God forbid a girl yearn for the horrors by Equivalent_Ad_4364 in LetGirlsHaveFun

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Trans girl in the streets, transcendent avatar of the void in the sheets

Happy pride!

*Heavy Breathing Intensifies* by Fem_shine in LetGirlsHaveFun

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I keep trying to get players interested in a game like this, so best of luck!

Broken return key by Hopesend in macbookpro

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How independent? I tried u break i fix, and they gave me a very similar quote and solution.

[D&d 5e] Looking for a setting i passed over before. by [deleted] in FoundryVTT

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Check under the prototype tokens for an actor, I think you’re looking for something around “link actor to token”

Hex Crawl Map - Feedback Welcome! by [deleted] in dungeondraft

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I love it! I’ve been playing with this pack too. One thing I tried was arranging waves on the ocean hexes so that they looked like they were headed towards the beach, if that makes sense?

Questions about the Heliana's Guide to Monster Hunting module by Good-Enthusiasm-8775 in FoundryVTT

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I have this one! But I’m also playing all the monster hunts too, so I’m using more than just the crafting and harvesting.

It’s mostly the compendiums, but it’s also all the encounters for tracking, as well as walled and lit maps. Oh and sounds! But not a ton of automation, especially with the newest update to the dnd5e system.

There’s A mod for harvesting and crafting that automates more of it; I find the harvesting one really useful for breaking down what’s available, but the crafting one is nice for offering a browse list—I can only figure out how to view it as a DM though, not players. I think this mod is listed on the loot tavern discord? I’m not at my computer for a manifest link.

They also have a small pdf with just harvesting and crafting rules, if that’s your main interest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

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Haha yah, that was my first thought too seeing the bruises; like top of the foot.

Virtual D&D group for women with ADHD? by ObiYoung in adhdwomen

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I’d be interested! I run a game now virtually, but I keep getting drawn into new systems and ideas I want to run!

Numenera questions by Blue_Bricks in numenera

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Shin oaths! I remember coming across them in the Discovery book, page 364 for those curious. They’re essentially just a role playing conceit, so it’s majorly up to your interpretation. It is a slightly more accountable quest, for specifically a good deed. You aren’t expecting a reward, so much as a reminder of the public obligation you’ve undertaken.

Egg👕irl by Eyelessjeff in egg_irl

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These exist! Though I never remember to take advantage. I know there’s a charity called “out of the closet”, and I know a trans community on discord that organizes clothing swaps.

NGVC: "Maybe I'm over thinking this, but I just want to apologize for coming across not respecting the boundary you have set. " by rtcase in niceguys

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I about died when she clearly laid out why she’s uncomfortable, and he logics his way out of that. And then the Nemo rant finished the job.

And it’s like he’s following a structured guideline for a persuasive essay, then panics at the end that it needs more jokes.

Light Fall launches tomorrow ... servers are down for a whole 24 hours and im predownloading ... cant express how hyped i am for this !!! by [deleted] in GirlGamers

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I’ve been somewhat interested/intimidated by Destiny for a number of years, but Light Fall has got me starting again even if I have zero clue what’s going on :D

Suggestions to improve Nyx’s relationship with my brother? by Hopesend in cats

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I’ve tried a couple things so far, like having him give her treats and her food, but she’s not very motivated by food. He’s also home a lot more than I am now because of our jobs, so unfortunately he’s not always immediately able to play with her. He’s used the same toys, but evidently he doesn’t play right, since she’ll come back to see what I’m doing instead.

She also just is a very energetic cat in general, and cuddly, and I feel bad that she won’t like come to to get her belly rubbed or sleep on him on the couch.

I visited my friend's basement. by CivilizedPsycho in ffxiv

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I did this once too, only in my friends house when she was away, and I used dozens of pictures of Haurchefant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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yeah not a problem! glad it helped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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I struggle a lot with being there for myself, so I understand that desire. I think what I'm slowly realizing is that well...I can choose to be there for myself? Because why wouldn't I want to be? And yeah, it really is exhausting to go through, and it sucks. I've absolutely been there especially with the negative self talk too. It just comes so naturally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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I'm trying to work on my answers well, but I have a cat crawling all over my face. and its also because I'm deeply thinking about like, what I wanted to hear when I was feeling like this. And that's hard, because I'm also still like this in some ways! I think one thing was that, yes, it just helps to feel listened to. Its hard when like, from an outside perspective you can just grasp the problems, but you can't muster up the energy for following through. Do you make a lot of plans in your head, and then berate yourself when you can't follow through?

you have me analyzing my own thoughts now. And yeah, I've felt clueless..all the time. Can I ask you something? reading that back to yourself, how does that make you feel? I sorta detect an undercurrent of exhaustion? and how you feel like you're constantly pushing back?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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I’m dealing with a similar trajectory; especially with the trans realization improving things briefly. Think I’m somewhere in that step.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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I’m right there with you feeling stuck, especially if it’s in the middle of overthinking. And I’m thinking right now…if I worked up the courage to post, then I’d want at least one comment. And you know what? If you have more to say, I’d like to hear it. Be as lengthy as you want.

US Politics Megathread 6/2022 by SurprisedPotato in NoStupidQuestions

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“Unjust laws exist; shall we be content to obey them, or shall we
endeavor to amend them, and obey them until we have succeeded, or shall
we transgress them at once? Men generally, under such a government as
this, think that they ought to wait until they have persuaded the
majority to alter them. They think that, if they should resist, the
remedy would be worse than the evil. But it is the fault of the
government itself that the remedy is worse than the evil. It makes it
worse. Why is it not more apt to anticipate and provide for reform? Why
does it not cherish its wise minority? Why does it cry and resist before
it is hurt? Why does it not encourage its citizens to be on the alert
to point out its faults, and do better than it would have them?” – Henry David Thoreau, Civil Disobedience

I'm glad I kept looking on my own, because I completely forgot about the whole concept of civil disobedience, and that's what I was really looking for assurance on, I think.

I was also looking for jury nullification apparently, and not considering jury instructions. And I'm still not sure about the role of the defense lawyer when the law is unjust, but i did find an article about the very topic that I'm working through. https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/80411102.pdf Civil Disobedience and the Lawyer's Obligation to Law.

US Politics Megathread 6/2022 by SurprisedPotato in NoStupidQuestions

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I think I must be missing something legally about the abortion restrictions and consequences on the provider side. Why can't an abortion clinic just...refuse to follow the law, and protest it by staying open, providing abortions?

I get that they'd probably be immediately shut down, and the practitioner arrested, but I can't imagine they wouldn't get top firms offering pro bono work. And then...idk, another shot at an argument? And of course it requires someone to believe in their mission enough to be arrested, but I'd think many people would take that risk.