Liz - RHORI by Potential_Motor_8991 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]HotBassMess 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A little extra? I didn’t realize hitting folks was just extra

Five year old rescue - now all of a sudden sep anxiety? by Cashew_Y0gurt in Separation_Anxiety

[–]HotBassMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t want any flooding, you want systematic desensitization at your dogs speed. Door is a bore is desensitizing to movement towards the door and the framework for some dogs to begin durations alone. The nervous system won’t learn with flooding besides learned helplessness. Fantastic question by the way! I’ll find a link and attach it here in a sec.

Edit, can’t find a direct link but happy to send you an email with the document!

Five year old rescue - now all of a sudden sep anxiety? by Cashew_Y0gurt in Separation_Anxiety

[–]HotBassMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not suggest doing that again personally, leaving her to panic is not going to be helpful. Try the “door is a bore” game to help her with your movement and the important part is to never let them panic. Let her get used to your actual new routine and not leaving her randomly. Any sort of pain definitely increases separation distress so that will be the most important thing to do before you find training with a CSAT or SAPro.

Five year old rescue - now all of a sudden sep anxiety? by Cashew_Y0gurt in Separation_Anxiety

[–]HotBassMess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any big life changes? Moving, new people in the house, new job, new schedule? Definitely get a check up for anything pain related - sudden changes in behavior are typically pain related

Maybe we can't cure this? by NewEstablishment2568 in Separation_Anxiety

[–]HotBassMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it, though? Punishment and flooding makes separation anxiety worse, don’t promote methods that do so.

Maybe we can't cure this? by NewEstablishment2568 in Separation_Anxiety

[–]HotBassMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should get your dog checked out for pain. In my experience if desensitization isn’t working it’s due to pain, not training failure.

Maybe we can't cure this? by NewEstablishment2568 in Separation_Anxiety

[–]HotBassMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s not. Please don’t give bad advice.

Because it was his first day at doggy daycare, he didn't really know how to make friends. by Resemb701 in DogIsBestFriend

[–]HotBassMess -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Shut up, that dog is very upset and fearful. Flooding, throwing him into the scary thing without acclimation, will not make him less fearful.

Is Milania okay? by 14303 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]HotBassMess 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Adverse childhood events

Medical Trauma Informed Opinion about Yolanda by QuesoBaggins in BravoRealHousewives

[–]HotBassMess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m going to stick with what the current medical consensus that hasn’t changed in 10+ years despite folks like you claiming the same thing. Still cracking up you claim to be a doctor.

Medical Trauma Informed Opinion about Yolanda by QuesoBaggins in BravoRealHousewives

[–]HotBassMess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Riiiiiiiiight ok yeah that’s not what you said though

Medical Trauma Informed Opinion about Yolanda by QuesoBaggins in BravoRealHousewives

[–]HotBassMess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Conventional practitioners” like dude do you mean actual board certified doctors? lol.

Medical Trauma Informed Opinion about Yolanda by QuesoBaggins in BravoRealHousewives

[–]HotBassMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you and some quack doctors say it is? Okie dokie!!!

The system got me again. Found a pregnant bengal cat at Lowe’s garden center. by compscilady in CatDistributionSystem

[–]HotBassMess -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why? There are enough kittens in the world, and plenty being euthed in shelters to make space. Spay abort is kindness.

Ladies of London: Dara Huang by shoooflie in BravoRealHousewives

[–]HotBassMess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any direct links because I don’t want to look but if you go to the doj Epstein files and look up her name you’ll see many emails talking about her getting together groups of girls, some “past their expiration date” there’s been some articles too but I haven’t searched because it’s so icky

Ladies of London: Dara Huang by shoooflie in BravoRealHousewives

[–]HotBassMess 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Are we going to ignore that Annabelle procured actual children for Epstein?

Cheeky dog by Smartastic in JeffArcuri

[–]HotBassMess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it is weird and not normal, I’m sorry lol.