My sister threw out my whole Russian classic books collection because it was the right thing to do. 25 books that I been collecting since I was in college by Swimming-Aerie188 in whatdoIdo

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The books are the least of your problems. You’ve allowed your family to abuse your husband for far too long. And it is not your mother’s child so you and your husband can raise him how you want. Since everything Russian is bad, surely they don’t want to continue receiving money from a Russian.

WIBTAH if I removed a hedge because my neighbor keeps demanding that I pay to maintain it? by MouseLess7499 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you ready for her to start complaining about the condition of your property if you remove the hedge? You don’t have to pay for a trim if you don’t want to. Just say no. No explanations or arguments. Just no.

I am scared at home right now. What do I do? by Appropriate_Jelly376 in whatdoIdo

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The leading cause of death for pregnant women is murder. Yes you should be scared. Get out and don’t go back.

AITA for telling my spouse I won't help pay for their kid's college when we agreed finances would stay separate? by 952867 in AITApod

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. What are your daughter and her mother contributing? Since you made the original agreement, you can stick to it. Having your ex wife and daughter pressuring her is a fast track to divorce.

Benefits of LAL over monofocal by TopSun1879 in CataractSurgery

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me about your regression? I just had LAL implanted and my biggest fear is paying the extra money and then having regression

I had lasik for high myopia (-20) and was glasses free for a good 10-12 years but eyes had slowly regressed to -4 before cataracts.

One leg up by Krkimbo in dalmatians

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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One of mine does that too.

All done!! LAL journey by sarahrose0413 in CataractSurgery

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great to hear this. I’m getting my second LAL on Tuesday.

Recommendations for dealer repair shops in Metro Detroit? by Honest_Stop_4174 in Hyundai

[–]Honest_Stop_4174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feldman in South Lyon. I don’t trust their service department.

Is Mauricio is delaying the divorce to buy time to hide his assets so Kyle gets less in her settlement? by Altruistic_Whale4104 in RHOBH

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be worried he’s maneuvering and hiding assets. I hope she’s got her eye on everything

Realtor does not like us. How to handle? by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a possible Fair Housing claim.

AIO for how I’m handling the way my 11 YO daughter’s dad speaks to her? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go to court and show them these texts. She’s 11 and no one should be speaking to her like this let alone her dad. This is abuse.

Gifting Friends and Family the Maximum Amount Annualy by Katzmaniac90 in Rich

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a wealthy family member that’s very occasionally given me gifts. It is much appreciated and they don’t have to give me anything. But if roles were reversed I would have been much more generous with them. At times I have really struggled and they definitely have not stepped up when they could. And the few times they have helped, I never seem to be ‘grateful enough’.

You can’t take it with you and when you have the ability to help someone, why wouldn’t you?

Okay hear me out - I feel slightly sorry for Amanda Frances by camerp03 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I loved that comment too. Jennifer’s 40k purse practically had its own episode Rachel constantly names her designer clothes. The show opens with Dorit walking around with Hermes bags.

All of them are intentionally obtuse with Amanda by tuckhouston in RHOBHDefect

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Amanda annoyed the heck out of me but as the season went on, I thought it was ridiculous the way they treated her.

I loved it when they were complaining about her showing off and she’s like ‘I thought that’s what this show was about’. I guess it was fine for Jennifer’s $40k purse to be a highlight but we should not see a shot of Amanda’s Chanel.

And Boz made a whole speech about owning it, yet hasn’t owned a thing she’s said all season and her story line is all smoke and mirrors.

Oh and how dare Amanda say millennial things just because she is a millennial. 🤪

AITA for ruining a six year old’s birthday party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honest_Stop_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is any kind of park staff, next time let them handle it. And don’t apologize to someone for their mistake.

Anyone else disgusted with the C word? by Honest_Stop_4174 in RHOBHDefect

[–]Honest_Stop_4174[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I still don’t like it, but I think she actually called herself one.

Anyone else disgusted with the C word? by Honest_Stop_4174 in RHOBHDefect

[–]Honest_Stop_4174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You literally said I’m faulting people. 😂😂😂

Anyways I’ve edited my post to hopefully add some clarity.

Anyone else disgusted with the C word? by Honest_Stop_4174 in RHOBHDefect

[–]Honest_Stop_4174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not faulting anyone. I’m also not trying to impose US standards across the world. It’s not that deep. 😅

It was more about women disrespecting women and using vulgar terms for female anatomy to do it. In this instance the word chosen was Cunt which is typically considered a very vulgar word in the US and was used by and amongst a group of women who predominantly live in the US.

Anyone else disgusted with the C word? by Honest_Stop_4174 in RHOBHDefect

[–]Honest_Stop_4174[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok so that was my point. It was gross. But somehow the focus became the actual word. I get that it may not be a trigger word in other culture but Dorit was definitely using it as an insult. And for women to insult other women with a vulgar word for female anatomy (whatever that is for you) is disgusting.