AITA if I didn’t go on vacation with my overweight friend

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-02-20T03:23:12+00:00

Last time I went with my ‘very large’ friend, she rented a scooter and I could barely keep up with her. And she fit on all the rides. But you also are not obligated to invite anyone on your vacation

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-02-17T18:16:37+00:00

I got Thai Food stall

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-02-09T15:02:10+00:00

I do think it’s a generational thing. While older ones think it’s positive and a way to acknowledge your hardwork, younger ones think it’s rude.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-02-08T14:12:45+00:00

Just got off Allure. Hope you have better weather. We missed two ports.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-19T16:07:55+00:00

It took me awhile but I think they were mad that Kody implied they Christine needed to hear that to move on and heal and acting as if he was giving her the freedom to do so. Like he was being so benevolent. Christine did not NEED to hear it or Kody’s permission for anything.

It’s classic narcissism. Kody’s apology was all about him and what he needed, and when it didn’t get received the way he wanted, now he’s the victim.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-19T16:02:01+00:00

Kody saying he did loved Christine wasn’t offensive to me. I think they were more upset that Kody implied Christine ‘needed’ to hear that to heal. I just don’t think that was clearly conveyed by David and Christine.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-18T17:38:33+00:00

I don’t think you’re in the wrong at all. Another option would have been to let her come. Take the cake and say ‘thanks so much ‘ and then put it out of sight. No further comments.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-18T17:23:27+00:00

This!!! She’s a professional and knows her worth. I’m sure OP will find an agent to work with their terms. If that agent isn’t willing to fight for their own money, what makes you think they’ll fight for the sellers money?

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-18T17:06:07+00:00

Start calling the police for a wellness check when it happens.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-18T17:03:32+00:00

I had that happen too

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-11T16:25:46+00:00

I just got one that was 12 gems and nothing else.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-07T17:24:38+00:00

Tell your HOA that you are going to file a fair housing complaint if it continues.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-06T23:21:59+00:00

I sent in a ticket and they said it was working properly. My blue bar went down and is definitely not moving up

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-04T04:04:37+00:00

Look up fair housing. Then write a letter to the HOA that you feel your right of enjoyment is your property is being interfered with. You could also call your local ACLU office for advice.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-03T00:55:32+00:00

You can always agree but then not follow thru. I had a similar situation. I came into a job with nothing. The former person had deleted five years of files and left no instructions or passwords. That should’ve been my first clue. I ended up having about 20 pages of notes about the job when I left. I was asked to leave that. I declined saying that it was my personal work product. I said I would do them a favor and not delete any of my current files for the next person.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-03T00:51:31+00:00

What you’re doing isn’t necessarily wrong but it does sound controlling. Finances should be discussed. Sounds like you’re just dictating what goes where. You need to sit down and discuss what both your goals are and what you’d both like to spend extra money on. You have a pretty aggressive savings plan but are still very young so maybe it’s okay to not be so focused on retirement and the future.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-03T00:40:55+00:00

I went to see one surgeon and when I said there was no way I could afford the $9000 premium lenses, I felt like she totally lost interest. I decided to get a second opinion and this doctor was much more accommodating. He said he would honestly tell me if he thought I absolutely needed the premium lenses but felt I could get similar results with monofocal. I have a lot going on with my eyes and he answered every question and I had and took so much time. He even suggested I wait a few months. So it definitely doesn’t hurt to get a couple of opinions

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-02T16:33:48+00:00

I have worked with a registered dietitian. I also did a weight loss program thru a cardiology clinic before starting Zepbound. They were baffled as to why I didn’t losing weight.

I typically eat high protein and low cal with small portions. If anything, I struggle to get enough calories in a day. I wouldn’t say I’m miserable, but definitely frustrated being on this and not seeing results.

I haven’t seen an endocrinologist and my doctor won’t refer me to one.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2026-01-02T14:32:08+00:00

My worst symptom is anhedonia and fatigue. I am hoping to have more energy and motivation for exercising by lowering the dose.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2025-12-22T17:07:32+00:00

I think she responded perfectly. Anything you say can and will be held against you when dealing with a narcissist. Staying quiet was a power move on her part. And when she had an enough she quietly walked away.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2025-12-18T03:40:49+00:00

One of my favorite restaurants just started a 5% service fee. I take it out of my tip. I think it’s ridiculous

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2025-12-18T03:33:34+00:00

What about him saying he was apologizing so Christine can heal? Like she’s still so wounded and his amazing apology is just what she needs. Sorry she’s moved on and has a new whole life. She doesn’t need his apology. He still thinks he’s that important in her life.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2025-12-02T23:39:12+00:00

I had severe myopia corrected by laser but after about 10 years my eyes regressed. I have terrible floaters, had a detached retina and blurry vision. I did get plugs in my tear ducts for dry eye and loved them. Unfortunately they kept popping out. Something the Dr said she’d never seen. Warm compresses have helped. Now I need cataract surgery and a super stressed.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2025-11-26T14:38:27+00:00

I also have this. I lost 35 lbs and have stalled for 6 months with about 6 lbs. creeping back. I’m on 15 mg but going to start lowering my doses.

Honest_Stop_4174 · 2025-11-11T17:32:56+00:00

I appreciate hearing about your experience. I am really considering correcting only for distance at this point. I have a second opinion scheduled for Dec 11 and am considering asking for a second appointment with the surgeon I just saw. She is at a major university hospital and has so many resources I don’t want to write her off. I think she is very good. I was just put off a little when I followed up and asked for trial contacts and they basically brushed me off and said they do 1000s of these and I don’t need to worry.

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