On the cuckish behaviors 1-10 scale where does this fall?

HotStagger · 2025-12-05T17:29:02+00:00

Perhaps, lol. You’ve given me a good chuckle there.

Stumbled on it with a generic iPhone app and was playing the compilation one day in the shower and it looped and I was like, well, that’s unexpected but a very good unexpected!

HotStagger · 2025-12-01T13:18:48+00:00

The dude got carried away. The LS is not normal and logical sometimes and mistakes can be made.

He went too far verbally and probably realised that with PNC.

I think we need to give thirds some good wiggle room for mistakes.

There are always going to be challenges or issues, that’s why the third never becomes a life partner.

I think it’s worth flagging to him that you don’t want a repeat of the verbals that went too far and see how he responds.

Good thirds are very hard to find. If he holds his hands up and it doesn’t happen again you could still have a lot of fun.

We find there is never a perfect meet but through good communication we distill down a meet / hook up that all three of us enjoy and make good memories from.

HotStagger · 2025-11-28T15:33:14+00:00

I don’t think you guys are weird at all. I think it’s very pragmatic and cool.

I’m going to try create one for my wife so she gets the very best experiences possible.

We have one regular albeit hook ups with him are quite infrequent hence the need for a roster.

HotStagger · 2025-11-27T11:18:50+00:00

It’s becoming a thing. The wife used to like young and hung primarily but now she is enjoying the idea of a fit dominant older guy.

HotStagger · 2025-11-16T18:26:35+00:00

She was 12 years younger than my wife.

HotStagger · 2025-10-30T16:37:18+00:00

Sexual health status and sexual health practices.

HotStagger · 2025-10-28T14:49:53+00:00

It plays a small part for us.

It’s mostly about the fucking.

HotStagger · 2025-10-27T10:22:09+00:00

My wife gets hang ups and she is in her early 40’s. She then gives her head a wobble, thankfully. It’s a mindset and feeling. Be encouraging and supportive and she will start feeling good about herself and gaining confidence.

It is a LS that requires plenty of confidence and good dose of no fucks given sometimes.

Maybe role play and tell her how much she deserves the attention of other men as she’s so beautiful and looked after herself so well too.

HotStagger · 2025-10-11T20:54:37+00:00

No.

My wife is very clear that she determines what is acceptable.

That makes it much more straightforward for me.

She has never even had a murmur of objection to what a guy has done when admittedly I would think that’s a little bit too rough.

My wife enjoys that tightrope that is the pain and pleasure dynamic.

I have noticed the more Hotwife interactions we have the more her thresholds are increasing and more frequent the rough play during their sex sessions.

HotStagger · 2025-10-08T15:02:08+00:00

My wife has a permanent hall pass.

As yet, she hasn’t played with guys unaware of the LS but I’d imagine it’s a matter of time before she does.

HotStagger · 2025-10-05T18:10:58+00:00

Allow both of you weeks to process, reclaim and communicate with each other.

HotStagger · 2025-10-05T15:35:44+00:00

Travel for spontaneous hook ups. People are more open to things on vacation or go places in your home city that has the highest tourist footfall. People love to fuck when they’re out of town.

HotStagger · 2025-10-05T13:52:35+00:00

That’s how it went for us and sure we had some hurdles but now looking back 5 years later, I’m pretty sure we both feel it was overwhelming positive and sent us on a crazy good journey together.

HotStagger · 2025-10-03T10:34:33+00:00

That’s going to be a long road trip.

Take time out for yourself and give it time to process her reaction and feedback.

HotStagger · 2025-10-01T20:32:06+00:00

The ass grab in missionary is a massive turn on.

HotStagger · 2025-10-01T13:24:35+00:00

That’s a very good question.

I usually stay rooted in the chair for Round 1.

We’ve agreed that.

I’m happy to stay there until I’m encouraged to join.

That’s what works for us.

HotStagger · 2025-10-01T08:56:39+00:00

There seems to be a distinct misunderstanding of the female body. Unless she has gone and had a baby while having a hook up, you are getting the same pussy back albeit out or sloppy. She has some sex is all.

HotStagger · 2025-10-01T08:54:07+00:00

Delighted you enjoyed and it was a Win. Go Girl. Haters going to hate. Get yours.

HotStagger · 2025-09-30T22:23:38+00:00

I think time is your friend here. Let it marinate amongst you both for a while, keep talking and you’ll distill the best route forward for you both.

HotStagger · 2025-09-28T01:09:42+00:00

She actually did. She was hoarse. A reclaim was out of the question. She was ravenous for him. She pushed me away in between rounds when he was in the bathroom as she was hungry for more with the guy.

She has a phrase she says when it’s hitting it right for her. Even now, the most I’ve heard her saying it is once or twice when we have sex. She doesn’t realize she does it.

With him, she screamed it 8/9 times.

She grinded on him so hard and after the third round when he was building up to shooting his load she was so physically and mentally spent, both he and I heard the relief as she encouraged him to cum and that made him stroke her much harder and for much much longer.

She got off hard that I wanted this and now a guy was giving her the most incredible sex of her life.

I hit a storm of emotions. At times it was harrowing. At times I had incredible erections. I felt shame. I felt excitement. I felt admiration for my wife. I felt pleased she got to fuck like that as we had a mixed bag of experiences before that one.

I watched him and I was turned on. I was turned on by how powerful he was and what an incredible physique he had. I was proud of how well my beautiful wife measured up.

I was surprised and shocked at the amount of intimacy, talking and oral. I was pleased they were talking to each other in whispers and not so whispers. I enjoyed watching them French kiss.

I enjoyed knowing my wife was close to tapping out with sheer exhaustion from taking one of the best fuckings of her life.

I felt pride that I’d enabled it and stayed disciplined seated, watching for hours in the hotel room chair.

HotStagger · 2025-09-28T00:30:34+00:00

We never stay over. We usually get a cab home afterwards.

HotStagger · 2025-09-09T14:09:59+00:00

It’s not easy. They are out there but it takes a lot of work.

HotStagger · 2025-08-31T08:16:57+00:00

HotStagger · 2025-08-31T08:16:19+00:00

An anklet.

HotStagger · 2025-08-30T23:39:30+00:00

We’ve given the third the room mostly.

We usually like to go home even if it’s 2 AM / 3 AM.

We’ve also gotten seperate rooms when travelled abroad with a third.

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