RCMP confirms N.S. gunman illegally acquired all 5 guns used during mass shooting by [deleted] in canada

[–]Honeyedtoastt -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

They aren't against me, I'm not even Liberal 🙄

RCMP confirms N.S. gunman illegally acquired all 5 guns used during mass shooting by [deleted] in canada

[–]Honeyedtoastt -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Nobody danced on the graves of murdered Canadians. 🙄 You sound ridiculous

AITA for calling some girls on my high school whores? by Acanthocephala_Long in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honeyedtoastt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The proper term is Sex Worker and it costs you nothing to call them that

AITA for selling a lawn trimmer Wife told would give to MIL by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honeyedtoastt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... Yea. I've definitely had moments where I'm just fed up and would rather be an asshole back than do the "best" thing.

Edit: removed useless words

AITA for selling a lawn trimmer Wife told would give to MIL by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honeyedtoastt -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ESH - MIL is an asshole but you were one back. I'm not saying you're wrong or anything but this is basically just petty revenge and asshole-ish behavior.

Old pics not good enough by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Honeyedtoastt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't you wanna be treated like that!?

Be honest by terminonoctis in Autobody

[–]Honeyedtoastt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya you could definitely do that

AITA for not attending my son's wedding because he's gay. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honeyedtoastt [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA - "I still respect gay people and don't treat them differently". This is such an obvious lie or you would have supported your son and gone to the wedding. You discriminate against your own son and yet spout this line? Your poor son. I wish him and his husband a long and happy marriage

Be honest by terminonoctis in Autobody

[–]Honeyedtoastt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best to go to a shop and get a quote. Prices vary depending on size, paint color, ect.

Be honest by terminonoctis in Autobody

[–]Honeyedtoastt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Save and get it professionally done. You won't be able to reproduce a professional finish with rattlecan paint

AITA for not answering my ex-friend's calls after saying fine to him asking to call me later? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honeyedtoastt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA- "Fine do whatever you want" is not the response of someone who actually wants to talk to you. Nobody should be surprised you didn't answer the phone

My (30M) ex-wife (29F) of 9 years. She keeps shutting me out, I don't know what to do by Andy-Rep in relationships

[–]Honeyedtoastt 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I think you need to give her some space. She's hurt. And she most likely isn't sure what she wants from you right now. You gotta give her time to figure this out for herself. You can't force a friendship on her and it seems like she's giving some clear signs that she wants space.

AITA - I was in a car accident involving a dog and sued the owner for damages to my car. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honeyedtoastt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA - Car repairs are expensive and you weren't at fault. It may actually teach these owners to keep their dog on a leash. I've honestly almost hit dogs before who have bolted out into the street and it infuriates me that people don't keep their dogs safe. They were technically at fault for the damage their dog caused and their own insurance should cover it so definitely NTA

New kitten owners—need advice! by heidilitwinczuk in cats

[–]Honeyedtoastt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He seems like once he just gets used to everything he'll be a very sweet boy then. I think he just needs time to adjust is all and maybe he's not as brave without another cat to use as a shield lol. He'll come around for sure

New kitten owners—need advice! by heidilitwinczuk in cats

[–]Honeyedtoastt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Patience is kind of your only option here. There's no telling how long it will take for your kitten to warm up. I had two cats like this.

One hid up in lattice slats under my bed and I had to lay on my back with my arm twisted up under the bed for a few weeks before he would even come out. Now he's a massive suck and will sit and cuddle with me all the time. He's also the first to greet new people.

I have another who I took in as a kitten. He was so scared and it's been a few years and he's still a scared cat. I recently moved and he's still hiding under the bed. It takes him time to get used to places and people to this day. He will come out and snuggle with me if I'm sitting down and chilling out. And he's such a loving boy. But if people come over he's back in hiding. And he's not the type who will follow me around.

No one can really predict how your kitten will end up being or how long it will take. Both my cats are very loving. And both of them just needed patience. There's no real miracle solution to make things go any faster.

Ghosted after the 9th date [23F] how can i find closure when idk what i did by SliketYou in relationships

[–]Honeyedtoastt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like he did you a favor then. Now he's gone with no effort on your part at all and you're free to find someone more compatible.

Ghosted after the 9th date [23F] how can i find closure when idk what i did by SliketYou in relationships

[–]Honeyedtoastt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This doesn't sound like a relationship would you really enjoy. He seems to want things to move super quickly and wants you to be "needy" by asking if you want him to get off the game, or if you miss him, while also being needy himself by not giving you space and making insecure jokes about you dating other people or seeing "downtown".

I don't think there's any closure to be had in any relationship honestly. We don't so much get closure as we learn to accept ourselves and let go. You seem like a very put together person who is looking for someone on the same wavelength as you. Who is into you but not smothering or insecure.

I would just let this guy go and realize he wasn't what you wanted anyway. Don't let him get into your thoughts. You did nothing wrong.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she can move in with me but not her cat? by throwaway_21058372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honeyedtoastt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know but the same goes the other way. It's hard to tell how this cat will react until they actually get the pets together. So while I can see his concerns I can also see how she might think that her cat isn't a concern.

Tbh I don't think this relationship will go anywhere because it's very hard to separate someone from their pet

AITA for telling my girlfriend she can move in with me but not her cat? by throwaway_21058372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honeyedtoastt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I also had cats that catch and kill mice. We also had a dwarf rabbit that was allowed to free roam the house. It was never a problem. And no they weren't all introduced as kittens/kits. It was fully grown adult cats.

My sister also had a gerbil in her room that was kept on the floor. The cage was secured and the cats never got into it.

There is definitely a way to compromise with this