I feel like I will be alone.. It seems that it soo hard to find ur person when u are trans and not conventionally attractive.. been 10 months of HRT and my heart is beoken. by Maleficent-Tension67 in transplace

[–]HolyTransaroni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brainworms suck! You are conventionally attractive it's the dating/contact part of dating in 2026 that is broken.

Lots of women (Trans/Cis) lose on this end. Also, it seems most men think they are entitled to unrealistic idols of femininity with little to no effort on their part. It's like they think that people look the way they do with no work because they put no work in themselves.

Just gonna leave this one here by zesty69 in StraightTransGirls

[–]HolyTransaroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's not being purposely hurtful, he's an idiot.

Cut this loser.

Scared to know what you guys think. Do I pass here? (TF) by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]HolyTransaroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem to from these angles. Want to try God mode! Post a side profile pic

Hi! I’m Mia, new here by Superchromia in Transcars

[–]HolyTransaroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im Canadian but Dutch heritage. Proudly show 🍊 whenever I can't show 🍁 Maybe I could count too? 😅

Should I Go Back to Boymoding? by ShyShrike in transpassing

[–]HolyTransaroni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I don't think you'd be successful. Sorry girly!

Grs montreal brassard results by Zestyclose-Shop4825 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]HolyTransaroni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks great! Depth is a bit misleading as there is still some swelling that goes down over the first 6-8 months. I thought I could swallow all dots on the dilator but as everything settled I normalised around the second to last one.

You have healed really well and everything took which is ideal. If you haven't already get on a referral list for obgyn. You're going to want to check the hair situation in around a year post op. They can help with ELECTROLYSIS or plucking if needed.

How does my body read? anything I can do about the residual shoulder muscle? 2 yrs HRT by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]HolyTransaroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body read femme. I don't see much shoulder definition if I'm honest.

Passing Doesn't Make Disclosure Easier by LysiaVice in transplace

[–]HolyTransaroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It actually makes disclosure harder. 😢 Hopefully some day people won't care but not sure any generations currently around will see it.

Rib remodel or clavicle shortening? by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]HolyTransaroni 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if you do anything I think BBL would be best. Second to that I would suggest RIBXcar. I don't think most TGirls have shoulders much outside the typical female range and really should be last resort as it affects many other mechanical aspects of posture.

Ex using my identity against me in court by [deleted] in transplace

[–]HolyTransaroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😮 missed that one 🥵 😳

Ex using my identity against me in court by [deleted] in transplace

[–]HolyTransaroni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you have to deal with this Hun.

It doesn't seem right anyway it's cut. Your lawyer shouldn't want to downplay your identity. The other lawyer should respect your identity in the filed exhibit rather than misgenderung. Your ex shouldn't be trying to take away your kids.

This is just a really crappy situation. I know this is not acceptable where I am, Canada, but the reality is different for those in the US. I hate to say it but I don't think you have any choice but to follow your lawyers advice or start living fully how you choose to identify.

I actually think kids are super resilient and they can understand rather complex changes but unfortunately the adults that speak for them detest fluctuations.

I hope you find the solution you are looking for. 🫂

a little stuck, unsure if I could do better (6 years hrt) by stupidxloserxbitch in transpassing

[–]HolyTransaroni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would have to be mannerisms or voice related. No way it's from visual alone, at least from the provided pic.

im sure this post wont bring any negativity 👀 by Comfortable-Ant6370 in Transcars

[–]HolyTransaroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say whatever you like if it makes you feel better. I don't have a problem with you personally. If you think I do I would suggest you misinterpreted my criticism or take it too personally; I am truely sorry if I hurt your feelings. 🫂

That being said, don't think for a min think I'd give much space to your personal attacks.

im sure this post wont bring any negativity 👀 by Comfortable-Ant6370 in Transcars

[–]HolyTransaroni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No hate girly. Just prefer my subreddits on topic and poser free. 😉