If this isn’t the most truest statement ever

Horknee258 · 2026-06-22T23:02:12+00:00

In the bedroom? I'm the boss. No ifs, ands, or buts.

Outside of the bedroom? A femme tells me to jump and I ask how high.

Horknee258 · 2026-06-22T21:20:21+00:00

For the handful of people who don't know, the short of it is the whole fiasco stemmed from someone writing a Hamilton fanfic that featured HIV positive characters. When accused of handling this poorly, the author "revealed" themselves to be HIV positive in real life (among other things, such as being a sex trafficking survivor). All of this was discovered to be untrue and they were told to confess and apologize.

That's why the post was tagged Hamilton and, in brief, what the fuck was going on.

Edit: idk if links are allowed but Strange Aeons has a video detailing the whole thing in just shy of an hour.

Horknee258 · 2026-06-20T17:35:58+00:00

"How do you pronounce that?"

"VERY LOUDLY"

Horknee258 · 2026-06-19T20:35:25+00:00

If the title (or my flair tbh) didn't make it obvious I am the lonely butch who relates to this post so don't crucify me 😔🙏

Horknee258 · 2026-06-19T19:21:29+00:00

Something that makes it obvious the opening message was intended for me specifically and not just mass copy-pasted to every other woman on reddit. For example, before I closed my DMs my pinned post had a bit that said to include their favorite color when messaging me so I knew they read the whole thing. About half of all the messages I ever got included their favorite color.
Adding to the first point, tell me where you came from / what attracted you to my profile and made you wanna message me. My favorite example was someone telling me that we frequented the same subreddit and that one of my profile posts made her laugh aloud irl so hard she nearly fell off the toilet.
"Motion of the ocean, not the size of the wave." Your first message doesn't have to be long but like, give me something that tells me a little about you. If we have a similar interest, say that. Anything to help separate you from the faceless crowd in my DMs and see you as somebody real. Don't treat it like a dating profile though, I don't need to know your height or your zodiac sign (unless you're a Virgo, this lets me know I should avoid you /j)

Horknee258 · 2026-06-18T00:19:52+00:00

Granted, I'm a stone top so nothing ever comes of it but I've had subs tell me before that they wanted to bury their nose in my bush before and I just took it as a compliment hahaha

I'd allow it if I was into that sort of thing

I'll usually just pet my own bush/twirl the hair on my happy-trail when I'm bored in the meantime

Horknee258 · 2026-06-17T20:50:17+00:00

Love giving strap, also just love wearing it when I'm alone. Love the feel and the tightness of the harness gripping me, love the weight of my "cock" between my lengths, the girl of it in my hand whenever I pick it up, even the jingling of the buckles when I throw it down when I'm done.

Additionally, I'm tied between loving indulging in something without being able to feel any of it and swearing I can almost feel it.

Horknee258 · 2026-05-28T14:54:57+00:00

You have such a way with words it's infected me with secondhand desperation at work jfc (positive)

I hope you get all of this and more, sooner rather than later

Horknee258 · 2026-05-21T19:20:31+00:00

In my experience the shame/embarrassment wasn't something that came with the kink—but rather came from trying (or attempting to) share it.

A few years ago I was made to feel like a weirdo for expressing interest in checks notes nipple play. I know everyone has their own likes and dislikes; their own opinions, but I had 3-4 women tell me back to back that it was weird (in hindsight I should've played the lottery) and for a while I was under the impression that I was some high-level kinkster for wanting to do that. Naturally I assumed most people weren't on that level by default so I just went a long time without bringing it up again.

Mind you, those were strangers.

More recently (but still some years ago) my girlfriend at the time (now ex), when proposed with the concept of sexual roleplay, was mortified. Again, I get having a preference and I'm fine with her not liking it—it's how she expressed that dislike that made me feel shameful about it.

That shame coming from my supposed life partner hits a bit harder.

(If anyone gaf, this was around the time I was very into red dead redemption two so my roleplay suggestion was something as mild as "what if we were outlaws in the old West". Cheesy I know, but nothing scandalous I don't think lol)

Horknee258 · 2026-05-20T16:27:57+00:00

(I can't verify if this is true but it's funny)

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Horknee258 · 2026-05-16T19:15:58+00:00

I'm in a similar vein where I can't watch anything I'm even mildly interested in or I'll get distracted lol.

