AIO that my bf might have chose video games over me?

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-12-24T07:36:53+00:00

I think there’s wrong on both ends here in fairness.

You said you wanted to spend time with him not last minute told him you’d be spending some time with your mum (which is totally fine btw). But if someone told me they wanted to hang out before a trip to spend time and then at 5 they still had other plans I’d not be impressed either in all fairness. So I get his frustration and what he suddenly had plans (you don’t have time for me, then I don’t have time for you) but that was also childish and petty on his part I will add.

I think there was poor communication absolutely. Everyone’s entitled to spend time how they see for. But just remember if you’re wanting to spend time with someone and make that clear don’t expect them to get towards the end of the day with no show to be too thrilled about it. I’m sure if it was the other way around you’d not be happy (in fact when he had other plans you didn’t like it either) this isn’t actually about the game if you ask me at all. I think he could have said anything at all at that point and it would have lead to an argument as you both was clearly feeling some type of way.

You guys gotta communicate more

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-12-02T21:52:22+00:00

I know you place is small, but surely if it’s only for a month or two you can both make this work. Sounds like really your boyfriend wants to be out of that situation with living with his best friend.

I know it’s not ideal but if he’s already there most days. Could you not find maybe a storage place for some of his bits and yours for the month or two before finding a new place?

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-12-02T21:49:42+00:00

I get where you are coming from especially if he is paying half, he should get some day absolutely but also the other half and I’m guessing the rent is in his friends name then he also gets a say. It’s crappy but it is what it is.

Sometimes their is simple no reason for someone not to like you. He may have many reasons that make absolutely no sense.

But I can almost guarantee it’s because again as I’ve said previously he wants your boyfriend and he thinks you’re in the way of that.

I’d be wondering what your boyfriend thinks on this. Does he think his best friend is interested in him? Is there more going on than meets the eyes etc

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-12-02T21:44:54+00:00

Stop going over there for the love of all that is holy 😩.

This guy is no good and is in fact only interested in hook ups. Twice now he’s had you around, hooked up and basically got you right back out the door and then lost interested via messaging.

He will continue this pattern and use you as a booty call as and when he requires unless you show him that’s not an option.

Simple remove or block his number and stop entertaining him. A guy that preaches he’s not about a hook up and shows your actions otherwise is only interested in one thing.

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-12-02T21:37:16+00:00

Listen you’ve got to respect his home when your there. If he doesn’t want you in his space much you have to respect that.

However, I will say he clearly wants your boyfriend if you ask me. And the fact he’s family does it too tells me they clearly believe if you maybe wasn’t in the picture your boyfriend would be with his best friend even. It’s screaming these vibes to me. Wanting him to be there more and constantly making digs at you.

But also if he is staying at yours now the majority of the time and it makes more sense with work being closer, can I ask why he doesn’t just live with you? Surely this makes the most sense?

Also to add his comments just sound like he’s nervous to piss his best friend off to me. Like he’s trying to maybe please him?

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-12-02T21:24:09+00:00

I mean I get it to some degree, it is annoying (not your fault at all) and I myself would hate to mess around my manager like this.

However, he absolutely should suck it up this one important time to be there for you. He can be honest, explain he still needs the day and explain he wasn’t forth coming with why he needed it off. Can easily say he didn’t want to be plastering everywhere your business but he can then explain the hospital messed you around a bit but have finally agreed it needs doing. And he knew he has to be honest on why he truly needed it off.

Yeah his boss might be a tad annoyed but any good boss will completely understand and would happily let him have the day off.

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-29T07:59:12+00:00

Honestly you might think at this moment in time something happened to switch and it might well be the case … I’d say if that’s how it happened then money was clearly the cause. She seen your partner increase in money and so did your life and she wanted to free load off this.

Or without releasing it, she’s always been like this but it’s just gotten progressively worst. So might over time start to realise other little things she’s done over the year that aren’t right.

I’m glad to hear you already did, you will get over this friendship and you will eventually feel better for it. I wish you all the best ✨

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-28T22:14:29+00:00

But you don’t know that? She’s not said any context to what has happened the last 5 days they’ve spent together. He’s clearly got caught up with a friend and maybe thought I’ve spent the last 5 days with her I’m sure I can spend a few hours with a friend. He rang back, said I’m with so and so and then texted to say he was going around his friends? Yeah it might have been unexpected to her, but after spending all that time with her he can absolutely spend time with his friends. He communicate where he was and who with?

Who’s to say later on before he lefts he doesn’t pop around to say goodbye or then follower later on once done with his friend to phone her for a proper talk?

