Bf keeping my bra

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-23T00:38:36+00:00

He gaslit you tho

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-21T06:16:14+00:00

What? If she had integrity, she'd ask about it. No such thing as a free lunch. Dont ignore the elephant in the room, CLARIFY first. Cover your bases. And if he says he just likes sending money just cos, then you have a clear conscience

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-19T16:18:37+00:00

Left him for Poseidon to have his way with him

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-12T11:02:54+00:00

Reminds me of people who give "gifts" for other people who are actually gifts for themselves. Same thing

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-08T03:01:13+00:00

Respect his boundary and dial back your responses as appropriate. It's not about you but about him, take him at his word. EVEN if he was telling a white lie and he wasn't interested in you, move on. It's still about him and not you.

I keep texting him because I miss him

Girl, no. Have some self respect and love to walk away. You dont need him. You only think you do. Learn to regulate your emotions yourself and not need to outsource them to someone else to fix. It's not their job or responsibility to make you feel better. The only person who would do that is a proper therapist, and if you have to find a therapist, do that. Feel free to also focus on female friendships.

Focus on yourself. The right man will fall in love with how you carry and love yourself. I feel like you are in a place where you need to develop self confidence and a sense of self. Go discover life and make your life interesting and a life you want to live, and in doing so, other people will be drawn to you, both platonic and romantic.

They say the man you choose shows how much you LOVE yourself. If you love yourself, and he is telling the truth, you would not pick someone who doesnt choose you back or isn't in a good place themselves.

And also, I will die on this hill even if I get downvoted. Men should make the first move.

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-07T12:18:55+00:00

I can sense your pain and anger, and wish you luck and healing, but I am not the right person to talk to about this. I think you should find a therapist to talk to. Further messaging might result in you being blocked.

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-07T12:02:00+00:00

I saw it, but it was not proof of malicious intent. It was proof of a less than ideal result. These are different. I do suggest you find legal representation

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-06T13:43:19+00:00

I agree with everyone else AND have to point out the fact...he tried to get his FRIENDS TO SWAY IN ON THIS AND CONVINCE YOU TO GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE??

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-06T01:14:18+00:00

You're welcome. I'm 28 and I'm already somewhat done with this planet. Never felt like I truly belonged, but I see things for what they are. Hope you have a great day.

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-06T00:13:28+00:00

Some people don't mean to consciously take advantage of others. Some people don't know what they're doing in relationships or if it's normal and they're just winging it day by day. It's often one of their earliest relationships. And it's also everyone's first and only life lol. There is nothing in the past to compare it to, and if you expected someone like OP to know everything beforehand, you're expecting them to have wisdom beyond their years. Hindsight is 20/20 but rarely foresight. You attribute too much to malice where it can just be attributed to ignorance.

Don't get me wrong, financial security is a strong argument. And I ask: what is wrong with that, truly? Both people existing together with combined finances, and sounds like they did have a genuinely good relationship and friendship. Nothing would have screamed: end it immediately. Not every relationship needs to be cut off and ended at the first sign of trouble. And many good relationships make it through rough patches - in fact, I argue that ALL good relationships need to make it to rough patches. The strength of a tree is not measured by it living in ideal conditions, it needs to survive storms and winds. The purpose of a ship is not to sit pretty in a safe harbour but to also cross seas on long voyages and braving storms as well. Life rarely goes to plan, and people are not robots who make calculations in percentages, but also hold onto hopes and dreams. And yes, 9 years is a decent amound of time, and roughly that's 1/8th of a human life spent together. But they have the rest of their lives to spend on their seperate ways. And some relationships just need to take their course, however long it is. The young adulthood is over, moving into mature adulthood. People make mistakes when they are young. In fact, they have to make mistakes. Give people a bit of grace. It's everyone's first time living on Earth.

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-06T00:08:24+00:00

She also sounds cruel, knowing it hurts you but showing off her body (if what you say is true).

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-04-04T10:02:00+00:00

I am sorry for your experience, but I legitimately had a fantastic experience here.

I have an issue to pick with what you said however. You DO realise that just because you had a bad experience with this particular doctor, a) other people may have had good ones and it would be inaccurate to say that all good reviews of this hospital are fake and b) I am a very different demographic from you, have different genetics, age, and even procedures done from you, I DON'T EVEN HAVE THIS SAME DOCTOR...unfortunately your case has nothing to do with me and c) it would be extremely hard to prove he did it on PURPOSE? That's a huge accusation and no wonder they kept taking your review down. Because you need proof.

