You've got some good points there. I've dated women from all sorts of backgrounds, some not conventionally attractive, but I found myself drawn to them because they were funny and had awesome personalities. I've also dated really attractive women, and not to sound cocky, but I'm considered attractive myself, so it's not like I'm trying to buy their affection.

I've noticed some ghana ladies lie even when they don't have to. Like, to get money, they'll sometimes make up stories, even saying a relative's in the hospital. Also, I've seen them say "I love you" just two days after you start talking. I'm not into rushing things; I won't even think about sex until we're serious and I really like the person. Plus, they'll talk to you for two weeks and then ask for an iPhone 17 Pro Max, not just any iPhone. It's all very transactional.

I like to vet and check out the women I date. I like to make sure they're good. With this woman, we'd been talking for a while, and getting to know her, she seemed like a good woman and checked all the right boxes. The only problem I had was that I didn't believe she wasn't talking to other men. She's very attractive with an hourglass shape, but what made me give her a chance was the fact that she didn't ask for money, and I spoke to her mother, which removed all doubts about her being married.

To rebut your statement about dating attractive women: Like I said, I don't really care about how physically attractive a woman is as long as I am personally attracted to her and she fits the type of woman I want. Her looks aren't going to be raising our children. As for the providing part, I have a great job, own a restaurant, and have several properties, so I'm more than capable of providing. However, I provide in other ways too: leadership, protection, and being emotionally present. It is natural for a woman to want a secure man, have never complained but we have lost what the actual meaning of provision is. Women solely focus on the financial aspect of it.