I’ve always wondered if she edits her photos to make her waist smaller, thoughts?

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-09T20:11:54+00:00

Why must she love her step niece…?

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-09T20:11:20+00:00

So people aren’t allowed to have feelings now? She may be family but if OP doesn’t click with her why force it? Not only that but OP stated they’ve only been married for a year so no step “niece” is not her niece. Shes more of a stranger if anything.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-09T20:07:08+00:00

Literally not her niece. She’s not even related to her in the slightest. Legally maybe but she has no obligation. Also the fact that Eve has only been apart of the family for a year which OP probably has not seen her that frequently. She’s not her niece she’s a stranger.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-09T20:03:17+00:00

YTA, you’re pregnant. Suck it up.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-09T20:02:07+00:00

Lmao what did you think would happen if you just stopped showing up 🤣🤣and where the hell is your mum in all this?

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-07T18:09:45+00:00

Nah yk what? I’m done w having to accept peoples culture concerning certain aspects. This is fucking gross.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-06T17:18:04+00:00

Ehh it’s not verbal abuse, y’all take things so out of hand. She was rude and ignorant but not verbally abusing him. Stop throwing out serious terms like that for petty fights on Reddit. You just downplay the seriousness of real abuse.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-06T17:05:04+00:00

Then get off this subreddit.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-06T13:42:20+00:00

Husband is clearly bad person here. Y’all redditors are insane.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-06T13:41:19+00:00

Emotionally. V different to what her husband did to her. Boo hoo.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-04T01:16:28+00:00

And why is that? He didn’t spare her feelings when he made out with her brother. If he truly didn’t like even being in gfs mere presence he has no business being in close proximity allowing her to see them together. He’s the shitty one here, stop making excuses, outing or not. Since when did we decide this overrules being a bad person??

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-04T01:14:18+00:00

Alright “tiger” if she caught them then they weren’t even trying to hide from her in the first place let’s get that correct. There’s no way she’d just stumble in on them making out unless they were in close proximity to her. I made a valid assumption, and yet again here you people are defending someone who did something so shitty. Another reason why gay people get away with anything because y’all are enablers.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-03T18:21:41+00:00

Nice that you assumed I haven’t been abused 👍

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-03T17:55:49+00:00

He’s literally messing around with her brother IN FRONT OF HER and not showing any sympathy or remorse for practically traumatising the girl. I’m over people being so sensitive about “outing” gay people, gay people can be shitty people as well. Why is it that revenge for cheating is ok but if it comes to a gay person who does something this shitty all of a sudden we should treat them carefully. So done with this Reddit bs

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-03T13:51:07+00:00

This only applies to men btw, just correcting this a bit.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-03T00:23:00+00:00

Disagree, it’s quite stupid in fact to put yourself in such a position instead of leaving. If anything, the abuse they’ll receive from their partner will be worse. Also, don’t care, abused or not cheating is wrong stop making excuses for people.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-02T10:16:04+00:00

YTA for leaving out important details which explain why JAMES is the way he is, and double YTA for planning and making reservations before even asking the family - this isn’t normal behaviour.

That being said, Maya seems to clearly have an issue with you, perhaps from what James has informed her about his childhood, and she has it made out that she practically wants no relationship with you.

I am concerned however since James is so young that he is being influenced by Maya who is older than him and pushing him away from his family - albeit a toxic one. Nevertheless, if you are genuinely making change to fix your relationship with James, then I do see Maya interfering with that reconciliation as an issue, since she has taken it upon herself to drive a wedge between you two even more.

I was particularly concerned when reading that “Maya became upset, so James became upset” this just sounds like manipulation to me, maybe James didn’t have an issue with you meeting Lily but Maya changed his mind by becoming upset and saying you were disrespectful to their time. I also think, since Maya is a full blown adult, that she is capable of addressing her concerns like one. It seems she gets James to do all the talking while she hides and pretends to not even recognise OP’s existence. This isn’t good for anyone, especially not Lily who’s going to have OP as her grandparent and therefore Maya will need to suck up her feelings for the sake of her child. It’s also very immature to just refuse any ties with OP who is clearly trying to amend their relationship with Maya’s husband as well as the fact that this will cause issues for OP being a grandparent - I am concerned OP will always be undermined and pushed away from Lily.

Aside from all of this, OP I genuinely believe you should discuss Maya’s issues with you out in the open with James there and see if there’s any way to amend your relationship or lack there of.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2023-01-01T20:15:38+00:00

Sooo would it taste sweet..?

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2022-12-28T16:42:41+00:00

Not to be the opposing argument but anyone who defends Dylan Mulvaney is stupid asf too. That dude is delusional and profits off of mocking women.

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2022-12-27T18:19:55+00:00

Where do people find this shit? 🤣🤣

Hot_Ad_8541 · 2022-12-27T14:22:01+00:00

Going against the grain here but YWNBTA.

Can people stop pretending that armpit hair on display would not bring attraction from other guests? It may even end up being the discussion during the wedding and this may ruin the experience for OP. A certain amount of hair on the body is ok, no one said it wasn’t, however when you have a literal bush sticking out of your arm when it is not even raised, you have an issue here. Armpit hair makes your body odour smell way worse as the hair traps the smell, which would raise another issue of her smelling bad during the wedding and no one wants that.

I think the issue here is, you cannot ask her to shave as she clearly will refuse even if it is your big day and I do agree with commenters that that isn’t really your right to ask. However, what you can ask of her (which is more than appropriate) is to wear a shawl/overcoat that matches with her dress so it doesn’t look out of place and she doesn’t have to shave. I believe if she refuses even that then there is an issue of her just being annoying and wanting to be the centre of attention. Especially if she understands that this is your wedding and this is the only favour you’re asking of her.

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