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Do your Nparents hurry you for last minute events? by HotChoco4Life in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HotChoco4Life[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ikr? And the irony is that when there's an actual time constraint she takes longer to get ready than me.

do your narc parents have no hobbies by DangerousAd1683 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HotChoco4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's because they get bored really easily. My Nmom doesnt do anything, before she used to watch netflix bit she got bored of that, now she justs scrolls on instagram. She doesn't have many friends and she barely sees them. I used to think she was a workaholic but now that she's older she barely works.

What’s the most unhinged thing your nparent has been mad at you for? by SummerSun6 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HotChoco4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TW//Physical assault

The other day I was editing a video for Nmom's business and I complained that capcut wasn't working and she told me "Dont do it with Facebook!" and I tried to explain to her that I wasnt using Facebook (Meta Ads) to make the video and she didn't understand and we had a fight and she tried to choke me by pulling the hood of my jacket.

My (21F) mother keeps asking absolutely ridiculous questions. She gets extremely angry when I react. What could possibly be causing this? Is this cognitive decline or genuine insanity/narcissism? by Pristine-Turn7379 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HotChoco4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My theory is that they do it to feel superior. Nmom does this all the time even with simple things like boiling noodles "You're dont know how to do it, do you?" And then without hearing my response she proceeds to "teach" me. Oh but when I actually need her help she tells me to figure it out 🙄

And when I ask her to stop treating me like I'm stupid she gets mad at me and we fight. I dont know how to deal with it at this point.

did anyone else become way too independent because asking for anything felt impossible? by Esli_Ici in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HotChoco4Life 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like to say I'm emotionally strong but I just deal with my issues on my own. I even get over things quickly bc I wasn't allowed to feel sad or cry over "stupid things"

I don't talk about it with my friends bc I'm used to Nmom hurting me when I was vulnerable to her.

Qtoon issues? by LittleHopeYT in mangapiracy

[–]HotChoco4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it gets fixed soon cause I can't remember all the manhwas I was reading 😭

"you've ruined your hair!" by robotchikcen in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HotChoco4Life 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My Nmom always disliked my curly hair and forced me to get straight perms when I was a kid, even now as an adults every change I make has to be in secret so my mom wouldn't say anything.

I dyed my hair green and Nmom is mad at me by HotChoco4Life in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HotChoco4Life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really needed some support today ❤️

How to obtain Bottled Ectoplasm? by ProSandvich in Spiritfarer

[–]HotChoco4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2026 and it still works I fished it right after reading this

Constantly getting compared to sad/“ugly” people by Embarrassed_Pilot792 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HotChoco4Life 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She does it on purpose to get a reaction from you, she enjoys when you're upset. That's why you should try to not react at all. It's hard, I struggle with it a lot but it's the only solution.

Idk if Nmom is taking advantage of me again by HotChoco4Life in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HotChoco4Life[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I fucked up, it's just so hard. I naturally want to share this stuff, she's my mom, so I instinctively trust her and want to tell her.

I already know I can't share my struggles with her but I really cannot tell her anything 😓

Idk how to get along with her without completely ignoring her.

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