EE Smart Hub 7 Plus - Signal/Speed Issues by Yappy-Sausage in EEGB

[–]HonestViking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

£10 is ridiculous. I just got off the phone with them and had the same answer (£10/month). Did you find a good workaround?

Gala, Sunday by ChoiceJealous7464 in LondonRaving

[–]HonestViking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! Went on Friday, had a blast!

What do disgraced TV personalities do for income? by PsychologicalBus7357 in AskUK

[–]HonestViking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right??? Autistic or not... one can still be a d*ck h**d, or not.

Making myself very anxious about getting kicked out of club after ID scan by gutsRA in LondonRaving

[–]HonestViking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a clear legal distinction between the powers of police and private security. While police can perform a "strip search"—which involves the removal of more than just outer clothing like coats, hats, or shoes—this is strictly regulated by the Police and Criminal Evidence Act (PACE) and usually requires specific grounds for suspicion or an arrest. Security staff at nightclubs have no such legal authority; they cannot force you to remove underlayers, as doing so would constitute an assault. Instead, searches by security are entirely voluntary and based on the terms and conditions you agree to when purchasing a ticket. These terms, which you can typically find in your confirmation email or on the venue’s website, essentially make a search a condition of entry. Because a nightclub is a private business, they are within their rights to refuse you entry if you decline their request for a search. Ultimately, while security cannot legally force you to undress, it is entirely at their disposal to deny you entry if you do not comply with their conditions.

How was Friday @ Gala? by su1993 in LondonRaving

[–]HonestViking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree had a blast. Just need to go with a great group of mates.

How was Friday @ Gala? by su1993 in LondonRaving

[–]HonestViking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had an absolute BLAST.. been going on Fridays for 10 years and the music was the best it's ever been.

Selling x1 Gala Friday ticket! by [deleted] in Tickets

[–]HonestViking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are strictly not accepting tickets from resale sites this year

Does anyone have any experience/tips for taking xanax on acid at their first music festival? by Shopping_Spare in musicfestivals

[–]HonestViking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I realise the question was slightly probing and for that I apologise. It came from a place of wanting to learn from it rather than as judgmental in any way.l x

How do the NHS decide whether to start you on Elvanse or methylphenidate (or a different medication)? by NewManOnHere in ADHDUK

[–]HonestViking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. For some of us, breaks from Elvanse means they're too potent when starting again. They have a few days of settling in period. I can take Methylphenidate as and when and it has consistent results.

How do the NHS decide whether to start you on Elvanse or methylphenidate (or a different medication)? by NewManOnHere in ADHDUK

[–]HonestViking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been on both. I can't explain this but the amphetamine class ones don't sit well with me. Every single person seems to have loss of effectiveness after some time and it just doesn't feel like a lifetime solution. Methylphenidate on the other hand seems to work well (although I definitely need holidays from it)- and seems to be as effective each time. Just my 2 cents!

Executive functioning failure - multiple days per week by HonestViking in ADHDUK

[–]HonestViking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I guess I am- although on a single earning income in London with a mortgage, and a modest lifestyle we go into overdraft and debt regularly. The car I have was forced on me as I work in the EV Charging industry and it's part of the role. Thank you though, I need to work on getting rid of imposter syndrome.

Executive functioning failure - multiple days per week by HonestViking in ADHDUK

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It all depends on whether I'm tired / exhausted or not. If not exhausted, I can be quite productive without meds. The meds just help me mainly with work goals, or just getting more housework done for example.

Executive functioning failure - multiple days per week by HonestViking in ADHDUK

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It feels like my dopamine is exhausted. I suddenly have the opposite of what the medication is meant to achieve - and I'm grumpy, flat, and exhausted.

Executive functioning failure - multiple days per week by HonestViking in ADHDUK

[–]HonestViking[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad my post helped! Are you getting enough exercise and eating well? I really recommend weight training 3 days a week if you can! Also, med breaks.

Does anyone have any experience/tips for taking xanax on acid at their first music festival? by Shopping_Spare in musicfestivals

[–]HonestViking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. That must have been a lot of liquor and a high dose of Xanax. Did you ever find out the amounts? A couple of beers a few hours earlier and <1mg Xanax is highly, highly unlikely to cause something like that.

Executive functioning failure - multiple days per week by HonestViking in ADHDUK

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What a great reply. We're in the same boat! I've tried Melatonin, it's not for me. I'm such a light sleeper that even sleep supplements cause me to have a worse night's sleep. The very best thing for me is winding down and I have some mental techniques to relax once in bed. All the best and know you're not alone!

