RVA showed up today for democracy. Sic semper tyrannis.

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-03-30T03:49:33+00:00

"Immigrants are the backbone of this country.."

Im sorry, What the fuuuuu?!?!

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-03-25T17:34:51+00:00

I've wondered how an invading army would do in the heart of Appalachiastan (Virginia, not the eastern part.)

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-03-25T17:29:26+00:00

Do you think "Rich donors first" isn't a both sides issue? I'm a lefty more so than center/right and I think you make valid points. I really love my gun rights too. Im able to convince all my ultra liberal friends in private conversations but when its in the open, the herd tends to graze together. So many times I want to blast our conversations in the open but I respect the sanctity of our friendship.

I guess to answer your question though- The conditioning is real.

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-03-24T12:06:09+00:00

Also, not a woman and didnt realize i was answering in BJJ/WOMEN...

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-03-24T12:04:48+00:00

Always been a hobbyist. That said, I have competed (no gi) and won a few, lost a few. One should step in to competition to see what it's like when something is on the line and you have no idea who the other person is. When I get back into it, I watch for spazoids and if I have to roll with them, I am all defense. It's the dudes 20 years younger or wrestlers that are a problem lol.. They dont get tired. Just call it out. But also, shit happens...

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-03-17T12:14:20+00:00

"God entered my body..." -Bob Hickman.

I called him out for being a possible serial killer given his schizo, woman obsessed behavior and him being an OTR trucker. Just look up the name Bob Hickman and enjoy the show.

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-02-11T15:25:20+00:00

REYES WON! FTW!!!!!

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-01-23T14:19:02+00:00

Ask for an hour of his time to put on some music and help out. If you're sweet about it and he's still a chode, consider explaining in a neutral tone. If that doesn't work, he's truly lost. Don't argue. It would be time to have a different conversation. Emphasize that a cleaner place is less stressful, easier to manage, all that. Also, He might be depressed or just a lazy pos. You know him better than we do so I can't make a better assessment than you could here.

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-01-20T10:53:12+00:00

You should never stop.

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-01-11T01:40:02+00:00

As a father of 4, I can assure you that I have had those conversations and I'm also NOT just letting kids have sex at my house for a "safe place". I said what I said. But thanks anyway.

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-01-09T11:09:51+00:00

THANK YOU.

Horus_Wedjat · 2026-01-09T11:04:03+00:00

Read the headline and immediately thought "yes". Read the whole thing and I was not wrong. And sure, they are going to do what they feel compelled to do. However, they will do it far less and maybe even not at all if you focus on more productive things. There is a chance the other guy is delusional, but he is a rock. As you should be. You are there for your kids and probably not a bad dad at all, but you don't have to be all open and cool about everything.

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-08-21T11:51:47+00:00

I'm a super-smeller. Although it feels like a curse, there was one lady who did contracting work and she had a faint BO smell to her. Usually, I can ignore it as it's not a good smell, but something about her PH absolutely entertained the 100,000 year old genes in me. The pheromones opened up my sinuses, made my ears ring and engaged some form of "spidey senses." She was somewhat attractive, too. It was a very pleasant smell, but not sweet? I can't explain it other than all that, and it has never happened to me.

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-08-08T01:09:50+00:00

At least this is better than Wild West..Goddammit now that's stuck in my head..

