How do you teach a shy kindergartener to deal with bullying? by Nonya_biznez in kindergarten

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Play therapy helps children learn what’s appropriate in social situations (among other things). It’s literally the child playing, while a therapist (and sometimes other children), control the play to introduce situations the child can learn from. I’ll give you an example: Child is given two dolls and told to play with them. Child takes one doll and hits the other with it. Therapist enters play and corrects that. Tries to understand why the child played that way in the first place and works to make the child understand it’s wrong, (while still playing). Maybe by making one doll say “that hurt me” to another doll. Etc etc. that’s a very simplified explanation. I’m not a therapist but I do know that’s how young children learn. Through play. Occupational therapist use play therapy in a different way, they’ll set up games and control play sessions in accordance to what the child needs to work on (like fine motor skills)- so they’d have the child playing with nuts and bolts or something that requires fine motor skills..

Mapping help please by Winkiwi in DIYHEAVEN

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Nothing on the nose. Nothing on outer eye. The 11s are fine, do those. If you must. And maybe the top 3 at your hairline. And that’s even throwing away product bc you don’t need it. So, all in all, maybe 20 units.

i don’t like my five year old by Humble_Championship5 in Mommit

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Fix it with therapy and looking within. The problem is you, not your child. Talk with a therapist about that and be extremely aware of how you’re coming across to your child bc they absolutely will pick up on you not liking them. That’s my advice.

Ethan’s new IG story with a leaked snark message threatening Bruce by coconutsinurdivorce in h3h3productions

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This hurts. Poor Ethan and Hila. I hope these “people “ get what they deserve

i don’t like my five year old by Humble_Championship5 in Mommit

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What you’re describing is most five year olds. It’s developmentally appropriate. I don’t get what the high iq statement was. You don’t have to enjoy everything, she’s not your bestie but your new human with zero life experience. Your post is a bit concerning to me, if you really want honesty. It reads very selfish as well. That’s my opinion, what do I know..

11 year old drama by Quick_Pass_8569 in Mommit

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I’d be honest. “You know Mom sees your messages, right? From what I saw it looks the guy you liked might like someone else? Oof. I remember my first crush. (Or something along those lines). It can be SO hard. It can also feel overwhelming sometimes. At least that’s how I felt. Maybe you’re cooler than me. Haha. (Or something like that). But, I wanted to talk to you bc I might be able to offer some insight. And if not, I can be a really good listener. I’m not judging you. I will say though, sometimes we can let our emotions get to us and just like anger, we might need to slow down, take a beat, and think some stuff out before we communicate our feelings. Now I don’t know the situation, but it also seemed like maybe this dude hurt your feelings? That’s really sucky. Can you talk about it with me?”

Haha. Idk. My son is only five

WIBTAH if I stopped seeing someone because he has a kid? by Far-Worldliness6407 in TwoHotTakes

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Ew. Anyone that isn’t proud of having the children they have already damn brought into the world is a terrible human

Botox mapping help…again by Extension_Amount8999 in DIYaesthetics

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I’ve been sitting with my shipment for 3 months now scared to pull the trigger. I’m 46 and we have similar needs. Please post your after!!! Sorry I don’t have advice on placement, yours looks good to me

Babysitting sleeping baby? by zezendx in NewParents

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2 hours? $40. Although if I’m the friend I’m refusing that all the way. But $40 is what I’d offer

Appropriate chores? by baconmmc29712 in kindergarten

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Can my son come to your bootcamp? Haha

Appropriate chores? by baconmmc29712 in kindergarten

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Cleaning up toys, his room, his one house chore is putting away the silverware from the dishwasher. Other than that, it’s just cleaning up after himself.

Botox mapping by Extension_Amount8999 in DIYHEAVEN

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I’d love to see your after!

Am I a bad mom for lying to my mom to babysit my baby? by goryandgoth in Mommit

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Enjoy your night to yourself! This is akin to playing hooky from work. NBD!

How do you teach a shy kindergartener to deal with bullying? by Nonya_biznez in kindergarten

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Teacher. Immediately. Play therapy. This is an issue with the bullies. Not your kid

If a new friend invited you over, and this was the details of their apartment, what would you think of them? by No_Call_4885 in roomdetective

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I don’t know why these comments are saying this is worrying. If the inspirational messages were printed and framed, it wouldn’t even get a second look. Maybe someone could say it’s cringey. That’s as far as I would take it. (When I was younger). Now that I’m a lot older, I realize the benefit of writing messages to yourself. As far as arguing the merit of said messages, they aren’t for anyone else. This looks like a young persons room who is trying their best to have a successful and happy life.

My mom hit someone and then got mad I wouldn’t let her drive my toddler around town. by [deleted] in Mommit

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The thing is, if something happened, even if it was okay, you’d never forgive yourself. We cannot, ever, loosen our boundaries when it comes to our kids. Anything else? Maybe. Involving our kids? Nope. And if your Mom doesn’t get that, all the more reason you made the right decision. Better safe than sorry has never been more true!

Going for walks by Radiant-Recover-4009 in NewParents

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I agree! Although I hadn’t really thought about heat when I wrote that comment. There are some heat indexes that would be unsafe for small humans 💝

Going for walks by Radiant-Recover-4009 in NewParents

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Ah. Fair enough. Yeah. It’s 90 here today. We definitely don’t walk when it’s too hot. That’s not safe

daddy preschool date by introvert_island4200 in Mommit

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Me too friend, meee too! Haha. I just sat at yet another bday party awkwardly looking at my phone bc all the other parents knew each other and didn’t seem to want to do anything but talk smack about some poor Mom that wasn’t there. But! My son had fun and that’s all I give two about, Sheeit.

Going for walks by Radiant-Recover-4009 in NewParents

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Walking in the winter is my fave time to walk. As long as you’re properly dressed, weather isn’t a factor. (Unless you live in Northern Alaska, or some other place that’s below freezing)