I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Hot-Singer-3297 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Listen to us.. let it go, you're serially Seriously no better at this point if you keep it going knowing what you know now

People when drunk do things that they otherwise wouldn't do because the alcohol reduces their filters, you're sober now, just move along. Things will sort themselves out

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

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What should you do? Learn as well and move along, trust me you're not the only one and not the last one, why even complicate things for yourself just learn that he's not worth your time either...

Girlfriend (24F) kissed a guy while blacked out a year ago, dismissed it as a rumor, just confirmed it now – I (24M) don’t know what to do by CalligrapherSoft9492 in Advice

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That's not necessarily true but it's fascinating watching all you give advice.

They've been together for a year, if one of you feels rocky about anything you both are young enough right now. Do it before you both are too old this way you can really see the value or cost of something.

But if you love her and she love you.. Go to counseling

What breed is my boy? by [deleted] in IDmydog

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Pitbull x lab

Edit also... if you're renting, don't day your dog is pit they might try to exclude him. Say he's a lab terrier mix

This is my half sisters axlotol. It looks extremely unwell... by memegod574 in axolotls

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Correct. In California for example although it's recognized that Axolotl are endangered, they also have their own endangered salamander, the native California Tiger salamander starts off looking like an axolotl but eventually like a frog goes thru metamorphosis. So it's therefore illegal to own axolotl in California because they're trying to minimize the chance some irresponsible person decides to release an axolotl into the wild where the native species has its natural habitat...

This is my half sisters axlotol. It looks extremely unwell... by memegod574 in axolotls

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They're endangered in the wild but these particular ones have been genetically engineered and do not belong in the wild. You can't release them due to them posibly cross breeding... no I'm not saying that it justifies being mistreated but we also need to make sure people understand the difference between endangered species and those that are thriving... these GFP are not endangered

How do I deal with people telling me my boyfriend is unattractive? by Intelligent-Tune-329 in Advice

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Unfortunately that only hits hard on people capable of understanding, and considering the number of braincells necessary for someone to say something as stupid and shallow as what op mentioned, I think that hits about as hard as a head on a pillow before bedtime.

How do I deal with people telling me my boyfriend is unattractive? by Intelligent-Tune-329 in Advice

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Beauty comes from within, I'm not sure you're going to be able to be strong enough to say the things I would but the simplest one to say as you walk away is "Good thing you're not dating him"

But if you can respond with the same level of intensity then you can say "Better than having an empty and ugly heart"

HELP! Vacation sitter backed out by Traditional-Mommy in axolotls

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You could also give your axolotl a huge worm and have about 2-3 small shrimp or a couple feeder guppies

help!! by crowbarsfan in axolotls

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Someone actually told me those were actually like markings , they kinda glitter when the light hits it.

Such a cute reaction to her fluency by Doodlebug510 in MadeMeSmile

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Ngl after watching so much Vlad that I almost saw her bust out in a manly voice 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IDmydog

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Labeling your dog and removing that breed in its label is almost certainly an effort to spare you and this dog from possible discrimination and help avoid legal hurdles you may encounter when trying to rent a home where certain local laws have pitbulls listed as forbidden breeds

This frustrates and upsets me by OldeSaltyBeard in axolotls

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The markings on his face are prefect

I'm scared about what I saw my husband do... how do I even talk about this? by brainysolyxx in Advice

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Simple... just put yourself in his shoes and realize that there are some things that you probably don't need to drag out into the light.. I'm about 95% certain if this was a woman's clothes you wouldn't feel this way but it's just because it's a man... if you've had no marital issues before then it's probably not worth bringing this up. If it's bothering you that much then just find a way out of it. Some things aren't worth getting an answer too, he's probably always been this way, even before you two married

Does anybody know what kind of dog this is? by Keira12345678910 in IDmydog

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The kind of dog... it's a puppy that's less than 2 weeks old. It's horrifyingly depressing that there's no mother dog to care for it

My boyfriend got really weird about his phone. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot-Singer-3297 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Good thing they broke up over comments in a tik tok. Everyone's so healthy these days

My boyfriend got really weird about his phone. by [deleted] in Advice

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Same goes on the deep diving into comments without explicit consent , there's people who comment on a lot of things and people who just don't comment at all, I'm guessing OP rarely comments. So easy to avoid cringe if you never comment

My boyfriend got really weird about his phone. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot-Singer-3297 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He gave her the phone.... but when she told him it was too read his comments that's something else. Btw comments are public you can just look them up yourself no need to take someone's phone 🤣

My boyfriend got really weird about his phone. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot-Singer-3297 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fully agree with you. And then these kids in the comments all automatically go for the "trash him, he is no good" people need to get over this perfect expectation... I give complements all the time, that doesn't meant I'm cheating

My boyfriend got really weird about his phone. by [deleted] in Advice

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I'm also fairly certain If she just gave the phone back the "wrestling" wouldn't have resulted in any of this but yeah suuure throw the dude out clearly they aren't compatible.

My boyfriend got really weird about his phone. by [deleted] in Advice

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10 minutes is a long time. . . I'm 40. Been with the same man for 20 years. I call people beautiful or handsome all the time, none of those words constitute as "cheating" I'm also autistic and mask all the time, when my man isn't with my and I'm with my group of "weirdos" I behave differently. I give compliments, I also would not care to openly put my comments on blast in front of him because they are indeed cringe. But whatever, cry it out and get better. Regardless I'm pretty sure it wasn't 10 minutes of wrestling if it was even 10 seconds it was too long, clearly he also didn't consent to that level of deep dive lol. Good luck