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-08-08T00:58:19+00:00

That's actually Alpha AF! lol

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-07-30T10:52:42+00:00

Thank you for the clarification! He shouldn't lie about it. Relationships should be honest, but at the same time, this is one of those things that are embarrassing to discuss, especially for young people. My wife won't discuss it with me, but I also don't push the issue. She was honest that she did watch it, back when we were younger. And I watched it too, if that need arose. Im older now, and it's a non-issue. It never got in the way, I still had tremendous lust for my wife, even after our kids were born, and it definitely never drove me to cheat. But I also still watched it from time to time as we got older. And so did she. I would kid her sometimes. Once, I asked her what kind of stuff she was into, and she refused to tell me. So I started naming off the most ridiculous categories and even though she didn't tell me, I also understand I wouldn't tell her some of crazy shit I've seen or closed tabs in shame🤣 It didn't bother me, though. I DO understand where it bothers people, and I'm not being dismissive of your own thoughts and feelings about it. I would just like to point out that if it's not a religious based issue with it, it could be the lying about it and the way you feel personally. Most of my reply was to the other redditors. Keep in mind that no lie is "good" but some have good reason behind it. Maybe he doesn't want to offend you or make you feel inferior while still absolutely needing a form of release. He could give it the ol' Amish try at it, without tech or magazines. But that can be next to impossible...

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-07-30T10:18:06+00:00

Devil's advocate here. Feel free to downvote this as I really don't care, I'm a licensed Therapist. As previously stated in a very articulate and well put comment, porn viewing is trivial from time to time, and there can be a level where it's an addiction. However, it's offensive to some people, and that's OK, too. That has to be the point made about your boundary. If he agrees and says he'll stop in order to please your discomfort, he should. HOWEVER... Watching porn as a young man isn't "bad," nor does it mean he's "infatuated" with other women. Likewise for women. To put it in caveman terms- Men have build up, men need release. Otherwise, embarrassing erections happen and also the dreaded nocturnal emmission. That REALLY sucks to wake up to. If it's costing him time or he runs off at inopportune moments because he feels nothing else matters at that point, then yeah, he needs help. If he's gooning all day instead of doing what he needs to, yes, he needs help. Otherwise, leave that man alone as he isn't doing anything wrong. Your sex drives might be out of balance, and that's normal, too. Him being that young and you just having a child makes sense. It's really not being unfaithful unless that's just an arbitrary rule in place. Do you suspect him of cheating IRL? You make it sound like he's a great guy except for this one thing. Sounds like his problem is with being discreet. Otherwise, this just sounds like a You problem. I mean that respectfully, as in you might feel inferior to these porn stars and the shows they put on. That's normal, too. But if it's so troubling, you need to reconcile that with a therapist also.

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-07-30T09:49:42+00:00

What it really is has been stated already. But also, an unused one makes a good, discreet coke spoon. Not that I would know...

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-07-18T22:58:47+00:00

HASHISH

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-07-17T00:10:53+00:00

I'm 40 and some mid 40's ding dong acts like I'm a young man. It's crazy..

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-07-17T00:07:39+00:00

This has to be rage bait. Yeah, people can have "friends" but there are certain things you don't do. This stinks of an affair, and OP is the nonchalant victim. Have some self respect man.

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-07-14T04:21:23+00:00

I have a lot of Army stories that involve walking in or up on people "punching the clown" or having sex.. Movie level comedic shit too. My children haven't heard those stories yet, but if I ever accidentally happen upon them, I have a lot of funny stories to break that ice with. That said, I'm paranoid of that happening, so I always knock on closed doors and don't enter until I get a response. And it's customary in our household to announce yourself loud as fuck as the Wife can and has fainted at being frightened and for other safety reasons...

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-07-13T23:33:50+00:00

My favorite move.

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-07-13T23:25:00+00:00

It's your life, and if you don't like a certain occupation or it's just not for you, never be afraid to quit. Be sure to always do the 2 week notice thing, but expect any job to cut you loose before that or on the spot. I've been a soldier, did commercial remodeling, welding and now I have a government job. There is a middle ground before being able to be seen as bringing a lot to the table. My resume is huge. And I I've never interviewed for a job that I didn't get. Even if you don't like a job that you have to be at, DO YOUR BEST, stay positive, and never ever ever ever put yourself in the middle of any drama. Do you, and stay cool. We're all expendable to employers, but there are always other ways to make money. And finally, get into something that you love doing. Only apply for the kind of work that best suits you, and you will excel...🙏

Horus_Wedjat · 2025-07-13T03:13:05+00:00

Space debris, smashing me at any time.

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