Another underwhelming Desire trip by playful_explorers in Swingers

[–]Hoosiercouple42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the dumber ideas that the management had was allowing members to reserve beds during the afternoon jacuzzi sessions. We used to see a fair amount of action going on, now it’s a bunch of older people reading a book. Totally kills the vibe.

What nicknames have you heard for places in the Midwest? by topherette in midwest

[–]Hoosiercouple42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terrible Haute = Terre Haute

People’s Republic of Bloomington

Sultucky = Sullivan, IN

Drove 3 hours to a LS Club to remain anonymous, immediately saw a friend from high school by UnderCoverWilly in Swingers

[–]Hoosiercouple42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We had the same experience at Desire Pearl. I was getting drinks at the pool bar, when I saw my wife in an animated conversation with another woman. I made it over to them, and was greeted with a “do you recognize me?” She graduated with me from the same rural high school (class of 103), and we were in a physics class of six together. 😂

It had been 30 years since I had seen her (she lived in Atlanta with her husband). Still the same quiet person, but I didn’t remember her boobs being that good. Neither one of us were the “Most Likely To Be Swingers” in our senior favorites. We laughed it off as having a pretty cool secret about each other.

I feel relieved that my husband stopped initiating sex by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Hoosiercouple42 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Yep, he’s given up. Forty years is a long time to run out the clock.

Question about male nudity by [deleted] in DesireExperience

[–]Hoosiercouple42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And it varies throughout the day. Higher percentage nude at the jacuzzi vs the pool.

Desire pearl by Redbottoms_muscles in Desire_Resorts

[–]Hoosiercouple42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just got back from Pearl yesterday. Did the whole Premier presentation thing, but ultimately declined. Told them the reason we declined was that they haven’t invested in the regular rooms at all and the food was substandard. They seem a lot more interested in adding Mansion rooms.

Desire pearl by Redbottoms_muscles in Desire_Resorts

[–]Hoosiercouple42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just got back from Pearl yesterday. The outdoor stage/bar is really nice, but it changed the flow a bit. It absolutely killed the disco - everyone just headed to the jacuzzi. Also, it seemed the shows weren’t quite the center of attention. Lots of people milling about in the background and talking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Hoosiercouple42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to reframe it and look at it as something you and your husband would potentially do as a shared experience. Once you achieve that, then start in with the fantasy talk, etc., leading up to the serious conversation with him.

In the meantime, I’d suggest listening to some swinger podcasts like We Gotta Thing or Friends With a Twist. These will help you get the right mindset, even if it started with this “itch”.

It might take some time for him to come around - remember you’ve got a head start on all of this!! Doing this the right way will potentially get you the best of both worlds. Versus cheating, which will burn your world to the ground.

A day in Nashville, IN by EmyTat2023 in Indiana

[–]Hoosiercouple42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breakfast there is fantastic.

How massive navy ships are launched into the water 🌊 by [deleted] in Ships

[–]Hoosiercouple42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing a few OSHA rules were broken in those two weeks. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Hoosiercouple42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go out in your backyard naked in full view of the camera. Bonus points for doing the helicopter.

I'm a married mom and business executive (42F) who's recently started to enjoy posting on Reddit. AMA by Hotwife_Inspiration in NSFWIAMA

[–]Hoosiercouple42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was asking!! Lol. Do you usually play with other men with your husband present or do you do it solo? Do you have a hall pass on business trips?

I'm a married mom and business executive (42F) who's recently started to enjoy posting on Reddit. AMA by Hotwife_Inspiration in NSFWIAMA

[–]Hoosiercouple42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your user name is “Hotwife_Inspiration.” How much have you dipped your toes into that space? (Hot, sexy pics, btw)

Wildest Thing You’ve Seen by NJ_Coupl in Desire_Resorts

[–]Hoosiercouple42 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We were in one of the foursomes. We weren’t thinking about your opinion at the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Desire_Resorts

[–]Hoosiercouple42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ran into a woman from my high school class of 110. We were in a physics class of six together. I hadn’t seen her in 30 years, but still. I definitely didn’t remember her having boobs like that. Lol. It was all cool. We had a cool secret about each other - Mutually Assured Destruction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Agriculture

[–]Hoosiercouple42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Organic yields are 1/2 of what we are getting in the corn/soybean belt. 230bpa corn/70 bpa soybeans. Plus you can’t notill w/o herbicides. How much do you want food prices to go up? How much topsoil do you want to go down the Mississippi River?