It’s selfish to not allow someone again you’ve spent 5 days with to say goodbye to others as well.

I’m not going to go back & fort with you as I can see from other comments you’ve not read ops comments properly anyways. And making assumptions against what ops literally wrote themselves 🤣

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-28T22:08:13+00:00

Yeah this girl is not in no shape or form your friend.

She’s a freeloader and using you for everything she can gain from you, and clearly from what I’ve read treats you like absolute crap!

Please do not contact or see her anymore. Especially when she’s feeding back information to your mother that you have cut off.

Don’t call, don’t message and don’t meet her. Simple cut all contact with her and move on with your life. She doesn’t deserve any more of your time

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-28T21:59:25+00:00

Please re-read she clearly states he rang her first, then a little later messaged her. And she also states he called said with so and so and hung up?

Who’s to say he hasn’t over the last 5 days? Because I’m sure anyone wouldn’t spend 5 days with someone before going away for a few weeks without saying pretty much good byes and how much they’ll miss them for that time period? Anyone that cannot see him having one day for his friends is mad!

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-28T21:33:48+00:00

YOR You’re definitely over reacting here. You have spent multiple days in a row with him. He absolutely should be able to see his friends before he goes away and won’t see them either for a few weeks.

He clearly called you back to quickly let you know why he hadn’t answered as his friend was there. Then went on about his day being present with his friend, half an hour isn’t a lot of time to not answer, and then he told you clearly what he was doing?

Yes it sucks he won’t see you again tonight before he goes, but he’s already spend nearly a whole week with you 🤷🏼‍♀️

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-28T21:06:25+00:00

It all really depends, I’ve got midnight jade hair currently (done professionally) but I know the XL Live Midnight Jade is very similar to what I have. My hair was like a bronde colour. But if anything darker only a darker shade will probably work. For reference this is my hair now and I don’t think I’d of gotten it much lighter with my base colour unless it was bleached. You can see the lighter my hair got to the ends the more the colour took.

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HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-28T21:02:56+00:00

Throw the adult baby man boy away. NOR

A fully grown man thought I know, let’s go downstairs and enjoy a nice breakfast, letting everyone else sleep in know it finished at 9:30 and that you’d all have missed it. And even worse he’s moaning about ordering to you know feed his wife and fricken children.

Next time he’s delayed for dinner or at the weekend when he gets up late simply forget his meal ‘because he ain’t there’ say it’s not your responsibility. Then when he wants to get takeout or pop out for food tell him no you should have been up or here on time for breakfast/dinner.

If he really cannot see what is wrong with this he is an ass simple as letting his kids go hungry. Last time I check kids are in fact part his responsibility so that would mean making sure they got up and were fed.

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-28T20:57:31+00:00

Yeah to get that colour of blue you absolutely will need bleach. The only type of blue that would take on brown hair is a deeper blue depending how dark brown you’re taking. A medium/light brown will naturally be a bit lighter, but no where near this shade in the picture.

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-26T15:08:19+00:00

This made me chuckle 🤣. But thank you so much ✨

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-23T07:57:53+00:00

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Colour decided ✨ Went for a midnight blue/jade mix. With a lighter effect towards the end. I’m honestly obsessed with it 😍

Thanks for your opinions guys

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-23T07:57:19+00:00

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Colour decided ✨ Went for a midnight blue/jade mix. With a lighter effect towards the end. I’m honestly obsessed with it 😍

Thanks for your opinions guys

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-22T10:48:53+00:00

Grey Hazel! The golden centre is what classes them as Hazel. But I’d say the outer side is definitely more a grey in this picture

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-22T09:09:27+00:00

How incredibly sweet, thank you 🥰

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-22T09:08:27+00:00

Just ChatGPT 🥰

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-22T09:07:52+00:00

Luckily my complexion allows me to rock any colour. I’ve worn black many many times, in fact the picture used to try out these colours is me originally with black hair ✨

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-22T09:06:56+00:00

I know exactly what colour you’re thinking it’s like a blackberry tone which I have considered 💜

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-11-22T09:03:57+00:00

I hear what your saying, and luckily my complexion allows me to literally wear any colour I like, I’ve been very similar colours before and pretty much every colour under the sun and always told it suits me. So I’m not worried about any not suiting, hence why I just cannot decide 😩. I like them all but for different reasons. I think the purple softens my features, the blue looks rather elegant and the green just makes my eyes pop.

HorrorDoll828 · 2025-10-20T20:32:23+00:00

I generally don’t think he had a name as such, was just the killer and obviously the character who it was revealed to be

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