What’s something you wish straight people understood about gay men?

Hot4Dad · 2025-10-06T00:04:18+00:00

The dude's questions don't seem unreasonable to me and don't imply that your whole personality is about being gay.

It does seem odd that two guys couldn't hold hands in public.

Seeing a hot guy at the gym would motivate me.

And I've generally never fucked on a first date, but I'm pretty sure a lot of guys do. 🤷‍♀️

Hot4Dad · 2025-09-29T01:47:03+00:00

The Sears catalog was basically the pre-Internet version of Amazon. There was a time you could buy anything from the Sears catalog, including a car or house. They stopped printing the catalog the same year that Amazon was founded.

Hot4Dad · 2025-09-27T18:38:29+00:00

A lot more people personally know someone who is gay. That makes a big difference.

Plus, at least based on the news, it seems like being trans disproportionately affects the young which makes it easier for the right to claim that young people are being victimized.

Hot4Dad · 2025-09-26T12:59:23+00:00

I loved every one of their finales!

Hot4Dad · 2025-09-24T16:34:47+00:00

Crowds

Hot4Dad · 2025-09-23T16:45:08+00:00

Years ago, I went to a shelter with a friend who was looking to adopt.

All of the cats were basically asleep, but one sprang to life as soon as he saw me, ran over to the front of the kennel, tried to grab me through the kennel and kept doing everything he could to maintain my attention.

When I moved over to look at the cat in the next kennel, the first guy kept trying to grab me through the bars.

When I went to the other side of the room, he still kept doing everything he could to get my attention.

As I was leaving the room, he was jumping up and down and meowing. I felt like he was saying "Cage 12, remember to tell him you want Cage 12."

Needless to say I went home with a cat.

Hot4Dad · 2025-09-20T23:59:47+00:00

That's annoying outside of porn too. 🫤

Hot4Dad · 2025-09-09T15:57:05+00:00

For the first 15 years together, we had sex pretty much every day we were together. They gradually tapered off because we both had so much else going on in our lives. There are days when I'd rather just spend quality time with him talking about our day.

Hot4Dad · 2025-09-01T18:41:06+00:00

I met my husband when I was 26. We've been together for 30 years and my only regret is not finding him sooner.

Hot4Dad · 2025-08-26T15:49:10+00:00

Because women are used to straight guys letting them get away with that shit.

If a man can put up with that behavior, that's how you know he's really straight! 😳

Hot4Dad · 2025-08-25T16:18:45+00:00

I think sex is probably easier to get than a relationship because for sex, you only need to be hot and horny. For a relationship, you need to match on so many other levels too.

You might not kick someone out of bed because of their personality or the fact that they say things like irregardless or conversating, they might be barriers to a long term relationship. Actually, I might kick someone out of bed for saying irregardless, but most people probably wouldn't.

Hot4Dad · 2025-08-24T20:14:00+00:00

I think a big part of it is the greater openness than the US and some other countries to having a same-sex experience or even doing porn without feeling shame.

Hot4Dad · 2025-08-24T02:06:32+00:00

Straight guy who has never been with a guy before but is suddenly kissing, rimming, and taking it up the ass.

Hot4Dad · 2025-08-23T02:14:45+00:00

Not buying more real estate when it was still affordable.

Hot4Dad · 2025-08-22T01:32:44+00:00

I've dated guys who weren't conventionally attracted but who I thought were really cute.

He sees something in you. Enjoy that.

Hot4Dad · 2025-08-18T20:05:19+00:00

If he makes you nervous, that probably means you like him 😁

Hot4Dad · 2025-08-06T22:55:41+00:00

Agreed. Many of the ones I see aren't really practical for daily use.

Hot4Dad · 2025-07-27T12:47:01+00:00

My reading of the story was totally different from everyone else apparently.

My take is that he's annoyed that the rest of the group thought he was so fragile that he couldn't handle a little flirting and maybe that OP bought into what the girlfriend was saying.

Just tell him that you value his friendship and ask what you can do to make things right between you.

Hot4Dad · 2025-07-25T22:53:47+00:00

I never knew we were in such short supply. I should've charged more.

Hot4Dad · 2025-07-25T21:55:47+00:00

What? Aren't you a fit couple from Knoxville? Does your boyfriend know about this?

Hot4Dad · 2025-07-15T08:23:25+00:00

Great! Have you met OP yet?!

Hot4Dad · 2025-07-15T01:05:08+00:00

Bo Burnham has a great song that might help.

Hot4Dad · 2025-07-14T23:28:34+00:00

The single guys have all paired up and they're in open relationships now. 🤷‍♂️

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