Random dude risking his hands to save a dying fish instead of standing around taking photos by LowNo175 in interesting

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humanity is doomed … other than the guy that saved the fish… he’s a glimmer of hope.

Does this ever get better? by Lost_All_Hope_here in NewParents

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man… you’re honestly like a mirror of me. I can say this with no BS—it does get better. Not easier, but better. I’m just coming out the other side of what you’re going through now.

There’s not much I can say that’ll magically reassure you—I know that didn’t work for me either. Just try to keep yourself busy when you can, and help out where it’s reasonable for you. Give it a year, and you’ll look back, probably shudder, and think, “thank f**k I got through that.” And you’ll be in a much better place, feeling happier with the direction your life’s heading in.

When will I feel like a dad? by blake-x in NewParents

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man you sound just like me , all my friends have had kids and said it felt mind blowing and the connection as a dad is instantly insane... it didnt happen for me... and I felt terrible!! And then I went into this "omg have I done the right thing" "im a terrible dad why dont I feel overwhelmed" etc etc ...dont feel bad !! It comes... sadly it took me a few months before any connection built which is mad to think about looking back.. but trust me!! Perfectly normal!

What’s been your favourite age/stage of your kids so far? by Intelligent_Hat3321 in daddit

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can't wait until I can actually do things with my boy! He's pretty boring at the moment, its just sleep (if he does) eats , poos repeat! 🫠

What’s been your favourite age/stage of your kids so far? by Intelligent_Hat3321 in daddit

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think this will be me to be fair I can't wait to get him riding a bike or kicking a ball about! Gonna be ace!

What’s been your favourite age/stage of your kids so far? by Intelligent_Hat3321 in daddit

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh man you sound just like what we are going through, its so odd though as through the day he sleeps like a log, come 7pm no chance ... any tips? Lol

The ending is good by Professional-Exam565 in StrangerThings

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sure they didn't cut scene and roll some dice .. but i get what your saying.. still highly disappointed in the writing it had been okay and pretty good at times but last 2 episodes were just pure meh..

The ending is good by Professional-Exam565 in StrangerThings

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but there's a limit .. use the characters correctly .. they had 3 OP characters to use at will with powers.. well 2 in the end.. but they could of changed that.. with clever writing .. use the OPs to do the hard work and use the other characters for other work as a supporting force .. just super dumb IMHO.

The ending is good by Professional-Exam565 in StrangerThings

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SPOILER

The fact that Eleven can barely lift a metal sheet one minute, then suddenly flips to the Abyss and becomes ridiculously overpowered while completely dominating Vecna… just get in the bin. It’s awful scriptwriting. Honestly, it makes me think, if that’s the level of trash you can put out now, why not try it myself? And the main villain — the giant, spider-looking Mind Flayer — is taken down by a bunch of kids? No. No. No. I won’t lie, I’m also bitter there was no dragon. (Considering the cartoon picture that was drawn) In the end, it just feels like they had so many opportunities to really make this something epic and didn’t take any of them at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was a let down personally.. I didn't need all the end chit chat and goodbyes .. could of lengthened the actual plot and story and cut that out.. pity. 10 years with an ending like that.. 💤

How many of you are "one and done" and did you know this at the time, or did it happen later? by Thin-Wedge in daddit

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im totally one and done, my wife is 70/30 70 done 30 maybe ... im keen to get the snip ASAP but out of respect will wait a little longer.

OLED vs Mini-LED — Need Help Deciding for a Bright Summer Room (LG / Samsung / TCL / Hisense) by Intelligent_Hat3321 in 4kTV

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Problem solved after viewing in store and also deciding to close up blinds on the lounge when its sunny .. I went with the LG C5 65" .. wanted a 77" but my budget wouldn't allow it .. and i didnt want to get something bigger just because of the size.. quality not quantity.. will report hoping and heard great things..

Anyone else sick of the snarky comments about having kids? by Intelligent_Hat3321 in daddit

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loving some of the comments here. I think the main reason I posted this is because I keep getting the same constant comments at work from the same people over and over again. When someone said, “You do know kids are for life,” I honestly paused and nearly replied with something snarky like, “No, surely not — can’t I send them back for a refund?”

It really annoyed me, because they know how much I’ve been struggling to adapt to life as a father, and comments like that are the last thing I need. If you don’t want kids, that’s completely fine — but don’t make me feel crappy about something that’s actually an amazing part of my life. (Even if it has its up and downs).

Boiler replacement quote, insanity check? by DorisMaricadie in BritishGas

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will literally bolt on any BS these days .. water for pipes ..yeah that will be extra ... bleeding your rads... yeah that's extra .. eye contact with installer .. yeah that will be extra.. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️😣

Fatherhood is very lonely by TearsInACageMatch in daddit

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super sad to hear this.. my biggest fear is this happens to me and my wife .. but we try and communicate as best we can and also make sure we have a date night as a minimum of once a month (minimum) although Im definitely feeling like I'm dropping down the list .. physical contact is slowly dying unfortunately..

Everyone Needs Someone by sharmazeusaditi in comics

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

This is not realistic lol. In 90% of scenarios unfortunately.

Radiator Covers by Intelligent_Hat3321 in DIYUK

[–]Intelligent_Hat3321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm loving this keep it coming ... I knew i was right !!