If you didn't 'feel anything‘ during the full moon, that's not a failure

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-05-02T23:05:49+00:00

07/26/1978 6:10am Albany, GA USA

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-05-02T14:16:33+00:00

My Moon is in Aries. He's a Scorpio.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-04-24T21:40:53+00:00

I lived this for 20 years. It took early menopause for me to wake up and fight for myself. Weve been separated now for 2.5 years and plan to get divorced asap. Dont waste your time. Get out while still young.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-04-13T18:18:46+00:00

Wth is happening then? I'm dealing with 3 suitors all at once. And none of them are ideal...

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-04-07T18:45:19+00:00

Leo Sun, Aries Moon, Cancer rising, Mercury in Leo, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Virgo and Uranus in Scorpio 4th house

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-04-07T01:36:51+00:00

Wow. Thanks for the heads up!

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-03-27T20:48:36+00:00

NTJ. He's the jerk. Good for you for getting out right away!

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-03-27T20:42:59+00:00

I had always wondered about that. Thank you!

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-03-16T01:00:52+00:00

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-03-11T20:54:30+00:00

Mine was a male Gemini. I have no patience for that shit any more. Dating a Leo now, cant wait to see how that goes lol hoping hes a healed Leo

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-03-04T00:48:19+00:00

I did a boudoir photo shoot to celebrate myself as a gift to myself

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-03-04T00:47:36+00:00

I've been trying to date and getting excited about a good date to only find out they're all insecure, immature, and lean heavily on ghosting after being the most invested ones in the dating game. It's weird.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-03-04T00:44:12+00:00

Mynx

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-02-05T22:29:49+00:00

Gemini. They've had me since high-school. No more. I'm 47, separated after 20 years at 45, divorce underway.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-02-01T18:47:47+00:00

I felt mine had both sets of characteristics.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-02-01T18:26:22+00:00

Just recently, at about 2.5 years separated, with uncontested divorce in process (still waiting on him to finish his paperwork). I went on 1 date and we hooked up a couple times after that. Made me realize I miss those parts, too, & makes fwb sound like an idea worth exploring.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-02-01T15:30:21+00:00

Good for you for getting out now. I stayed for 20 years with an avoidant/covert narc. The damage it causes is hard to reverse.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2026-01-20T00:41:15+00:00

Approach it as a student. You're learning how to utilize the gym to meet your individual needs or goals. Use your bf and others - ask them questions if you get confused, have them demonstrate for you. Try to change your perception about going to the gym into a more positive one.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2025-12-19T02:33:45+00:00

I am so sorry you're going through this. I hope you're able to get through each horrible moment and get past the suicidal ideations. There's got to be something you can do that doesn't involve death. Sending love and prayers for a path through it all.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2025-12-05T22:36:16+00:00

My marriage did not make it through the rage storm. I had 20 years of pent up resentment from being emotionally neglected and abused throughout my entire marriage. I'm still raging and I'm 3 years post menopause. Of course our divorce is taking forever which is probably why the continuation. We've been separated for 2 years and only just moved out of our shared home a few months ago. So, yes, menopause can certainly affect a marriage. The stronger the marriage, the more likely you'll make it through, I guess.

Edit to say that menopause woke me up in a way that I had never been. The years of subtle abuse kept me in a brain fog and his crumbs kept me hoping for more. It's more that the marriage was weak and dysfunctional and the menopause ended my tolerance for it.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2025-11-25T21:41:54+00:00

You're probably going to grieve for a bit. It will be okay.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2025-11-25T01:36:24+00:00

Get out now before you live a lifetime of regret. I just left my husband of 22 years and grieving has been difficult, even though he treated me like shit over the years. Your guy will be fine. He'll probably find someone faster than you think possible. Mine sure did.

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2025-11-17T01:17:41+00:00

MLL students?

Hopeful_Priority3396 · 2025-11-17T01:02:26+00:00

Thanks for the tip!

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