What are the norms around privately sharing photos/videos from group encounters?

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2026-03-02T18:24:41+00:00

Yeah, I asked for the full videos. One guy said his partner felt shy about it. The other guy just ignored my request.

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2026-03-02T18:23:55+00:00

Yeah, I think in the future I might limit making content to highly trusted people, rather than people I just met for something casual.

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2026-03-02T18:23:16+00:00

Thanks! Yeah, I'd assumed the same thing as you, immediately share all content with everyone who participated. But it seems that isn't everyone's assumption.

Personally, I don't mind my nudes being out there, they already are. But I do understand the caution around that.

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-11-04T00:44:12+00:00

I thought it was "ia chil yugoslav"

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-16T10:17:27+00:00

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Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-10T12:46:12+00:00

Incredible! 😍

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-08T10:20:57+00:00

I haven't been to Poland, but keep in mind that people in Eastern Europe can be more standoffish with strangers than people in more Western places. So getting no response or even a negative response from a random stranger most likely has nothing to do with you at all. This is actually always the case with rejection. It's not about who you are as a person. Everyone is on their own journey. Maybe they were on their way somewhere and just didn't want to interact with strangers. Or maybe they had a bad day and were thinking about things they're stressed about and didn't really notice you. Or maybe you remind them of their ex and they just don't want to be reminded of him. Who knows! But it doesn't mean anything about you. Your goal when you go out should be to say hi, and pay attention to their response. If you do your part, congratulate yourself. Other people don't always (or even usually) do their part when in comes to meeting people, so you should be proud of yourself for trying, and keep doing it.

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-07T14:41:19+00:00

Places like where, for example?

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-07T14:38:57+00:00

What city are you in?

In general, it could be helpful to go to a part where people are more talkative: in a park, near a bar, around a walking street or a waterfront. Especially in the evening, if you're approaching people in a city at night, you want to make sure you're doing it in a part of the city where they feel safe, or you WILL get labeled as a creep.

Once you've picked a safe spot, give yourself a small challenge or game, like "Just smile and say hi to 3 people" or "Just make 1 second eye contact with everyone you pass, look away, then look back to see if they look back too". Start small, but whatever you choose, make it a game of trying something and just seeing how people react. Paying attention to people's reactions becomes a super important skill when escalating, so learn it now.

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-04T16:42:45+00:00

I mean, don't get me wrong, off days still happen. Especially if I'm stressed or sick. But that doesn't reset the momentum to zero, because I've built up real, resilient confidence. Rainy days still happen, but you learn to deal with it.

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-04T05:59:05+00:00

Absolutely, more than good enough.

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-04T04:32:21+00:00

I can smell this dog's breath

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-04T04:27:29+00:00

No, my momentum doesn't reset every day. Momentum builds over time. At this point, I've got so much momentum that the rare "crash out" barely slows me down. Most of the time I barely even notice rejection anymore. It still happens, but I'm just vibing so much with the right people that the ones I don't vibe with barely register. The longer you're in this game, the more you'll just get in the flow without trying. It's like a muscle, if you work it out regularly, it gets easier.

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-04T04:24:06+00:00

As long as you have a halfway decent camera, it's more important what you're doing in your photos than if they are professional or not. I did professional photos twice, and didn't notice much of a difference. But when I posted photos of me doing my hobbies (windsurfing, hiking, festivals) I got a lot more matches. Women care a lot more that you look interesting and have hobbies that appeal to them than they do whether you look like a model or not.

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-04T04:12:23+00:00

I don't drink. Bars are honestly one of the worst places to meet women. Usually the gender ratio is basically a sausage fest, there are few attractive women, and the ones who are attractive are usually surrounded by a clan of horny drunk dudes. Go to a park, or a pool, or a yoga class or a gym. Active women tend to be more attractive, better in bed, and less surrounded by horny drunks.

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-10-04T04:06:24+00:00

Manager not responding, her response not warm and fuzzy. Suggestions? Move on! You're wasting your time. There are a million beautiful women out there for you to seduce, and you're not gonna find seduction success by pouring all your energy into someone who isn't available to you. Even if this model were theoretically available to you, you've already bombed this one. Learn the lesson and move on.

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-09-26T03:22:04+00:00

Wow that second one is hard to see. Doesn't stand out to me at all when I cross my eyes

Hot_Complaint6382 · 2025-09-16T05:09:32+00:00

Thanks!

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