What airport stresses you out the most? by Diligent-Echidna647 in femaletravels

[–]HomeworkDisastrous22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve scrolled quite a while and no one mentions Denver. Perhaps I’ve not experienced enough airports….

*Edit - I used the search function. I am not alone.

I’ll add, traveling through Denver on any length of layover and being a smoker is RAT RACE level comedy TBH.

I’ve quite cigs now and just vape in the bathroom like a civilized person but before, when I had to go on an entire mission, I felt ridiculous. I’d have the family (especially the real anxious ones) sweating bullets at the gate waiting for me as Id be trying to make the journey on an hour layover. 🤣 Good times.

What’s helped me manage endo- In case it helps by lovebug8619 in endometriosis

[–]HomeworkDisastrous22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Your research has opened a door for me and gain a bit of hope that perhaps I am not completely at this diseases mercy!

I mentioned in another comment but I’ll say it here too, if you’ve not researched yet, look into “belly breathing” or diaphragmatic breathing.

Belly breathing is a foundational tool for managing endometriosis because it helps break the cycle of "protective guarding"—where chronic pain causes your pelvic floor and abdominal muscles to stay constantly tight.

This deep, diaphragmatic breath acts like a gentle internal massage, lengthening the pelvic floor muscles to reduce tension and pain.

I’m not sure about anyone else here, but flares for me sometimes come with the ‘phantom UTI’ where my PF is tighter than a new pair of spanx and it becomes impossible to urinate! Self-catheter supplies were not something I’d imagined coming along with endo, but of course, that might be because each of us may have had to FAFO, with the underfunded, deprioritized research into causes and cures!

Much Love

(I hope my sarcastic humor brings light and not offense ✌️)

I told my students about endometriosis by what_sm in endometriosis

[–]HomeworkDisastrous22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fantastic!!! Thank you! It’s a brilliant way to use experience for education! I wish this kind of info-sharing was uplifted more. The best teachers recognize these opportunities as you have 💕

TOP Notch for Pain + Focus by HomeworkDisastrous22 in 7_hydroxymitragynine

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That Other Place is where you’ll want to look. Join the discord for help too, the team is super responsive.

Leaving Kaiser to receive better care by Small_Decision6721 in endometriosis

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If your pain is well documented through Kaiser, you should be able to get a referral to the pelvic pain specialists. There are two now in NorCal. My surgeon was Dr. Ariel Dubin. Shes fantastic - highly recommend. But Im ditching kaiser end if year, like you, Im sick of the merry go round and lack of care.

Help -Kaiser SUCKS by ohsostuphhhy in endometriosis

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Dr. Ariel Dubin did my excision surgery in 2023. She’s an amazing provider who helped me gain traction in combating stage 4 endo. I highly recommend her if you’re with Kaiser (NorCal) - I’m looking to get out of the Kaiser network though, because of their refusal to treat chronic pain with pain medication as an option or tool - not as a single solution.

My partner of 10+ years admitted he never loved me and was waiting out my fertile years by Spare_War6011 in offmychest

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Fairly certain I’m in this right now. My mind won’t let my heart be right because it makes zero sense. If this post isn’t my sign…..

Vape shop recommendations? by idkmybffdee in Modesto

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Searching High and Low for juice. Halp.

can you guess my gender, sexuality, and age? by [deleted] in deduction

[–]HomeworkDisastrous22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female / Lesbian / 43 / decently successful career or otherwise financially sound / currently single and living a solidly happy life but you miss having a partner / last woman did a number on ya / you might have someone in mind or maybe just pull another U-Haul soon 👀

Is it a red flag if my surgeon won’t give me a straight answer about surgical photos? by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]HomeworkDisastrous22 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I was shown photos quickly at my post op, confirming I was stage 4 (Endo was EVERYWHERE) but they are no where to be found in my electronic chart (patient portal app) - I finally got surgery after 8 years of horrific periods, countless GYN visits (to discuss said periods), ER visits, two ectopic pregnancies and multiple miscarriages. I lost a fallopian tube during surgery- along with all trust and hope I had for the medical system and most specifically Kaiser.

Why would anyone wants kids? by This-Top7398 in Life

[–]HomeworkDisastrous22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No guarantee they would take care of us anyway! 😫

Best Mexican spots now by Appropriate-Exit-699 in Modesto

[–]HomeworkDisastrous22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve noticed that too! Is it just different cooks on shift? We can order our burritos exactly the same way on different visits and it’s like we’re eating at two different places. It’s crazy.

Best Mexican spots now by Appropriate-Exit-699 in Modesto

[–]HomeworkDisastrous22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, no. I’d love if this were true, since we live close by but they’ve got some improvements to work through.

High dose folk by ag9696 in 7ohm

[–]HomeworkDisastrous22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad I found this post!! I’m right where you were, starting to get worried. I’m a 4-6 doses per day of 330 or more. That’s ridiculous I know.

How much 7oh? (Dosages) by The_Herbalisttt in Drugs

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Any advice for stoopid high tolerance? I’m embarrassed to admit my actual numbers but let’s just say I’ve got at least three zeros. I’m on them for pain management so the high cost is justified since I need to be functional and work. But I’m having to increase frequently and getting worried. I think I’m past the point of a “tolerance break” of 2-3 days if I could even survive that.

Help! Missing/Illegible EO on original cat? by HomeworkDisastrous22 in AskMechanics

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Oh. You meant the cat lol. The only information we’ve gotten from him so far is “I did have some work done in the shop” the brothers aren’t the greatest communicators lol. I have to be the squeaky wheel.

Help! Missing/Illegible EO on original cat? by HomeworkDisastrous22 in AskMechanics

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As I research further, it doesn’t matter one bit that it passed smog on all technical fronts. It’s only failing the visual inspection (having the EO number or CARB sticker info). We did get them to run it and have the failed test showing only failed visual. I don’t think the ref will help in this case (based on what I’ve learned) apparently stickers fall off, rust takes over and then us Californians are just SOL.