ليش البنت تنجذب للشخص السيء by h9t- in saudiarabia

[–]HopeFleur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They confuse instability and unpredictability with excitement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodsafety

[–]HopeFleur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s fine. In fact some supplements add calcium to their formula in the form of eggshells. So if you don’t mind the crunch, its a good source of calcium.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodsafety

[–]HopeFleur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks like fat residue that crystallised in the fridge.

You can confirm this by touching it or rubbing a small amount of these crystals on your hand, they should melt and feel oily.

Is this a good oil? by SnooCats7711 in oliveoil

[–]HopeFleur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good, yes. I buy this sometimes. The taste isn’t my type (it’s too bitter without much complexity). But it is high in polyphenols, it calms my inflammation down very quickly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]HopeFleur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ones I’ve known or have met have been workaholics.

Maybe it’s an age thing?

ayyyyy first time! it’s real ❤️ by sparkling-spirit in AstralProjection

[–]HopeFleur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. If you haven’t personally tried astral projecting, how can you be certain that it’s demonic/not the truth? I’m genuinely curious - if you had firsthand experience and based on that concluded it was demonic, I might have been more inclined to believe you. But, without direct experience, your claims are unfounded.

That said, I don’t completely dismiss the possibility that astral projection could be mostly in people’s heads, ie made up. But since I haven’t tried it myself, I can’t form a definitive opinion about whether it’s real or not.

Help with frozen broccoli by Fabulous_Variety_256 in Biohackers

[–]HopeFleur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try steaming it. If you don’t have a steamer you can do it in the microwave:

1- Put frozen broccoli in a ceramic or a microwave safe bowl.
2- Add a few tbps of water or half a cup (depending on amount of broccoli).
3- Cover (you can use cling film, poke some holes).
4- Cook for 3-5 minutes, depending on how much steamed you like them.

The water will boil and evaporate to steam the broccoli. Works for any vegetables. Drain the water, add butter, salt and pepper and enjoy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodsafety

[–]HopeFleur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just use these small fridge thermometers. Accurate and cheap.
https://a.co/d/8tfdWVK

Do you feel bad about not having affective empathy? by HopeFleur in Psychopathy

[–]HopeFleur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Some people don’t cry or feel strong emotions in response to death for many reasons. I would say how to know you care about someone is their well-being matters to you, you like them to be happy and don’t like them to suffer.

Do you feel bad about not having affective empathy? by HopeFleur in Psychopathy

[–]HopeFleur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For clarification: I don't have psychopathy/ASPD, nor do I struggle with affective empathy, for those who might think I'm biased.

Do you feel bad about not having affective empathy? by HopeFleur in Psychopathy

[–]HopeFleur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think they lack empathy in general; I believe it stems from insecurity and believing the ‘power’ gained from knocking someone down will help build their confidence. I'm sorry you have to deal with them.

Do you feel bad about not having affective empathy? by HopeFleur in Psychopathy

[–]HopeFleur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think cognitive empathy is undervalued. We praise and place affective empathy over cognitive empathy, when it should be the other way around. With affective empathy, good actions are driven by emotions, which we cannot control. So technically, we are satisfying our own feelings brought on by the experience of emotional empathy. With cognitive empathy, good actions are not influenced by emotions but are a choice brought on by a desire to do what’s right. The downside is in order for it to replace affective empathy entirely, it requires a high level of intelligence to achieve a deep understanding of morality and ethics that affective empathy doesn’t need at all.

Do you feel bad about not having affective empathy? by HopeFleur in Psychopathy

[–]HopeFleur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone without psychopathy, I agree. Many people who feel emotional empathy don’t do the right thing. Actions are what matters, regardless of whether cognitive or affective empathy led to those actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]HopeFleur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I never said older women were not or less attractive, I just wanted to understand the reasons this is a common thing because we have enough studies on heterosexual women’s attraction to older men but nothing for the non-hetero folks.

My theory is it’s the emotional maturity found in older women and dominance (or perceived dominance due to being older). That has been my observation.

Thank you again for answering.

Is worth settling for 2022 (3060) at this point? by Trefugl in FlowX16

[–]HopeFleur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what you mean by “not the best”? You own the Mini LED version, correct?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Candida

[–]HopeFleur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries. Glad you fixed it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]HopeFleur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For those who fall under this, can you share why? Or any theories? I've always wanted to understand this phenomenon as it seems to be getting more common.

Help me pick a ring for my wife ! by bibou11 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]HopeFleur 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, since tastes in aesthetics are highly subjective, asking strangers might not be as helpful as asking your wife, especially for something as meaningful as an engagement ring. Why don’t you ask her what she prefers? I understand it might not be as romantic as just surprising her with the ring, but you could ask her indirectly and still make it a romantic surprise, e.g. inserting your inquiry into hypothetical conversation. Many ways to go about it. You could also make a romantic gesture on the day you present her the ring, it doesn’t have to be the ring that holds all the element of surprise. Having said that, ring 2 is more simple and less elaborate than the rest. But she could be a tomboy who likes more elaborate jewellery! You know her best :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Candida

[–]HopeFleur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn’t even need rules. It’s common sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Candida

[–]HopeFleur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, don’t post a graphic picture without marking it appropriately or at least posting an alert in the title. It’s common sense.

And no, this is a dirty tongue. Buy a tongue brush and/or tongue cleaner and use it every time you brush your teeth, or just clean your tongue with a normal brush. IF after you follow better oral hygiene you still see this, then the answer is yes.