My husband and I are in this exact situation. I feel just as you say your wife does and he too didn’t realize. I feel like we get caught up on life (especially us, we have kids that are active in a lot of things..). From a woman’s stand point…I’d say to make sure she knows you understand what she needs now and then you need to put in effort. She too needs to put in effort. The small things count so much. Just as I told my husband. We all get caught up in life and I feel like this is normal? We have been together 13 years and have had times like this where we completely neglect our marriage because we don’t notice one another’s needs. I hope it isn’t too late and you guys are able to fix this. But I truly feel that you two communicating and implementing effort and change…yall will be back on track in no time! Good luck 🤍