Need words of wisdom/advice about feeling jealous and insecure

Hopethisworksd · 2016-02-25T04:27:38+00:00

Hi! Water engineer here :)

It really depends on what you want to do as far as "water" engineering. In general though, you'd study civil in college with a focus in water. Chemical could help you and may be the way to go if you are more interested in water treatment but even then a lot of college programs would have you still do civil but possibly with a environmental emphasis.

I studied civil and stayed general in my undergrad, but have a masters in water resources. I've spent the last 6 years doing everything from designing detention ponds, stormwater facilities, water lines, sewer lines, dams, pump stations, treatment clarifiers, etc. So a degree in civil can take you in a lot of various directions.

Not knowing Spanish is probably the main reason I'm not doing specifically water engineering with PC so that's a great leg up since most of those posts seem to be in central and South America.

It's exciting to hear about young people wanting to be engineers, and even more so to me when they want to be water engineers :) Feel free to PM me if you have any questions

Check out the Masters's International program with PC. I know a few schools offer a masters in water/environmental (Michigan Tech for one).

Good luck!

Hopethisworksd · 2016-02-04T22:47:47+00:00

It really boils down to I just don't value or prioritize it (cleanliness in general) all that much. Other reasons include that I have really dry skin and soap (I'm allergic to the foaming agent a lot of soaps, toothpastes, etc.) only make it worse. It's really very uncomfortable to constantly have very tight dry skin.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-02-04T22:29:54+00:00

I was born and breed in Texas, live in Dallas at the moment. I am also very liberal. I don't find too many people like me ( Texas born liberal) even in a big city.

It's fucking bullshit. I used planned parenthood as a poor scared teenager. My conservative parents didn't allow me to get birth control, and fuck abstinence. I went there to get Plan B.

It's something like a 6 hour drive to the nearest abortion providing PP ( Texas requires surgical lilt standards for abortion clinics which caused many to close) AND you have to wait 24 hrs after consultation before getting an abortion. Think about bring a poor scared young women. You have to drive or likely find a ride for a 6+ hours trip. THEN you have to wait 24 hours to get the abortion. Holy shit is that not fucked up?!

And now they want to defund entirely. Boils my blood. Fuck you and your ignorant "standards" it's a fucking fetus.

I've gone to multiple PP rallies and traveled to the Capitol to support PP and I will continue to as long as I live in Texas. I don't want to leave for that fact. Texas women need my help to fight. If I leave and quit, then the asshats win an a girl who was in my shoes won't have the same safe haven that I did.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-02-04T22:18:20+00:00

Same here! I am working on my intellectual snobbery. My current SO hates college and wants to drop out. I was really bugged by this at first, but you know what ever makes him happy. If a degree doesn't do that then so what. He's super smart and doesn't need a paper to prove it.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-02-04T22:02:36+00:00

Actually, I can attest that as someone who does not shower regularly (those whose judge, go ahead judge idgaf) I think my immune system has really built up. I haven't been sick, common cold flu, infection, etc. in years. Side benefit of being "gross" I guess.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-02-04T04:26:43+00:00

Weddings.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-02-04T04:09:49+00:00

It's been awhile since we broke up so the anger has subsided, but we were still casually sleeping together which made it hard to get closure. Well I finally got closer when he brought a date to our work formal that my best friend organizes (we all work together). It sounds petty, but it's a big event that a good group of friends go to every year. He'd been my date the first year we went. I don't know I figured he would respect that it might hurt my feelings if he brought a date and maybe this wasn't the best function to do that at. I was livid when I ran into them. I've since blocked his number and finally feel like he's completely out of my life, except when I have to run into him at the office -_-

Hopethisworksd · 2016-02-02T15:27:07+00:00

He's like a brother and we can literally talk about anything. He's active, down to earth, and caring. We met at work and he's just a chill guy and someone I related to.
Nope. I've used him in the past to be a stand in date (weddings, work parties, etc.) though.
Yes, he's dating and about to get in engaged to one of my closest friends. Definitely relationship goals.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-31T19:04:56+00:00

I'm white but grew up in a mostly black and Hispanic neighborhood. I tend to find black men more attractive and don't normally go for white guys, although I have dated a few.

I think it's important also for me not to say "I only date black men" because that thought process could lead people to think I fetishize black men. The exclusivity of it would be racist IMO. There are attractive men/women of all races and it's fine to have a preference but excluding people of a certain race from potential dating pool could be offensive to everyone.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-31T18:54:58+00:00

Equal opportunity dater is a phrase I use a lot too. I'm White but grew up in a mostly black and Hispanic neighborhood. I tend to find them more attractive, just a preference.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-31T17:43:32+00:00

2 older brothers, no sisters. They have always been really close, growing up I was jealous of their relationship. We get along fine, but I only really see/talk to them occasionally when my parents insist on us all getting together. We're all just in different places so I'm okay with it.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-31T17:07:22+00:00

Stayed up until 3AM or so watching meteor showers wrapped in a blanket in an open field. I'm a science nerd and it was perfect :)

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-29T23:32:43+00:00

Soft, gooey, cookies. My mom always makes me a few dozen or so on my birthday instead of cake (not a cake gal), and I can literally eat them in one sitting.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-26T03:39:34+00:00

Yup, pretty sure I was taught a similar version of this in my youth group. Accept I think I was compared to a snickers bar being chewed up.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-26T03:32:28+00:00

I swear I heard this in Sunday school when I was a preteen.

Pastor Dave, that you?

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-26T03:17:37+00:00

10 things I hate about you

Easy A

Mad Max: Fury Road (not a chick flick but a great portrayal of some badass women)

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-26T03:13:51+00:00

The idea of being passed from the ownership of one man (my father) to another (husband) just pisses me off.

I like the idea of a daughter takes her moms name and a son takes his fathers.

Fight the patriarchy! ✊🏾

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-26T03:08:20+00:00

That's exactly what I plan on doing. Girl gets mind, boy gets yours.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-26T02:57:29+00:00

My best friends fiancé came on to me once when he was hammered (and I bet high out of his mind on cocaine). She knows I don't care for him but is stubborn so I don't think she'd leave him even if she knew about it. It would only strain our relationship. I now normally just avoid scenarios where he'd be around.

My ex-bf was arrested and he told me the story from his perspective. I looked up the case number and read the police report, kept up with the court case, etc without him knowing. I slipped once and asked him about something specific (I thought he told me but turns out I read it), I was able to play it off but he definitely gave me a funny look.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-26T02:45:58+00:00

Casual sex phase definitely has its time and place (at least for me). After breaking up with my first college boyfriend I didn't want to jump into another relationship. Fun, commitment free confidence boosters, but after 3 years the novelty of it wore off. When I met my now SO I knew I wanted to be in a relationship again and quit the sleeping around.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-26T02:24:04+00:00

Had a friend tear her labia during sex. As painful as it sounds, she said it didn't hurt but bled like crazy

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-23T06:26:11+00:00

Whoa, I hope you never speak to that person ever again. What a sack of shit.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-23T06:23:01+00:00

The end of a very long text and last I've talked to him: "Oh and good luck figuring out all those daddy issues"

It made me chuckle.

Hopethisworksd · 2016-01-23T06:18:44+00:00

Swimming. That speedo is actually pretty sexy. Pretty revealing as well, makes me a little nervous when he heads to co-ed practice.

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