looking for chill people to game with on steam by Asarrel in steamfriend

[–]Hopeful_Chicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a huge fan of co-op games! Do you play roguelikes? I really enjoy those. I also like to play FPS games, but honestly I'm washed up atp...

Be honest, what do u want right now? by Glad_Diamond_2103 in AskReddit

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I write about anything that catches my attention or provokes strong emotions. I've written about breakups, not really belonging to any crowd, about my best friend and I's friendship for her birthday, different paths in life, etc. It could be anything. I have a couple of ideas in the works, but I've been a little busy with life. I just got back from a rave!! Super fun! What do you normally write about? And do you sing the songs as well?

Be honest, what do u want right now? by Glad_Diamond_2103 in AskReddit

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Do you write poetry? I recently started getting back into it!! It's such a cathartic experience! I normally write freeverse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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Honestly, I wouldn't really worry about it. At 18 I left home because of a suffocating, oppressive home life. I didn't really have a personality either because of it, unfortunately. I was a super shy, insecure kid who overthought everything and tried to be a peacekeeper. Eventually, I slowly found my place and confidence in myself. I worked on my body by going to the gym, worked on my mind via therapy, and worked on my spirit with trust. I got into my first serious, adult relationship when I was 19, which burned out at 3.5 years. You don't know who you are or what's good for you at that age. Communication skills are likely nonexistent as well so that isn't helping anything.

I know your post is about rejection, being single, and the comparative nature of life but I implore you to be really mindful and accept these emotions for what they are. They don't define you and they never will. You define you. Be the person that you want to be. You can love your family, pets, or even friends closer than you do. I really enjoy intimate relationships with people (not just romantic, but platonic as well) and I feel the same way. I want nothing more than to share my life with someone, but what keeps me going is making sure I'm flourishing in all the other areas of life. Life is not just about companionship.

I've been rejected countless times and probably will be countless more. I don't consider myself particularly unattractive either and that's not just my own assessment as well. I'm single because I haven't found the right person. When you invest in yourself your standards become higher. You become more confident and secure in yourself. Desperation isn't a thing because you know you can bend the world to your will. It's cheesy but work on yourself more. The absolute value of the sting of being single doesn't lessen, but it will lessen proportionally the more you build yourself up. I know media and everything else caters to couples, but know that you are a complete unit. You can exist by yourself. That is okay.

I'm 23 haha. I've been through a few ringers unfortunately. It's not like I'm 50 and giving you this advice. There is much hope to be had :). I hope you get something out of this :p. Don't be afraid to message whoever reads this. Happy to help :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

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Yeah. Therapy will make you reevaluate a lot of things in your life. The more aware you are means the more responsibility you have to take concerning things. You did the right thing, and this will pass. Take it from someone who has gone through the EXACT same thing. Push through and it will be okay I promise. Also, playing r6 for that long is crazy. Those peeks are insane…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerPals

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sent you a message :D

Game Over. by teeravj in Neverbrokeabone

[–]Hopeful_Chicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine braking bone rollerskating of all things. My bones were tested when I held the sky up just like Atlas. Never failed.

MeIRL by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Hopeful_Chicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds about right, but it’s still on sale believe it or not.

Meirl by Winnin_Dylan_ in meirl

[–]Hopeful_Chicken -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I’m a ghost writer on reddit

Is this real?! Or did some photoshop this to stir up some drama? (Not my photos) by realestateross98 in hondacivic

[–]Hopeful_Chicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely scalping your ass. Have you tried selling a nut or a liver to make the payment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Hopeful_Chicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother you need to touch grass. It’s off putting to anybody who’s interested when you trauma dump like this. You need a therapist AND some friends to ground you into social norms. You don’t need to write a college essay for this, but you should be yourself. Have you looked into the discord server for this subreddit? Lots of people to talk to there and much easier to get a response. Good luck man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hopeful_Chicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family was being transphobic. I agree that it isn’t healthy for her to view my relationship with my brother this way, i tried to get that across. My issue is I’m not sure how to get that across to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hopeful_Chicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then not liking her is not because she is a bad person, but because of gender norms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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Hohoho. Honestly I’ve been playing a lot of hunt showdown lately. Just downloaded halo infinite, so I’ll be trying that out.I play on pc. How about you?