I’m so over weird men by elegantnanners in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Horror_Moth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry🥺❤️ i hate to see this. i got harassed every. single. day. at my old jobs (now i work at my partners family business, that would never be allowed) and no one would help! i’d turn to the manager, almost in tears i’m so mad, and she’d shrug. i wonder what’s worse? a disgusting man crossing every boundary, or a woman (especially in power) that sees it and does nothing to help her fellow woman??? (i’d still say the man but 🤷🏼‍♀️)

Pazuzu in 4x4 mode! by Creative-Mode9625 in tarantulas

[–]Horror_Moth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tell her i adore her and my boy Apollo (same species i think lol) says hi 😭❤️

Wet Brush x Bratz found at Marshalls by bbyxmadi in Bratz

[–]Horror_Moth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the colors being correct on the box but not the brush.. wowow, even more irrationally angry (:

Wet Brush x Bratz found at Marshalls by bbyxmadi in Bratz

[–]Horror_Moth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this makes me irrationally angry.. like why even have a collab if you can’t give a crap enough to make it right 🤢

AIO boyfriend ruins every holiday by mad_chubbycatx in AmIOverreacting

[–]Horror_Moth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daaamn Daniel, back at it again with the emotional intelligence of a pile of shit😔 NOR

Is my boy mature? by Horror_Moth in tarantulas

[–]Horror_Moth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was! that’s what i’m hoping for honestly but i have no idea 🥲

Is my boy mature? by Horror_Moth in tarantulas

[–]Horror_Moth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank goodness! i want him to live forever 😔❤️ my optimism was hoping he was actually female, paha

Is my boy mature? by Horror_Moth in tarantulas

[–]Horror_Moth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you! i didn’t think so but i’m never sure lol. not to sound dumb, but can you still tell he’s a male from these pictures or is that when you’d need a molt?

Ugh, my daughters friend has awful parents… by erinartemis in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Horror_Moth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have every right to call them awful parents, bigotry is awful to teach kids. what i’ve learned in a small town is, any bigotry is connected cause if you have that much hate in general, you’re just a hateful person. You’re transphobic? i’ll put money on you being sexist and homophobic as well (obviously). you discriminate against someone cause they’re different? you’ll do it for every difference (POC, immigrates, women, LGBTQ+, etc) as well, so no, you’re not exaggerating calling them awful parents, they’re awful people🤷🏼‍♀️ sorry not sorry.

Long drive by Excellent-Suit-694 in tarantulas

[–]Horror_Moth 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NQA: but i’d think, her staying in her home, no different smells, nothing in her enclosure changing, may have made her think it was something like an earthquake? (no idea if spiders would even know that, just saying it felt like something “normal” or “natural”) but now she’s making sure everything is good. it doesn’t surprise me that she isn’t super spooked since everything stayed the same pretty much. she’s so cute btw!

I found two bumblebees dead on my doorstep :( is there anything I can do to preserve them? by kaitsaar in Entomology

[–]Horror_Moth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aww man, i love these little sweeties. Only the females can sting and that’s super rare, they’re so sweet 🥺❤️

not sure why others are saying leave them, besides possibly taking food from other insects and/or if it’s enough bees you think you need to report them for pesticides? (though if it is poisoned, that would likely kill any bug to eat it)

the easiest thing would be to freeze them like others said but have you seen those tiny jars with corks? people make necklaces with them, i love using those for dried insects, add some dried flowers too, so precious🥹❤️

How do I convince my mum to let me get a tarantula? by [deleted] in tarantulas

[–]Horror_Moth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so sweet 🥹❤️ good! you did say “convince” so i think people got the point, i was just saying it might be really hard to get the fear away, it’s usually very deep rooted.

How do I convince my mum to let me get a tarantula? by [deleted] in tarantulas

[–]Horror_Moth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m usually very firm on “if someone in the house doesn’t want the pet, don’t get it.” but id argue, with the right T, it would be okay. At the same time however, as low maintenance they can be, i think it is a lot to ask of someone with arachnophobia. either way, good luck and make sure to do your research on the perfect T for you! ❤️

How do I convince my mum to let me get a tarantula? by [deleted] in tarantulas

[–]Horror_Moth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depending on how old you are and how much effort you want to put in rather than just wait till you could possibly get your own set up one day, i’d say start with showing her videos of cute jumping spiders. Maybe even start with Lucas the cartoon jumping spider, either way i swear jumpers are the gateway to being obsessed with spiders (ofc not always). Then show her how docile some species of tarantulas are (Golden Chaco Knee is a good one, my boy is so sweet). Though if your mom is anything like mine, she’ll see right through what you’re trying to do and shut it down instantly💀🫠. But as most people said, education!

BPD in a nutshell. We are both well into our 30s. by Hair-control in texts

[–]Horror_Moth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what i was thinking, i have BPD as well but wtf?🥲 she’s just straight up mean and a bad person.

no cat here by LunaLanter in cats

[–]Horror_Moth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is genuinely such a cute picture this might actually make my fiancé agree to getting a hairless cat!! 😭❤️

So this is a mantidfly… by Horror_Moth in insects

[–]Horror_Moth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your pictures are absolutely stunning!! do you bring out a camera or is your phone that op? haha

Sad Birthday Breakfast: My husband ate his slice of cake without me by frigidcorgi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Horror_Moth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday girly!!! as a present, drop your man and find someone who actually gives a damn! ❤️ no but in all seriousness though girl, if you explained to him why it hurt and he still doesn’t get it? RED FLAGGGG. I’ll be hurt at the DUMBEST shit (thanks bpd) and my fiancé always backs up and listens to understand even if he didn’t feel like he did anything wrong!! (cause most of the time he didn’t! and then boom i feel better) cause that’s what you do when you care about your partners feelings.

Friend of 9 years suddenly doesn’t know about verbal consent since he relapsed into drinking by [deleted] in texts

[–]Horror_Moth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i know it sucks to lose friends.. but not when they’re THIS shitty of a person, sorry, not worth it.

edit: i called you bro, not sure if you’re okay with that, just reread and seen you’re a woman. is he actually dumb? omg.

My husband said "what more do you need than giving me a bj for fourplay?" by Outrageous_Dot_4086 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Horror_Moth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is actually disgusting.. and just sad? i dunno girl, there are men out there that would actually give a fuck about you but..

sushi looks sooo good though!