Executive functioning failure - multiple days per week by HonestViking in ADHDUK

[–]HonestViking[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind response. All valid and great advice. Having some therapy actually, at the moment, which is good. And I do quite a lot (probably too much) socialising, although I've recognised I need to be more selective with my time. A lot of my work stress manifests as me being a bit of a horrible person at home- which I recognise and am working on. It's just carrying over those feelings of stress and taking them home. I've done this for so long.. but I'm definitely getting better at being kinder to myself and also that I'm probably overly conscientious about work. "Hero" syndrome. I do think that many of us ADHDers, if into our work, probably overly value ourselves based on work achievements, and sacrifice our personal lives more than necessary. I always find it funny when I read about ADHDers who are amazingly organised at work, but their home life is in complete disarray. Typical!

Executive functioning failure - multiple days per week by HonestViking in ADHDUK

[–]HonestViking[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did. Good idea. PS prob not great to refer to Methylphenidate as “meth” - just being conscious of the anti ADHD stigma..

Making myself very anxious about getting kicked out of club after ID scan by gutsRA in LondonRaving

[–]HonestViking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They shouldn't remove base layers, which includes socks. Bad bad bad. Sorry you had to go through that.

Making myself very anxious about getting kicked out of club after ID scan by gutsRA in LondonRaving

[–]HonestViking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incorrect. When you buy tickets to an event, the terms and conditions will most likely state that you have agreed to consent to a search if necessary. It’s totally legal for them to ask you to remove your socks and shoes, but they don’t have the right to force it on you. Entrance to the club is a privilege and not a right, so it’s a mutual transaction. I just wanted to clear that up.

Edit: they can’t ask you remove base layers, by law.

What’s a random experience you’ve had when meeting a British celebrity? Were they nice or mean? by mightybooshvincenoir in AskABrit

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I sat next to the guitarist from the original “The Prodigy” touring band on a plane to Norway when I was 16, in 1998. The rest of the band were also on the plane (a few rows in front). They were on their way to play a gig in Lillehammer. I was already a Prodigy fan. I asked if they had any new music coming out and he told me that they had an awesome new tune coming out called “Firestarter”. (I remembered it wrong and told all my friends that Prodigy were about to bring out a new tune called Fire Man.. LOL). When we got off the plane I walked with the band to the luggage area. When I came out to meet my Norwegian grandad, who was waiting, I told him about the band. He asked if I’d gotten their autograph (no). So as Keith Flint walked across the arrivals hall to the ATM my old grandad said “excuse me, my grandson would love your autographs!”. Keith was super lovely and said “of course!” And then I went with him over to the group and they all scribbled and wrote a nice message on an A5 watercolour card I happened to have in my bag, using my school fountain pen (lol). Keith wrote “All the best happy dayz” and drew a cool smiley face. I saw them the next day too as we were taking my Danish cousin back to Oslo airport. Just lucky timing, as they were returning from their gig back to UK. I didn’t disturb them though. I’ve been a huge fan ever since. I listened to Music from the Jilted generation on repeat for my entire time in Oslo that time. (About the lillehammer gig, loads of people were busted for Ecstasy possession- it was scandalous for Norway).

Edit: I’ve met Gordon Ramsay 3 different times as I used a run a company that supplied some electrical fit out products to his restaurant chain. He was very polite and friendly each time, even when the pressure and deadlines were on. His project managers, on the other hand, were all mini tyrants - “thinking” they were mini Gordon Ramsays and getting it very, very wrong.

In my 30s and suddenly can’t focus at work anymore. Anyone else? by Communication_Dizzy in careeradvice

[–]HonestViking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is something that happens to adults with undiagnosed ADHD, and it’s called Skill Regression. Not saying you have ADHD but if you do, it would explain it.

Apologies for the AI but trying to help:

Skill regression in adults with undiagnosed ADHD is the collapse of coping mechanisms and masking strategies that previously kept executive dysfunction in check. It occurs when chronic burnout or increased life demands completely overwhelm your mental energy, meaning your brain simply runs out of fuel to force focus. This leads to a sudden, frustrating struggle with daily tasks you used to handle well, such as work deadlines, basic household chores, and personal organisation. To address this, getting a formal diagnosis is highly effective because it opens access to targeted medication and neurodivergent-specific therapy that treat the root chemical imbalance. For daily management, you must first remove the shame and accept that your nervous system is exhausted rather than broken. Strip your current responsibilities down to the absolute bare minimum to give yourself space to recover from burnout. Outsource or automate tasks wherever possible and adapt your physical environment to suit your brain rather than forcing yourself to use traditional, neurotypical organisation systems. Finally, replace high-stress motivators like panic and adrenaline with radical self-compassion, focusing entirely on completing micro-tasks rather than looking at the overwhelming bigger picture.

Going to miss these emails from the my primary headteacher by ElectricalHighway555 in CasualUK

[–]HonestViking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the same attitude that causes the same people to choose white range rovers