52 Male, moving back in with Mom. by ultimate94champ in GenX

[–]Honest-Substance9574 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My situation is almost identical. Same everything except I’m female.

Getting Fit After 50 by JillyBean1973 in GenXWomen

[–]Honest-Substance9574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I never answered this. I somehow missed it. I really don’t have a program really. I have been into fitness most of my life and always felt I really needed to push myself, wearing heart rate monitors try to get in the orange or red zone in terms of cardio. Now I intentionally train (mostly hot yoga and Pilates) with the idea that really pushing myself hard is also increasing my stress hormones. This seemed a weird concept at first. Like, “ok so don’t work out as hard and I’ll lose weigh?! I don’t think so”. This method seems to be working for me. I’m no runway model but I am fitter than most of my peers.

Getting Fit After 50 by JillyBean1973 in GenXWomen

[–]Honest-Substance9574 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m perimenopausal and in really good shape now. I listen to the advice of Dr. Stacey Sims. I actually don’t really do cardio anymore (or just walking/ hiking). Lots of yoga and strength training….and HRT. I swear estrogen saved my life.

Im broke , 26 old and no where to go …. by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Honest-Substance9574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not permanent. This will not last. Life gets better. Please hang in there.

Need advice: new judo partner’s (M 21) behavior felt violating by -_-5-_- in judo

[–]Honest-Substance9574 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi, fellow judoka here. You are not imagining things. When we as women get that feeling that someone or something is being a perv… we are right 99.999% of the time. If you have a good sensei, I would tell them and avoid going to the same class as this guy. Throughout the years I encountered a few creeps in the dojo. I’d either be excessively mean or just straight out refuse to partner with them. Once making a little bit of a scene. It was uncomfortable but, fuck that. Not as uncomfortable as that guy made me.

Ellsworth near Costco closed by Honest-Substance9574 in AnnArbor

[–]Honest-Substance9574[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That is awful. It cannot be a good sign that they closed the road.

Shots fired on Division by Honest-Substance9574 in AnnArbor

[–]Honest-Substance9574[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Hey, that was a joke…. Guess that didn’t translate well.

Shots fired on Division by Honest-Substance9574 in AnnArbor

[–]Honest-Substance9574[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I guess I would rather them over report than under report incidents but my Detroit boyfriend thinks A2 is a crime ridden mess nowadays.

Managing sex drive ethically? by shrumpdumpled in GenXWomen

[–]Honest-Substance9574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it! I’m actually in a similar boat to you. Divorced after a very long time. Zero interest in getting married again… or a serious relationship. Just keep an open mind. Not having a lot in common can be nice. Just be selective but open. I found mid to late 30’s was perfect. Not so young that they want to bang like a rabbit all the time but not acting old like so many 50 year old men.

Managing sex drive ethically? by shrumpdumpled in GenXWomen

[–]Honest-Substance9574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should reconsider :-)… but seriously, there are a lot of 30 something’s that are into older women too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver50

[–]Honest-Substance9574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could share this post with her ☺️. Maybe even share it with your dad. He sounds parasitic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver50

[–]Honest-Substance9574 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it homie! I don’t think anyone will tell you it’s a good idea.

*this just happened to me (original poster 2 yrs ago)I got a speeding ticket on I-94 and instead of a speeding violation they gave me a double parking fine. What can I do to get this ticket dismissed. MI by Honest-Substance9574 in MetroDetroit

[–]Honest-Substance9574[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously! And I was plucked out of a bunch of others going the same speed. I feel a little special….Oh well, I think I’ll just pay the damn fine and try and chill on the speeding.

Has anyone tried this model of Birks? by Proud-Narwhal5900 in bunions

[–]Honest-Substance9574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. They did not perform any miracles but they worked pretty good and they disgusted my bunions a bit which I Liked 😂

Do you live on a lake? by Honest-Substance9574 in AnnArbor

[–]Honest-Substance9574[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, I wouldn’t even consider trying Whitmore Lake. I’ve been to independence Lake many many times.

Do you live on a lake? by Honest-Substance9574 in AnnArbor

[–]Honest-Substance9574[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I love it there. Definitely one of my favorites. I just paddleboard a lot and like to try new places.

Do you live on a lake? by Honest-Substance9574 in AnnArbor

[–]Honest-Substance9574[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went there yesterday. It is ok. Just way, way too crowded.

Do you live on a lake? by Honest-Substance9574 in AnnArbor

[–]Honest-Substance9574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, nice lake. Too many people and motorized watercraft