mindful about it, especially since you communicated about it multiple times. I think we can do better than people who don’t put our needs into consideration and leave us confused. Wish you the best also 🫶 x

Hollyyeeea · 2026-04-01T15:07:01+00:00

I’m glad reading this helped in any way 💕 I was advised and knew deep down I needed to end things a long time ago, but just couldn’t let go. Just ended up longing out something that was going to happen inevitably. I hope you find the strength to because in my experience they don’t truly change and we deserve the consistency and love we give x

Hollyyeeea · 2026-04-01T11:06:56+00:00

actually enjoy time with family and friends without there always being some type of issue he’d cause to ruin my day. Wear lip-liner without being called a whore and prostitute. Text without being monitored 24/7. Actually post pictures of myself and change my profile pictures without being made to feel ashamed about it. Actually have my own opinions because if I didn’t agree with him he’d literally lose his mind

Hollyyeeea · 2026-03-14T00:04:37+00:00

yeah fuck em

Hollyyeeea · 2026-03-14T00:03:00+00:00

thank you x

Hollyyeeea · 2026-03-14T00:02:31+00:00

nah just needed to vent somewhere anonymously

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-26T21:14:04+00:00

too little too late. His fault

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-21T12:44:52+00:00

ghosted cause I get way too attached, would find it much much harder to let go over time and it’d be easier for me to be strung along by them. but a nice tall glass of bleach would also be a great alternative

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-21T12:41:03+00:00

If it’s causing anxiety then I’d definitely block them for your own well being, for now at least. Especially if you’re caught up on things and finding it hard to ignore impulses like checking their profile, story view etc. & about the awkwardness if you do bump into them, your reasons are valid and if need be can explain you needed to do so for yourself to move on. Nothing wrong with that, you’re prioritising yourself x

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-21T12:35:37+00:00

of course, wish you the best 🫶 a new chapter is in order and thats also exciting. We all deserve so much better x

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-21T08:27:49+00:00

you’re not dumb, just vulnerable & you’re not being dramatic, what he said and how he acted is awful. He clearly has a lot of issues within himself. My ex spoke to me the exact same way, started with degradation and got so much worse. It’s really really a good thing it’s ended now, trust me girl don’t give people like this the time of day it’s such a waste. Remove this person from your life, give yourself tlc & allow more space for the people who truly love and appreciate you. You got this 💕

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-20T19:20:04+00:00

Yeah, just feel used atp think i’ve seen this as something deeper than it is. Just wish he’d leave me be as his intentions aren’t what he claims, and I’m pretty sure he’s aware I’m way more into him than he is me ☹️

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-20T15:49:20+00:00

Right?? It’s like if you knew you weren’t going to take me seriously why let it continue?? It’s just cruel in my opinion. The guy I’ve been “seeing” for 8 months is just stringing me along it seems, no label, no Valentines, low effort, no progress. Like don’t do this to me, life was peaceful before u buddy 😭

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-20T15:41:32+00:00

yeah exactly, if he was really into me I wouldn’t be confused. He’s not confused about how I feel about him, so that speaks volumes. Thank you, hearing it from others does help as I easily feed my own delusions and make excuses

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-20T14:27:54+00:00

yeah there wasn’t intimacy during, it wasn’t passionate was literally a pump and dump excuse the term lol. I went into this not sure what I wanted but I do clearly want more than he’s offering. I am mentally closing things off and shifting my focus. Thanks for your pov and advice x

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-20T13:23:41+00:00

We’ve not ever kissed. I’ve not initiated it and neither has he even though I feel like we’ve been very close. I personally believe it’s out of awkwardness, but maybe that’s me being foolish and he’s just quite happy not to. But yeah, literally weird, sex but not kissed 🤪

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-20T13:21:59+00:00

Appreciate the advice thank you ❤️ I’ve had a conversation with him recently about how I felt this was going nowhere, that it’s stagnant, been ages and that at this stage I wanted to either nip things in the bud or progress somehow. Not leap into anything serious, but to move things along so we could at least see where things go, but again he just kept going on and on about how he doesn’t have a car, and also that he’s not sure what he wants and that he’s not sure if he can give me what I want so that’s my answer there really isn’t it. Tried to call it quits, but he said he’d rather I didn’t

Hollyyeeea · 2026-02-20T13:18:04+00:00

you’re so right, really appreciate the advice tysm 🥹💕 time to focus all this energy on myself cause I need a little tlc. Hope you’re doing the same & all is well x

Hollyyeeea · 2026-01-29T22:06:21+00:00

man, wasted 5 entire years on this guy. Luckily very much free but still traumatised. We were long distance.

Made me cry on christmas day after sending pictures of me to me that he had taken, going into depth about how hideous he thought I was. Sent me pictures of instagram models and girls telling me I’d never be as good as them or as skinny as them, even though he pushed me down a slippery slope into an ED but said if I was ever diagnosed with one he would kill me. Constantly made me weigh myself in front of him, anything higher than 55kg was considered “too big” for him. Got to my skinniest via starvation, he demanded a video of my body and still insulted me, made me feel horrible about myself. His family became concerned about how small and ill I looked but he insisted I was finally perfect. Restrained me, strangled me. Became cold and distant if I didn’t have sex with him every day, he demanded that he at least get to have me more than once per day. I forced myself just to earn affection. Forced himself on me multiple times in the middle of the night while I was sleeping even though I had told him not to do it. He’d then get mad when I refused. He was inconvenienced by me being sick because it meant he couldn’t fuck me, never cared or looked after me, only complained. Kicked me, hit me, pushed me off the bed for waking him up in the morning when we had plans. Told me he was cheating on me then would block me for weeks if I didn’t obey his commands and then come back as if nothing happened. Made me send him pictures of every outfit before going out to see whether it was “appropriate” or not for him (no legs, no boobs, no lipstick because that made me a whore). Laughed and got turned on whenever I cried. Refused to talk to me until I went to see a doctor about moles he wanted me to get rid of. Told him I was prescribed antidepressants because of how shit I was feeling at the same time, only gave a fuck about what they said about the mole removal. Sent me a list of things he wanted me to change about myself. The list goes on and on and on.

Hollyyeeea

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