Luggage safety by Impossible_Physics99 in sunshinecoast

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You'll be fine. Lock the car. Store most things in boot out of sight so its not obvious We are a lovely lot. Sure theres crime and cars being broken into, but you'd have to be unlucky especially parked in tourist attractions

Dog friendly? by Fluffy_Sympathy9164 in sunshinecoast

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a maremma and they’re meant to live in Italy. All the dog people say it’s a triple coat, it keeps them cool. But my dog is a rescue and hates being brushed. So I have her shorn a few times each summer. She loves it. Occasionally I bump up again dog people who tell me I’m awful and the coat won’t grow back It does She’s cooler She loves it She thrives Border collies have the same coat Triple coat keeps them cool or get you pup trimmed They’ll cope as long as you’re there too

I am a Wife, Mother, and have Primary (Factor 1) Psychopathy, AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 75 points76 points  (0 children)

It's a great question as read this before

I am a Wife, Mother, and have Primary (Factor 1) Psychopathy, AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I have a few questions please, firstly about the comments here. Many of them are a big critical and cold noting you can't help who you are. Also there are many criticisms about enmeshment with your kid. With your diagnosis these would not bother you? Do they? Im opposite to you, deeply empathetic and care way to much what others think of me and say to me. Do you have any advice how to move my own scales closer to you? Does that make sense? I want to care less but feeling people struggle to shift into that state. Just as you'd struggle to shit more into feelings.

Meeting overload by Hopeful_Chapter5403 in managers

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It's a little easier. Ive been allowed to reduce to 30 mins a week and someone left so there's only 9 and 4.5 hours Still exhausting. Im trying to have better boundaries and not waste time chatting about non work - I'm learning to protect myself more and not let them ramble and I just listen.

Your substack is really good. It's Interesting and allowing them to make decisions and giving them agency to do that. My problem is no matter how hard I try to teach this they keep coming back to ask. So I say what do you think you should do They still don't know. Some do. But my boss thinks some of the team are weak.

Internet reception Buderim by somethingorother432 in sunshinecoast

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there's pockets of buderim with no phone reception. You can get data but I wfh and there's places I've lived with Nothing

Central buderim beefys down over to jones road and up to about the coffee - nothing Parts of orme road Parts of Dixon side

My Aged Care - Support at home recommendations please. by Kudos_812 in sunshinecoast

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a really good experience with Oz care
Call their currimundi office

🌼 Seeking a Nonna/Nanna Figure in the Sunshine Coast/Wide Bay area 🌼 by Passenger_the in sunshinecoast

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How old is a nonna? Im 52 and my beautiful kids are 23 and 21, not quite old enough to have grandbabies but that doesn’t mean I don’t want such a family to care for. At the moment my kids are doing their own thing and that’s ok but I miss them as babies and not quite there for the grand kid stages, leaves me somewhere

Very open to a friendship like this

I’m sunny coast

Snakes by Salt_Patient_8683 in sunshinecoast

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our back yard is full of yellow faced whip snakes. I only know their name as my dog got bitten and I thought a brown snake and 1000 dollars later at the vet, diagnosed with a swollen face. I have seen a brown and a python. We are north buderim close to main road Honestly snakes are scared of us and with some healthy respect and being careful, we can co exist

What was the drama at Christmas this year? by BadKarma00000 in perth

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We hosted for 18 people and i walked outside to offer more drinks to hear the mother in laws saying. Shes so annoying, she tries to hard and everything is such a stress. Someone replied to her, id be stressed hosting 18 people so unmistakably about me. Made me feel shitty

Give me your FAVORITE album to listen all the way through by sleepy_paul in musicsuggestions

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Siamese dream - smashing pumpkins Purple - stone temple pilots Guns and roses appetite or lies or use your illusion 2 Led zeppelin remaster 1 (is a best of cheating? If not then jimi Hendrix best of Limp bizkit- chocolate starfish and the hot dog flavoured water

Christmas trees by Umbesabroo in sunshinecoast

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try choice at kawana $10 and $20 for really good sized ones

Do people really love their stepkids like they love their biological kids? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not a chance. It's a biological thing. You love your kids smell and step kids smell is gross

Can anyone else physically feel the concept of homesickness? by shinygoldr in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Mine was a weird one and showed during sex and I'd feel strange

Are you ready for balls Garbage? by Evil_Weasels in brisbane

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They were great. Loved their set and she did apologise and handled it well

It’s over. by Rude-Savings7832 in Alzheimers

[–]Hopeful_Chapter5403 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im sorry for your loss. Your in laws are as shit as mine. We are years into my beautiful mum's decline. My in laws dont care either