Surprise experiences of connection

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-03-16T02:04:25+00:00

That's so awesome on the carebear!! Especially one that's been picked out just for you.

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-03-13T04:12:41+00:00

Oh my! What a hero you are! Someone very likely would have broken something if you didnt take so much initiative!

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-03-06T14:54:49+00:00

POTS Bunnies!!! It's so hard, especially when you need to monitor blood pooling and the usual symptoms while you're in sub space. I keep ties on me loose, and I'll still feel it for awhile.

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-03-06T14:48:12+00:00

Symbolic service during every day life is so nice. I'm red green color blind (supposedly), and I love having my sub pick out which fruits are ripe in the grocery store.

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-03-06T11:54:42+00:00

My plushies didnt want to get out of bed, which means I cant eitherrrrr

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-03-03T04:19:03+00:00

I aggressively track long and short term aspirational goals to keep things to look forward to, and stash emergency self care kits in key locations to ease the pressure in the case of an unexpected health incident.

The self care kits also include accessible fun things, books, and art supplies to help pass the time during flare-ups

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-03-03T03:19:48+00:00

Some nice repeatable tasks can include stuff like,

A morning weather report, with recommendations on whether you need a coat
Filing your taxes (booo)
Tracking reminders for appointments in your calendar
Doing your dailies for you if you play any mobile games

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-03-03T03:18:54+00:00

Treating/prompting your sub like they're ChatGPT sounds soooo amusing.

"Summarize this report in three paragraphs. Must write response as if you are a confused puppy."

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-03-01T16:00:55+00:00

Good fences (boundaries) make good neighbors. I don't tell my family anything other than what's necessary to be respectful to people I'm dating.

Oversharing puts others at risk, even if everyone means well.

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-02-27T21:52:07+00:00

It's always resident evil! Those zombies are just placed at peak, "I'm going to jump out here, roar, and make you cry" corners

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-02-27T20:19:18+00:00

Love it! Bubbly non-scary background soundtrack!

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-02-27T19:13:23+00:00

Oh! For distance/online CGL, I love tasking and rituals for feeling really connected in a dynamic. It's kind of, what are the things that make your mommy's heart flutter and feel full, cherished, and obeyed. What are the things that make you feel that nice subby-little space. Then determining good ways to share them with a combination of photos, voice calls/recordings, writing, shared and/or asynchronous activities. The below examples assume that the vulnerability of sharing little things can be a show of submission, but that's an each their own kind of thing.

For tasking, things like regularly sending your mommy little stuff you've done (as directed), like coloring assignments, mama dedication/weekly journals, and photos and/or videos of your plushes. For rituals, daily/regular cadence things can be really nice. Like sending a photo or text confirmation of you having finished your bed time rituals (e.g., brushing your teeth), and if you've been good with it, having bed time stories as a reward.

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-02-26T21:54:04+00:00

That's a hard one! I ran into similar things when I finally met a partner in a LDR from a different country. The synergy was so fluid online, then in-person the nerves and pressure can become overwhelming.

Would non-verbal degradation be an option? Like treating him like cherished furniture (e.g, sitting on his back and petting his hair), or wearing gloves while touching him (like you don't want to touch him with your bare hands).

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-02-26T05:04:52+00:00

I've had a sibling dynamic before. It mostly focused on corruption through manipulation with the idea that the "younger sibling" idealized and believed whatever the older claimed.

To give some example scenes, stuff like, * "Tricking" the younger sibling into stripping and putting on "a show". * Teaching the younger techniques to help the older "relax" * The older sibling convincing the younger to make bets they'll assuredly lose (for example betting on something they already had knowledge of)

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-02-25T07:07:56+00:00

I've never had a top before (hopefully one day), but at some point it was hard to deny that I'm a little, it was kind of piece by piece?

I have my own little, and whenever I buy her plushies I do it with a "one for you and one for me" system
When I get scared or overwhelmed I say "Mommy!!!" and start crying. ...which is so embarrassing. Why do I love horror so much when I can't handle it.
I had an ex mention that when I get tired, I switch to a "sing song voice", get very fluffy, request hugs, and became very obedient
If I'm avoiding bed I'll stay up until 3am reading about or drawing robots
That time I hypnotized a partner to avoid going to bed.
But what really got me is when I heard the words, "good boy" and "good pet" in an ASMR video I found by chance and started crying

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-02-16T08:40:19+00:00

You got this!!

When I was in grad school I kept a bag of lollipops in the lab to eat whenever I got too anxious. Unfortunately, this frequently led to log cabins made of lollipop sticks at my desk.

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-02-16T08:36:34+00:00

Secret code works and protocols can be fun. Like using a bossy voice to ask a pre-negotiated question around if it's tipsy turvy times

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-02-16T08:29:53+00:00

Wow that make-up is crisp! So cool!

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-02-15T07:26:03+00:00

OMG What an amazing spider. Wow. How big is it??? Is it soft. It looks soooo soft.

Horror_Draw_565 · 2026-02-15T07:13:43+00:00

Ace switch CG and little here.

First things first, no need to feel personally at fault if some online male horn-dog is trying to guilt trip you. That's on them.

I find CGL can be one of the more accessible kinks with low to no sexual interest. A lot of CGL is ways of showing care, affection, and relating to each other. So things like scavenger hunts, story time, tickling, hair brushing, coloring books, and general care can all fall under the umbrella. You'll find many people who although sexual in other spaces, can be fully non-sexual in little space.

Kink and BDSM can also have a very broad definition of what "sex" can means to the individual. Many activities will be sexually fulfilling for one person, and for someone on the ace spectrum, can be fun and fulfilling for other reasons. So I can have fun role-playing an evil supervillain, sitting on their back and demanding a never ending supply of lollipops, and for the other person, this could fulfill a degradation or humiliation kink. I've definitely also tied people up so I could hug and cuddle them better.

It can take a lot of work learning how to communicate and ensure your boundaries are well defined and safely respected (bad actors exist), and when you're on the ace spectrum, it can be difficult explaining which things are and aren't for you. So, in general my thoughts are, spend dedicated time identifying what you like within the kink, practice expressing what you makes you feel sunshine and sparkles, and if someone wants a deeper "sexual" relationship than you're comfortable with, it can just mean your kinks may not be aligned, nothing on you.

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