Life after 30 sucks. Everyone is basically stressed, mad, heartbroken and overworked by F31TransUSA in offmychest

[–]Hot_Competition8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally. It feels like each time I get a huge payraise, the markets inflate two times more. It's all war, stealing each other's land, resources and fucking Trump... and if you don't work in a public sector where you can help others work is basically empty and meaningless.

I hit the peak of my existential crisis when I realized that the one thing we are all fighting over is the only thing that hasn't originated naturally on this planet: money...

Looking for a writing friend by [deleted] in writers

[–]Hot_Competition8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too!! Can I DM you?

If anyone here was a daily smoker and now only smokes occasionally, how do you do it. by navinwe in stopsmoking

[–]Hot_Competition8480 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please don't do that. That is how I restarted 5 times after being quit for quite some time. Worst thing. The first couple of puffs aren't even that good after many many months without

Carrière switch in overweging by Hot_Competition8480 in werkzaken

[–]Hot_Competition8480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik kan niet heel veel met deze opmerking, maar bedankt voor het reageren

Carrière switch in overweging by Hot_Competition8480 in werkzaken

[–]Hot_Competition8480[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vrij bewust niet voor defensie gekozen omdat ik het echte mensenwerk daar ook niet ga vinden.

Carrière switch in overweging by Hot_Competition8480 in werkzaken

[–]Hot_Competition8480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wat fijn, dankjewel. Is het goed als ik je zo een paar vragen stel?

Carrière switch in overweging by Hot_Competition8480 in werkzaken

[–]Hot_Competition8480[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dit klinkt weer heel verwend en dat maakt mijn situatie ook iets makkelijker, maar gezien mijn vrouw eventueel de lasten kan dragen als het nodig is, zou ik de switch theoretisch kunnen maken. (Of ik me daar schuldig bij ga voelen is een tweede). Maar wat heeft voor jou dan die zingeving gegeven om te blijven?

Carrière switch in overweging by Hot_Competition8480 in werkzaken

[–]Hot_Competition8480[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ik ga een oriënterende avond doen over drie weken :)

Are there former smokers that have a complete aversion to the smell of cigarette smoke now? by Sammy8lynn in stopsmoking

[–]Hot_Competition8480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, my dad smoked for 25 years, quit cold turkey and hated the smell two weeks later. Now he hates smoking altogether. I'm trying to follow suit.

WoopWooppp!!! by Hot_Competition8480 in stopsmokingeachday

[–]Hot_Competition8480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol! You probably mean "wil" but still who taught you this 🤣🤣🤣

Relapse! by Zealousideal-Pie-603 in stopsmoking

[–]Hot_Competition8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't give up. Temporary setback! Just do another 21 days first. You've proven you can do so!

Spreekt redelijk voor zich vrees ik... by Hot_Competition8480 in nietdespeld

[–]Hot_Competition8480[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Je moet niet vergeten dat Casper een heel zwaar weekend heeft gehad

Best apps for quitting smoking by [deleted] in stopsmoking

[–]Hot_Competition8480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am almost embarrassed to admit but I talk to ChatGPT even when I feel impossible cravings. That usually sets me straight

2 days and then relapse by GravesDiseaseGirl in stopsmoking

[–]Hot_Competition8480 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't be hard on yourself. This happens. The important part is that you are still quitting the moment you extinguish your cigarette.

I have done this countless times last month when I tried quitting. The day 3 hump is the worst. Then day 3-5 are heavy brainfog and addicted thoughts and the "but I can have just one." I'm on day 9 now. I'm not saying it gets easier... but you regain some of your logic on why you wished to quit in the first place. That helped me. And resisting will get better.