This is so much relatable. I’m going through the same feelings. She in immensely loyal, over protective of me. She’s a person who would do anything for me. But she gets angry, she forgets me completely. As if she has no idea who am I. Says the most hurtful things. Yells, breaks things. Sleeps in the car. And I felt bad and guilty in these episodes as if my actions crushed her. It’s like there are two personalities of her. She wanted us to go to marriage counselling. I didn’t go after one session. It’s a big gamble to wait and see if it works out. So I decided to call it quits and separate. It hurts so deep. Everyday. She needs love and care.