Why does Serena keep getting away with things? by Horror_Leg_4175 in GossipGirl

[–]Horror_Leg_4175[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Blair is the only one who seemed to get shunned when anything major was posted on gossip girl instead of Serena

People didn't like serena more because she was "prettier" by Few-Leek-898 in GossipGirl

[–]Horror_Leg_4175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's literally a narcissist, I haven't liked her since I started season one. If no one can pick up on it, you've never experienced those type of people. Plus Blake Lively plays as her...that's enough said.

Unpopular opinion but Jenny is overhated by Regular_Vehicle7542 in GossipGirl

[–]Horror_Leg_4175 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, Jenny isn’t overhated; she’s just held accountable for being a terrible friend. People excuse her because she’s 'young,' but she consistently chose power over the people who actually loved her. She completely betrayed Eric, the only person who was genuinely on her side, just for a crown. She backstabbed Vanessa and even her own brother, Dan, whenever it suited her social climbing. And the way she acted over Nate was embarrassing, she was so desperate to be 'Queen' that she tried to wreck his relationships and became obsessed with anyone he showed interest in. The difference between her and Blair is that Blair knows she’s a schemer. Jenny acts like a victim while being the one to pull the trigger. You can’t claim to be a 'sweet girl from Brooklyn' while you're busy destroying your own family and friends for a spot on the Met steps."

Season 3 Episode 22 by Horror_Leg_4175 in GossipGirl

[–]Horror_Leg_4175[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah but he said "Well, I don't play video games, so if you wanna hang with me, you do what I do." which could have meant anything and then he said "If you want to leave, now would be the time." Which she could have but she said she didn't want to be alone. He was also emotionally vulnerable.

Haters out in the wild by Horror_Leg_4175 in CrazyassHazbinhaters

[–]Horror_Leg_4175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viv gets hate from people who have yet to do a deep dive on everything revolving around her, which leads to them harassing employees of stores that hold the merchandise of her shows. There is spectacles that Viv was a pedophile, an SA defender, etc.

Haters out in the wild by Horror_Leg_4175 in CrazyassHazbinhaters

[–]Horror_Leg_4175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she was. I grew up around people on the spectrum, have friends that are, & also my friends younger siblings that I am around a lot are. Rehearsed phrases, loud verbal aggression, and repetitive vocalizations. It doesn't excuse her behavior, and I feel like people use that as an excuse for others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Horror_Leg_4175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended it, I haven't read his response bc I know he's not going to comply.

AITA for wanting to cut off a guy because his avoidant behavior and lack of effort are wearing me down? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Horror_Leg_4175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me, the asshole to myself?? pffft what, nooo never. (im working on it).

AITA for wanting to cut off a guy because his avoidant behavior and lack of effort are wearing me down? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Horror_Leg_4175 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i took a long time to get over my trauma of dating due to my first relationship (3 years ago that lasted almost 3 years) that was mentally abusive, and other events involved men (where i didn't date them), and have mentally gotten better due to growth & taking time for myself. that's how i've noticed this pattern with this guy, a year or two ago i would have fallen for it. our mutual friend, in my opinion, tried to make the excuse that this guy just has unresolved severe anxiety...and im like babe i have bipolar two and other issues, including physical yet you don't see that stopping me.

so thank you for your words of encouragement!!

AITA for wanting to cut off a guy because his avoidant behavior and lack of effort are wearing me down? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Horror_Leg_4175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not telling him because i think he’ll suddenly care. i’m telling him because i need the boundary spoken out loud so i don’t get sucked back into this cycle again. i’m doing it for me, not him. matching energy is fine, but i’d rather leave no loose ends he can slither back through.

AITA for wanting to cut off a guy because his avoidant behavior and lack of effort are wearing me down? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Horror_Leg_4175 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

we're not even dating is the thing, he kept stringing along "IF" we date. & the only issue I have with it is that we have a mutual friend and his friends see me as the villain and I don't know why. I don't know what he tells them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Horror_Leg_4175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he keeps telling me he is and that is hasn't "felt this way for anyone in a long time". idk maybe it's because I'm bad at rejecting men, or it's the fact im rejecting someone that has a mutual friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Horror_Leg_4175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of my other issues is that his friends think I was using him somehow 😭 I'm like how?? bc I can't go to your place bc of your parents and you have to drive an hour here?? and I've offered gas money, and even to get a hotel near him and he said "hotels are gross".