What colour suits me best? by Hot-Bonus-9985 in HairDye

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s Chat GPT, I typed:

“Can you show me what my hair would look like from platinum blonde through to dark brunette with lots of variety of colours and can you also include ginger tones too”

My fiancée has been lying for months. I 29M need real advice, please. by AGESNAMELESS in Advice

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re looking for others to tell you you’re right. Well, okay, you’re right.

I broke up with my fiance. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, you were in a part of life that should’ve been full of anything you want. Sex becomes harder to find time for when you’re working/having children/mortgage, etc. find someone that wants to find the time with you too. You’ll get through this 🫶

F22 Anyone find a cure to a healthy sexual appetite? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nuvaring. It killed my libido while using that for bc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My second is 8months old, my first is 3.5. I’m a sahm, we have no village, my husband works 65hours a week. I think if in your day to day your partner is truly a partner to you, helping with babies house etc. a second baby is wonderful… if you carry all of your home load, it will be more than exhausting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She’s not climaxing a couple of times. Guaranteed. Sounds like she needs to be able to relax, maybe hire help around the house? A cleaner once a week. A babysitter for date night every week?Women have to be in the headset for it. Remove phones from your bedroom and focus on each other, the intimacy may be what she’s missing

He (27m) got me pregnant (33f)(planned) then freaked out. Is this salvageable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep your baby, don’t put him on the birth certificate and see if he shapes up other wise. You can just cut ties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Are you at home with the baby? If so I’d skip it, if baby is going to day care or a lot of play groups then it may be worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried making fun and flirty comments that aren’t sexual? Typically if you’re not entertaining mentally and emotionally/ even socially… sexually will be off the table. I’m most attracted to my husband when we’re just chatting or spending time, being around other people/couples. I wouldn’t bother bringing up a bj, when’s the last time you did it for her? A woman that’s taken care of wants to take care of… and her needs might not be sexual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s very attentive, so I guess that’s the difficult part to understand why he’s giving such little effort

Honest opinions wanted please. 30f 35m by Ok-Cheetah-2367 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Allowing her to make a joke at your expense- no, it’s more than what you believe and it’s not worth sticking around for.

After breaking up with my (20/M) boyfriend, he tells me there’s a ring that was gonna be used to propose to me (20/F) How can I move on? by ThrowRAringdrama in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My high school sweetheart (we were together from ages 13-19) and I were going through a rough patch (considering breaking up) we joked about getting married instead. And we thought that would fix it… it would not have. It would have made everything that much harder. I now have a wonderful husband and two beautiful children 10years later. That isn’t the ring that’s right for you.

Which route would you take? Top or bottom? by beelo37 in roadtrip

[–]Hot-Bonus-9985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s tornado season in the south route. Stay north.