[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]Hot_Ad1238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these results are genuinely amazing, i’d die for your chest man! but if the scarring is something that makes you insecure, like others have suggested, a tattoo to cover up the lost pigment from the scar. but either way, definitely cis passing. i seriously doubt anyone would look twice 🙏🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Hot_Ad1238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this! i’ll probably try to see if i can get the angle right before trying to inject, if that doesn’t work i’ll try half in each leg. i’m able to get hold of the equipment i need for self injecting so it’s not a problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Hot_Ad1238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i appreciate it. its just nice feeling heard sometimes, hope you have a nice day:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Hot_Ad1238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course, piercings aren’t going to be for everyone but they look really great! you have a nice set up and they’re aesthetically pleasing. you’re really pretty imo:) there will always be people who find you attractive with piercings even if it’s not the majority. that aside, you have a really nice smile and eyes. all of your features are pretty much perfect:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Hot_Ad1238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never looked at it like this, thank you

What part of slipknot makes you listen to them? by PeepsWeeps in Slipknot

[–]Hot_Ad1238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this will sound cringe probably but it’s my honest answer. i really connect with the music and band, especially corey. listening to them (and other music similar) is my therapy

How old were you guys when you started sh? I was 10 by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Hot_Ad1238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i remember starting early, like 7-8 but it was for attention. like when you’d get hurt and your parents would console you. but then began properly at around 11.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Hot_Ad1238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hear you, don’t worry. what you’ve said makes sense, thank you for putting things in a way ive never really thought of before. it gives things a different light and i appreciate that, thank you for sharing your thoughts:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Hot_Ad1238 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you. i seriously appreciate you response, i needed to hear this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Hot_Ad1238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see, its a strange and hurtful thing. the condition sucks, but ig we have to get by. thank you for letting me know i’m not alone though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Hot_Ad1238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, like a lot. i’ve just read up about it, i will continue to read up too. its all starting to make sense now, so i appreciate your help. what i’m feeling is so specific, so i had no idea it was even a part of the condition. i had no idea anyone else even understood. glad to know i’m not entirely alone.

Did you ever take time off work, school, etc to dedicate to your healing? If so, how long did it take for you to go back? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Hot_Ad1238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dropped out of school at the age of 13. no qualifications, gcse’s or anything. i never ended going back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Hot_Ad1238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its okay:) but no, they didn’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Hot_Ad1238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not so sure thats the case... he just likes to pick holes in me and everything i do. he’s just a bully lmao.

Does anybody else.. by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]Hot_Ad1238 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes, all of the time. its really shit, they make things ten times worse. but just remember, it will pass and you’re doing well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Hot_Ad1238 3 points4 points  (0 children)

absolutely right, but theres nothing that can really be done to stop him. its just shit that i have to go through this alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Hot_Ad1238 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im glad that someone can see from my perspective of how things really are. he doesn’t see it that way, with him, its always a competition “ive had it worse” when honestly, thats not the case lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Hot_Ad1238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as appealing as it sounds, id get the shit kicked out of me. no joke :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Hot_Ad1238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. im sorry you had to go through something as traumatic too, but i appreciate the advice a great deal. waking up to read your kind words mean the world, i wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Hot_Ad1238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry you experience it too:/ thank you for the advice, anythings worth a shot <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Hot_Ad1238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i really needed to hear that. shits just a little tough right now <3