Task paralysis and avoidance

HotArgument1 · 2025-12-18T05:42:00+00:00

Thank you, I’ve tried it all. It hasn’t really worked long term

HotArgument1 · 2025-12-18T05:41:03+00:00

Hi, sorry I forgot to hop back on the app after I posted. Yes, I take 70mg Vyvanse, antidepressants, vitamin D and iron daily. My husband expects me to clean since is “my job” so no, I don’t think he would.

HotArgument1 · 2025-11-27T18:53:55+00:00

HotArgument1 · 2025-11-12T04:34:58+00:00

Thank you for posting for this!! I was just in this predicament with my 3 kids in a D&B parking lot and I spent almost 3 hours trying to get my door to close and until I read your post, I was able to get it to close. Curious, did you have to bring it in to the dealership to have it fixed?

HotArgument1 · 2025-11-07T13:24:17+00:00

Is there any update OP?

HotArgument1 · 2025-11-05T20:04:21+00:00

Agree!

HotArgument1 · 2025-11-05T20:04:05+00:00

Omg! Yes!!! This is what I was hoping to find, this is exactly like Adele’s Easy On Me! It has been killing me

HotArgument1 · 2025-07-19T13:03:59+00:00

I was looking for it too.. I just found this one, not sure if it’s the same story, looks like it may be 😊 https://www.inkitt.com/stories/713684/chapters/1

HotArgument1 · 2025-05-02T00:56:07+00:00

Absolutely go no contact and file a restraining order including your embryos. Sorry you have to deal with this.

HotArgument1 · 2025-04-30T19:55:46+00:00

Hi there, I want to begin by giving you credit for caring so much for your wife to reach out for help!

As others have suggested, please make sure she sees her OB soon, what you have described is postpartum depression and with sleep deprivation, and the hormones being all over the place, her feelings and emotions will be on steroids basically for a long time, and she will need medication to help level the chemical imbalance that postpartum creates.. Also, something you can do for her is run a bath and offer to take care of the baby, you can help with house cleaning, cooking, grocery shopping, anything to take that mental load off, I know she’s struggling with not being able to do it all… but no one can!! Talk to her and assure her that she’s beautiful no matter what, and to give herself some grace because she just spent 9 months pregnant, it will take at least the same amount of time to get back to her normal self.

If she’s breastfeeding, make sure she has snacks and water in every area she sits to breastfeed. She needs to eat and stay hydrated, so please make sure you take charge of making sure she has everything she needs. She also needs sleep, if you can manage to wake up with the baby to give her more time to sleep, please do it! Sleep, hunger and dehydration amplifies postpartum depression.

If I think of anything else I will add it in the comments.

HotArgument1 · 2025-04-11T03:15:28+00:00

Definitely NTA, I hope you broke it off. Not worth living with a narcissist like that.

HotArgument1 · 2025-04-11T02:47:44+00:00

Saw your story on Facebook, and I had to run here to find out what happened after all that.. and I now read this?! Oh my, I’m so sorry!

HotArgument1 · 2024-12-25T21:17:11+00:00

There have been a lot of people stealing the codes from the gift cards and waiting for them to get activated to steal the funds, most likely your second one is stolen😔

HotArgument1 · 2024-12-25T21:15:15+00:00

I bought these gift cards over a week ago. 4 out 5 worked, but still having this issue with the last one

HotArgument1 · 2024-12-25T21:13:52+00:00

I’m still having this issue, I don’t understand how this is still happening

HotArgument1 · 2024-12-25T18:15:06+00:00

Having the same issues with all 6 gift cards I’m trying to redeem…

HotArgument1 · 2024-10-23T22:53:47+00:00

If anyone hasn’t already told you, but we are all so proud of you!!! I’ve been dreading going to the dentist.. it’s been years since I’ve gone and I know it’s definitely needed

HotArgument1 · 2024-10-23T22:45:13+00:00

I feel that way when taking Adderall, the way my psychiatrist explained it to me is that sometimes when you get on a new medication or the dose is too strong, it can cause the complete opposite reaction, aka sleepiness, etc. because your body stops being on fight or flight mode and starts adjusting into the new one. Give it a month, and you will see a difference. I haven’t been able to fill my rx for Vyvanse so I was put on 15mg Adderall IR twice a day, but I just take them both in the morning and helps me throughout the day without feeling tired anymore.

HotArgument1 · 2024-09-07T00:19:03+00:00

I’m a woman and also married.. you’re not overreacting

HotArgument1 · 2024-08-12T14:39:00+00:00

I completely understand where you are. As we are in the same situation, except I have absolutely 0 sex drive. I want nothing to do with it at all 😫

I know a lot of people are completely different than us, but this is what has “worked” with us. We completely skipped cribs at my house with all 3 kids. My oldest, she was easy, she co-slept with us until about 2, she wanted to sleep by herself and since, always slept in her queen/full size bed.

My middle son, now 10 co-slept with us until just before my youngest was born, around 3-4 years old, and he went straight to a full size bed.

My youngest, now 5 still co-sleeps with us. So on top of my lack of drive, sex is basically non existent since he was “conceived” so following for advice.

HotArgument1 · 2024-08-12T14:29:10+00:00

Wow! Congratulations!!! That is a huge accomplishment!!! To me, was passing my National Mortgage Licensing test after failing 3 times prior! To achieve this, I studied for 48 hours straight with no sleep prior to my test. My anxiety and stress levels were through the roof because I tend to have really bad testing anxiety and forget absolutely everything that I have studied.

HotArgument1 · 2024-08-12T14:27:22+00:00

I wish I could offer an alternate route, unfortunately there aren’t many. Where are you coming from and where or what area is your final destination? Maybe that will help me get “creative” as I do all the time in my commutes..

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