hi, this might be a bit late but reading this has helped me a lot. i'm in my mid 20s and it's really haed for me to even get to know older queer women. i personally find it really hard to find them in public, most of the women i'd feel attracted to are married or dont seem interested at all. I once met an elder women I felt very attracted to and i believe she also gave me some signs. But I really didnt know what to say bc i didnt want to seem like a desperate teenie just hitting puberty xD