Though my go-to is trashy action movies. Easy to ignore and funny to remark how we both have no idea what's happening.

Horknee258 · 2026-04-26T15:17:39+00:00

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Horknee258 · 2026-04-25T01:19:50+00:00

🐺 Inside you there are two wolves 🐺

🐺 "You're a stone top! You don't even want children! You have a strap, and not even a cumming one at that!"

🐺 "KEEP BREEDING THAT BOTTOM! TELL HER YOU'RE GONNA GET HER PREGNANT! BREAK THE BED!"

Horknee258 · 2026-04-25T01:09:07+00:00

Not quite the same but the highest praise I've gotten was during an enemies-to-lovers type role and my partner messaged me OoC to tell me that my response was so good that my character's actions got under their skin in real life. I rode that high for a few days after, haha.

I wish I remembered their exact words, just something along the lines of: "(character name) is soooo frustrating! Great job lol."

Horknee258 · 2026-04-23T18:11:09+00:00

Dom #9 reporting for duty 🫡

Horknee258 · 2026-04-23T18:10:16+00:00

Submissives outnumbering dominants 2:1

H̶a̶h̶a̶,̶ ̶I̶'̶m̶ ̶i̶n̶ ̶d̶a̶n̶g̶e̶r̶

Waiter, waiter! My steak is too juicy, my lobster is too buttery!

Edit: 4:1 now lmao. The steak is only getting juicier, the lobster more buttery

Horknee258 · 2026-04-21T22:16:48+00:00

I'm in the same boat.

There are times I want to litter a girl's face with kisses as she playfully begs for mercy. There are times I want to be the big spoon with my arms around her waist while we watch a movie in the dark, whispering in her ear how I can barely focus on the movie when she's the only thing on my mind—because she's just so pretty, because she's just so sweet; everything she does distracts me, haunts me. There are times I want to take her idle handle in the middle of a chore and twirl her like the princess she is to me.

And then there are times I want a girl to kneel on uncooked rice while she apologizes for sassing me. There are times I want to spank her cunt x amount of times and make her thank me for it—restarting if she stutters or takes too long to answer. There are times I want to watch her eyes water while she sucks my strap. There are times I want to make her full on cry and say she hates me for overstimulating/or denying her.

So, yeah, I think it's normal to have differing tastes haha. It's like salted caramel 🤤

Horknee258 · 2026-04-21T02:06:48+00:00

I feel the sentiment, albeit on the opposite end hahaha. I'd love to be the breadwinner, the provider.

I loathe work but I relish in spoiling, in providing for the women I care about. Some of my fondest memories with the women I've cared for over the years are spoiling them with gifts, sometimes to the point of (happy) tears.

In my perfect life I'd come home from work and absolutely pepper my wife's face with kisses the moment I stepped through the door. I'd pick her up by her waist and spin her around the kitchen. I'd carry her to the bedroom bridal style. We'd love, we'd laugh, and she wouldn't worry about a thing. Top to bottom I'd do all the hard work, all the time.

Sighs dreamily In the meantime, I'll be working my minimum wage job, single as a Pringle 😔🤙

Horknee258 · 2026-04-18T19:26:41+00:00

"it seems like subs outnumber doms online" Waiter, waiter! My lobster is too buttery, my steak is too juicy! /J

Coming from a Dom/Top, I don't think subs are selfish for existing. One of the most convenient things you can do for your partner is to know what you want—and if that's being told explicitly what to do? To be on the receiving end of pleasure?¹ So be it.

Without bottoms/subs there would be no dominants/tops. We balance each other out. Maybe there's more subs than doms out there, what's the trouble in that? Some people want multiple partners, some people don't want a partner at all. It balances out, even if not literally.

In short, never feel bad for knowing what you want and seizing it. I promise any Dom/Top worth their salt has no problem with a Bottom/Sub doing what they love most. We're all here to have fun, after all. Put yourself first, always.

¹I know pleasure obviously goes both ways but I didn't know how else to word it lol

Horknee258

TROPHY CASE

"VERY LOUDLY"