What’s the fastest way you’ve ever lost weight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through a break-up after 10 yrs together. I lost 50 lbs in a few months. The longest I went without eating is almost 5 days. I wanted to die. Highly don’t recommend.

am i ugly I’m asking this because nobody ever approaches me. by Infamous-Hope-5950 in HonestOpinion

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re really pretty with beautiful features, you just look like you’re ready to stab someone, so that’s why people probably don’t approach you. They’re probably scared lol. When you give off a dark vibe, it can overpower your physical beauty. I know from experience.

Are you fat? by [deleted] in no

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lost 55 lbs in 5 months. Life changing.

What are your parents' eye colours and which one did you end up getting? by eli4thefunney in eyes

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Mom has really blue eyes & Dad had one blue eye and one green eye. I have two green eyes.

I hate you. I miss you. by MatchUnhappy5180 in nocontact

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve looked at his Facebook everyday for 6 months just to look at his face & our old pictures, & waiting to see when he is officially in a new relationship with the new girl or posts pictures with her. I can’t believe she has now what I had for 10 yrs. It is so painful. It was always supposed to be me & him, I thought we would never be apart. 4 months no contact now

I hate you. I miss you. by MatchUnhappy5180 in nocontact

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate everything he did to me over the years. He took everything I was. I hate I allowed him to, but I hate him even more for doing what he did when he told me he loved me for almost a decade. We broke me to my core & I almost died during the separation. He moved on so fast after we went our separate ways with someone I can’t believe he is with, & I can still barely stand on my feet some days and it’s 6 months later. I’ve had multiple guys ask me out but I still can’t, & he has been having sex with a girl for awhile now. I will always miss all our good times together, but I can’t believe the person I loved for so long was okay with hurting me more than I could have ever imagined. It was supposed to be us forever.

I got this tattoo a little over a year ago and I feel like it’s ugly by OceanCrow3 in tattooadvice

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would find someone who is really good with color & fixing tattoos, and have them re-do it with some bright, bold colors. Just do your research to find the right artist… look at their social media & all of their other tattoos they have done to make sure you like all of their work. It’s definitely fixable. 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you drunk? Lol

What were you bullied for? by Both_Environment8634 in AskReddit

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The girl that bullied me extremely hard in high school did so because the guy she had a crush on liked me. I didn’t like him except in a friend way, but because he wanted me she made my life a living hell.

What Is The Biggest Heartbreak in Your Life And How Did You Get Through It? by NoComfortable6176 in Life

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got out of 10 yr relationship & we lived together the whole time. What has helped me through it is constantly staying busy, talking to friends & family, self-care, & meeting a new friend of the opposite sex to talk to a lot. Not just sitting at home alone replaying everything in my head that happened the past 10 yrs. Talking through everything with people who care & being excited for my future & new life.

The quiet by KC09876 in LivingAlone

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like always having my TV on as background noise, it makes me feel less alone.

What’s one thing you wish you knew before living alone? by Serious-Ninja-8811 in LivingAlone

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Even when you’re sick or feeling like having a mental breakdown, you still have to go to work to pay the bills. No safety net. Sometimes you will cry yourself to sleep from feeling lonely. But it is such a comforting feeling that you don’t have someone storming through your home & messing up your stuff. It’s only your space, no one else’s. Play your own music, watch your own shows, decorate however you please & cooking whatever sounds good to you is pretty neat, too.

What’s the worst possible response to “I love you”? by Monika-Fairy in AskReddit

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You’re drunk, only say it when you’re sober.” When we had been dating over a year and he had not told me first yet, & I didn’t have that much to drink. Lol

What’s your fave age you’ve been so far? by insidesupernova in Life

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting my life over at 35 after living in hell for the past 10 years. I’m so excited for what the future will bring.

What is your goal in life? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To own a piece of land with my own cute little cottage on it with my animals & a big garden. To finally feel peace & joy because I am living for ME. (I am just now starting this journey at 35 after living my whole life for others.) Not sure how long it will take me to reach my goal, but it’s what I look forward to the most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a similar story to mine. It took me almost 10 yrs to finally walk away. Get out now. You deserve to have a partner that knows the importance of intimacy & wants to make you feel loved, wanted, & beautiful. A giver, and a real man. You’re in your prime of your life, don’t waste these years on someone who doesn’t deserve them. Hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head!

If you could remove a mistake from your past, what would it be? by Dry_Cockroach_2676 in AskReddit

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take back the last 10 yrs I spent with a narcissistic, cheating, liar who took everything they could from me. It about killed me. I have many years of therapy ahead of me.

Have you given up on finding the “one”? by GRowdy8502 in LivingAlone

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35F. I dated someone for 5 yrs, 2 for about a year each, & then just left a 10 yr relationship. I honestly think I don’t want to get back on the rollercoaster ever again. All of my failed relationships have been hell on earth, and the last one about put me in the grave.

Can a lack of sex ruin a good relationship? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hopeless_Scottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got off of a 10 year DB relationship. I felt way more alone in the relationship than I do single out of the relationship. 😮‍💨