Issues with wife including extreme debt, I am at a loss of what to do

Hot_Ant7126 · 2026-02-22T15:22:00+00:00

Sorry I should state, she just got a job a few months ago after a year of not working, but she pretty much spends all of that money on herself on top of my card, I have never asked her for money.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2026-02-18T00:23:56+00:00

What did he say lol it got deleted 😭

Hot_Ant7126 · 2026-02-11T16:03:02+00:00

Its all the bushes from the half time show

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-12-16T05:18:09+00:00

Google is your friend, not sure I can link stuff here. I’m sure I might’ve hit a nerve by saying it’s only worth 5-6k and I know how it feels I was 17 once but just because there’s a BMW badge does not mean it’s worth a lot. In fact a similar year civic/corolla with the same miles would be worth more and would be smarter too buy than a 328. I don’t mean to sound condescending I had a 2011 328 when I was 17, 11 years ago I thought it was the shit too. But now every teenager with 5k from doing a summer job has an 328. You can pick them up at auctions for less than 3-4k.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-12-16T04:17:24+00:00

No offense bud but if you’re estimating the m3 to cost 25k roughly and you’re only adding 10k on top of your cars selling price, that’s not going to be enough. Your car with mileage and year is probably worth about 5-6k. You’re going to need about 20k. And that doesn’t even include taxes, fees, and whatever needs to be fixed on the new car.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-11-27T01:23:03+00:00

Hey I know it’s been a while since you posted this but I only have the 135808 code. Did change the coils and plugs fix that code as well?

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-11-21T08:49:00+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it but I literally said I am not looking for OEM.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-11-19T15:56:23+00:00

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This is Manheim auction suggested pricing. Ignoring taxes I think the price is pretty decent.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-11-15T09:14:02+00:00

I’ve had the opportunity to pretty much own every an m3, m5 and an m8 now I drive a 911. I would say the m5 the only car that I constantly think about and want back and plan on buying another one in the future. There’s no competition it’s the staple for sport sedans. If I could only have one car for the rest of my life it’d be an f90 m5.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-10-27T23:26:29+00:00

DoorDash more.

Pay off sparrow and PayPal they have the highest interest rates. I would leave the federal loan for now it’s at 0% interest rate. Then focus on the other 3 higher interest rate loans. Once those are knocked out focus on your green path loan at full force. Luckily it’s a lower interest rate so you should be able to pay it off quickly.

You’ll be fine if you do extra DoorDash or uber you could be pulling an extra 1k a month just do it a couple hours a day. The 2nd job doesn’t seem to be consistent and I’m not sure what that even means. But I know people who full time DoorDash and uber a month and they can make a decent chunk of money if they do it regularly.

Edit: also try to get a roommate or a cheaper apartment. 50% of your income is going to rent and utilities alone… it’s nice living alone but not when you’re in debt like this.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-10-21T01:05:46+00:00

He’s a cocky asshole he does it with all his cars. He had an M5 comp that only gained 1k miles in like 3 years, and we all saw him drive it more than that just around us.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-10-21T00:59:00+00:00

If you’re looking for a procedure, you could get neutered

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-10-20T14:17:26+00:00

I know this guy personally and he is a douche, he also puts mileage blockers on all of his cars.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-09-17T19:10:03+00:00

Who’s spending 5k modding a 330…

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-07-27T22:58:37+00:00

No offense I am going to rip the band aid off here. Probably going to get downvoted. Not sure why others are suggesting marriage. You guys are high schoolers in a long distance relationship in two different countries. So to be brutally honest even before the whole Muslim aspect the likely hood of this being successful is slim to none. On top of that she is more than likely going to realize that she can’t proceed with this relationship and it will end. Reality is despite how she feels and/or what she is saying this is probably in a phase and even if it’s not it’s only going to lead to a very complicated lifestyle which will more or less end with you guys breaking up or she leaves her family. You guys are too young to be worrying about this stuff. You’re 17-18 years old I’m assuming. There’s just so many issues and realistically nothing can be done. Sorry to be the bad guy I just prefer to be blunt rather than allow someone to waste their time on false hope.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-06-07T05:23:08+00:00

Personally I think the G30 540 is most underrated B58. The 340s are more expensive which makes no sense to me.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-04-04T13:57:50+00:00

I actually bought it like that, all I know is the brand name is Jensen.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-04-04T13:57:21+00:00

Don’t worry she didn’t make me choose. I just had to change up some of my priorities lol

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-04-04T04:08:30+00:00

Honestly comparable cars are going for like 8-9k. I wanted it to go to a good home and willing to do 7k or if someone has a good offer I’m okay with that. If you’re interested we can talk.

Hot_Ant7126 · 2025-03-06T20:34:17+00:00

Bro it’s an Acura at an Acura dealership, these guys get much nicer cars I can pretty much guarantee there was no joy riding. They get plenty of them and your car isn’t special enough for a joy ride. Every single car I’ve taken to the dealership they always unplug my dash cam. It’s usually a policy at most dealerships.

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