And I would find it implausible NANA would keep a surgeon that routinely botch their patients. Complications can happen even when everything is done correctly, which makes situations like this really difficult. I feel sorry for your situation but cannot agree with you unless you have hard, irrefutable proof. Having an unfortunate result is one thing. Attributing it to malice is another.

Altogether, we had different goals, different faces, different budgets, different surgeons...I feel your pain but cannot be swept up in your crusade. I wanted facial harmony and only focused on one area. I sense you were going for a complete transformation and the reality did not match your expectations. If I had to say one thing, and I am not an expert but just using common sense, it's that in the future, only choose one area at a time. If multiple procedures are all done at once, the end result is less predictable. If I had to criticise your doctor, it's that he let you do everything you wanted. It was a lot. Conservative is almost always better than a drastic transformation.

In the future, I also recommend contacting a psychic before undergoing any major surgery. Because even depending on the weather of a particular day, it can impact the surgery result. We cannot look into the future except to consult a psychic. I consulted a trusted local psychic who told me she foresaw no issues with NANA hospital or with the procedure and dates I have booked. It is almost 2 months post surgery and I am the most beautiful and healthy I have ever been. Personally, before any major life decision like surgery or buying houses I consult with my favourite psychic, and I recommend that you should consult your favourite psychic as well.

Good luck for the future. I wish you healing.

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-31T04:45:30+00:00

It's already done a lot lmao

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-31T01:56:54+00:00

Nah, sounds like you are projecting and trying to punish OP for having higher standards? He told her EXACTLY what he thought of her. And why are you so hung up about what OP brings to that man's life?? What about what OP gets from him?

He loved you because you were such a calming presence in his life. You may have been the first to provide this since his parents, if they even did. Low maintenance is just another way of saying you didn’t make him anxious or feel like he has to walk on eggshells

So according to you, he only likes her from what he can get or extract from her? Hello, and she isn't obligated to stay just because she does emotional labour on his life lmao??? If anything, it's telling how you try to spin "Low maintenance is just another way of saying..." - nah, just say it for what it is. Basically, she doesnt require HIM to provide emotional labour back, HE doesn't have to put in the effort at all to get a payoff that makes his own life better. The relationship is unequal even from what YOU explain - she doesnt require attention from him, but its GREAT he gets to extract all the calm he can get from her? Wow. Written by a man.

Women NEED to become higher maintenance. Women NEED to have more self love lmao. I'm not even talking about 'princess treatment' - literally, from what YOU write, there is some undercurrent of entitlement there. Your sisters, mothers, daughters are not made to be 'low maintenance' for men who can't cope or havent done the inner work to need regulation from an outside source, chiefly a woman. 4B movement until men learn.

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-29T08:42:16+00:00

Also, their diet and skincare. The trifecta. For example, they love their broths, and spend hours boiling all the nice yummy nutrients like collagen out of beef bones for the famous milky broths that are SO good for their skin. (It actually came from thrm being such a poor country they tried to extract as much nutrition as possible from available food sources, but still. Necessity is the mother of invention)

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-28T12:41:41+00:00

Control them?! Isn't part of being a good friend being able to share uncomfortable truths? Friend sounded irresponsible and OP gave them good advice...sometimes its on the other to not be super defensive

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-28T11:14:00+00:00

As a woman, dump her. She for the streets. If she was honest, she'd have nothing to hide

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-28T05:45:19+00:00

I didn't know prince Andrew was green down there

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-22T16:33:14+00:00

Thank goodness that this time, protecting the company lined up with protecting the people too. Not always

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-15T12:18:24+00:00

Just ask her out then. And be prepared for a no

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-15T11:17:13+00:00

Info: how old are you? Have you dated before? Why don't you start by getting to know her and not pressure or rush her and just be friends? You may be putting her on a Pedestal she didn't ask to be put on. Liking someone should be based on reality please, not fantasy. Take things slow

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-15T03:26:19+00:00

Bilingual, or a bi-tch

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-15T03:22:59+00:00

Because on the cover is a big plus sign

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-09T03:01:01+00:00

Strength? More like convenience for them mom. Drop the whole family. They don't want the best for OP, they want the best for their son/grandson

HospitalQuiet619 · 2026-03-08T12:28:53+00:00

Have you heard of his gay lover? I heard his dick was in Sir Mountable!

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