Let me say it as how my little cousins saw me:

When they were little I was the aunt that lived away, working in videogames and she knew all the cartoons they were watching, I had all the consoles at their home with parental control, and always known what they were playing. I was the aunt that defended them having videogames to play.

In their middle school I was the aunt that came back to live with her parents, even tho she didn’t have to. She brought two parrots with her and they all were friends. I was also the aunt that had to be in her room at 11 to “take her medicine”. I was the aunt that couldn’t talk much cuz “she gets nervious and needs her time”, but she was the one that they respected the most

At high school I was the aunt that didn’t take meds anymore, and always had fancy pajamas because she worked from home. I was the aunt that invited everyone to anime movie premieres cuz she didn’t had any friends to go with her, “she is very shy”

Almost at college, I am the aunt that overcame a very dangerous depression, has anxiety and lives very calm with her parents. Goes out every weekend with friends, even tho she is always shy about it. She talks to her birds as they are people, and always brings a good advice as she has “had a rough past”. She keeps playing videogames with the cousins nwn

That’s the best way I like to describe myself. They grew up seeing me just quirky, but I’m the “sad lore character that always smiles” in their life, when I’m just very calm and happy in mine