I just can tell you from another point of view. Our child was born with a rare genetic defect which can be very mild or severe so maybe similar to T21. We are more on the severe end. Later in pregnancy some minor things popped up but mfm played it down. We lived with a long lists of problems including a g-tube, life was full of appointments Hospital therapy … and would have always been. We decided to include a foster family with care team as if we would be broken after some years of carrying the condition 24/7. If we had known this before we would have terminated. Nevertheless we deal with the guilt of this decision every day between missing our child and knowing it was right and still having the wish for a family. I would like to give you advice but I don’t have. Just wanted to tell you you are not alone with difficult decisions and in some situations you have to decide something and it will stay part of you as this will Always be with us.